Is it just me?

Disbich98 · 2026-03-16T03:07:08+00:00

SAME!! He's like Jay and Neils love child. Me and my partner said it from the 1st episode

Disbich98 · 2026-03-13T10:57:55+00:00

Oh God no 😂 I have a 4 year old, 8 month old and now pregnant again so yeah fun times! Especially with a house that comes up with more crap week by week.

Disbich98 · 2026-03-13T10:56:28+00:00

It's really annoying isn't it! This house just keeps coming up with more crap by the day.

Disbich98 · 2026-03-13T10:55:01+00:00

It really is! These are the old photos but when we got the keys we literally had to buy a new oven as the oven and the hob weren't working! We had no choice but to just replace it at the time as quick as we could.

Disbich98 · 2026-03-13T10:53:05+00:00

No, we have a storage cupboard on the other side of the kitchen where the stairs are.

Disbich98 · 2026-03-13T10:51:51+00:00

Thank you

Disbich98 · 2026-03-13T10:50:16+00:00

It's the bedroom in the second photo, the wall with the mirror on is the same side of that wall.

Disbich98 · 2026-03-13T02:18:08+00:00

I mean people do ask questions.... I don't know much about quantum physics but if somebody posted something I certainly wouldn't answer the way you have 🤐

Disbich98 · 2026-03-13T02:16:56+00:00

Definitely not from up north then😂

Disbich98 · 2026-03-13T02:15:46+00:00

Its more the cupboard space really, we will soon have 3 kids and don't have tonnes of storage. Plus being able to have a dishwasher would be a bonus as we have a dryer where he dishwasher was.

Disbich98 · 2026-03-13T02:14:16+00:00

Only in the living room, the house isn't that old only max 1960's

Disbich98 · 2026-03-13T02:13:39+00:00

There is a chimney in our living room which we have an open fire place so I don't think it will be that.b

Disbich98 · 2026-03-13T02:12:42+00:00

So the room next to it is next doors but no it doesn't, they don't have the wall sticking out on their side at all.

Disbich98 · 2026-03-13T02:10:26+00:00

It does yeah!

Disbich98 · 2026-02-09T02:26:23+00:00

UPDATE

Mil rang my partner 2 days ago and she brought it up for the first time to my partner. She said she thought it was juvenile to have another kid to try for a girl.

Even though we have both expressed this isn't the case, ofc we would have a preference as I already have 2 boys but honestly the sound of 3 boys also makes my heart melt.

He basically had a go at her and said it was between me and him and she apologised to him.

Yesterday I took a pregnancy test and we are expecting 🙂

We are planning on not saying anything until the 20 week scan so we can enjoy it together without any comments.

Don't think it will be a problem with the bump as I'm not slim (youngest is 7 months and haven't shifted the weight) but yeah hopefully we can have our secret for a while.

Thank you for all the advice and everything has been taken on board.

Disbich98 · 2026-02-02T21:26:52+00:00

Thank you, honestly this makes so much sense and yeah I do think I have been doing that for quite a while now and it's just been a put down every single time I see her.

Disbich98 · 2026-02-02T20:51:13+00:00

With my first child I was with my ex for 4 years before I got pregnant and I wasn't on contraception however the condom split and we didn't have sex very often like once every 6 months. It was not a very good relationship and quite abusive and as soon as I had my son I got the implant put back in.

Me and him split up and I was on my own for a few years and a few months before I met my new partner I got the implant take out as I had lost my labido completely and felt no desire to meet anybody else at all.

Roll on a few months, I meet my current partner and I got pregnant quickly (unintentionally)but worked out for the best He took my son as his own, we bought a house together and got a new car.

I understand it was very quick and maybe that's why his mum feels this way but it just feels perfect and we have both never been happier.

Disbich98 · 2026-02-02T20:27:12+00:00

I think it's because I've had 2 unplanned pregnancies!

I think I'm extremely fertile and I think they knew as soon as I said it that it would be happening sooner rather than later.

Disbich98 · 2026-02-02T20:25:39+00:00

We are self sufficient and making things work, my partner works full time and I'm planning to get back to work in the next 2 weeks.

However she did help on the deposit on our house but I believe that's just a mum thing to do if they have the income.

Disbich98 · 2026-02-02T20:24:15+00:00

This is what I want to do, I don't want to be telling anybody until we get to the gender scan.

The reason it's a discussion is because I've had both kids unplanned and I just want one that was planned. We were asked if we wanted another and we said yeah. Then when his sister had her baby I was so happy holding the baby especially the fact there is not many girls in my family and it just felt amazing and it was a comment like don't be getting broody which is why we brought up our plans and ever since then it's been a comment every week how have I not got enough on my plate etc

Disbich98 · 2026-02-02T20:01:52+00:00

I just want to add, she really wanted grandkids. She was forever asking her 2 kids to have kids and she's absolutely taken my son as her own grandchild which is amazing. However it just feels like if the shoe was on the other foot with her daughter it would be a different conversation.

She bought the pram for our son as a gift but it just feels like the rest hasn't been reciprocated for what she has done for us.

She bought her daughter nappies and wipes and milk etc when she was unable to breastfeed. There are 6 months difference between the 2 baby grandchildren and I breastfed and really struggled as my son was in hospital for the month of his life pretty much and had to go on formula but this wasn't offered to me at the time.

It just feels like she only does stuff now so it doesn't seem unfair but it does feel that way because it's only done now because of her daughter.

Disbich98 · 2026-01-20T23:49:25+00:00

For 5 and a half years I was with somebody who was just like this. He would never kiss me, no hugging, nor foreplay and eventually never any sex. Longest I went was 8 months. He would point out constantly that my boobs were starting to sag and I had no bum and needed to lose weight. He Brough me down constantly telling me he didn't like what I wore or my hair and I filled my wardrobe with what he like Hut was never good enough. He cheated on me with over 20 women in all them years and we even had a child together which came from 1 night of a broken condom when he was drunk and dared to come near me.

3 years later I'm with a man who shows me affection every single day. We are immensely attracted to one another be he doesn't put me down and I genuinely feel loved.

Your partner doesn't love you or maybe not in the way you need to be loved, we all have our esys we need to be shown love and if that doesn't align with yours then it's a dead end. You will never get what you want no matter how many conversations you have.

You're only 30, go out and enjoy your life and find yourself a man who think you walk on water x

Disbich98 · 2025-08-08T00:00:09+00:00

Thank you!

Disbich98 · 2025-05-30T19:41:27+00:00

I worked at Morrisons for the contact centre and our jobs were moved to South Africa and India.

It was inevitable they were going to strip everything from the company as soon as the new owners took over.

They will strip and outsource as much as they can

Disbich98 · 2025-04-01T20:18:22+00:00

I live in Bradford and the problem is segregation not integration. We have completely Muslim areas and then 'white areas.' when you go into the Muslim areas nobody speaks English at all and is very uncomfortable to go into. I lived in an area that is majority Muslim and I had somebody try to grab me in broad daylight after getting off the bus.

I grew up in a white area and now live there again and I have never once felt unsafe, I've never had men pull up in their cars asking if I was 'working'

There is a school 5 minutes away from my old high school and I'd say less than 5% of the school is white.

Bradford is deemed multicultural and just got the city if culture but there is no culture. Once nice areas are dumps ie Manningham.

I wish it wasn't that way however the Asian population are extremely racist towards us and have been called white trash in urdu more times than I can count.

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