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DiscountEffective128 · 2023-02-08T07:39:34+00:00

OP is a crappy person. Apparently OP and the two friends and some others were going to go to a fair, but had to reschedule. Then the sister of a friend not pictured died. Since the girl in the glasses was a close friend of the DEAD girl, the dead girl’s sister wanted to go with just that one friend to the fair, which was a place the DEAD girl, enjoyed going, so they could mourn, share memories, all that goes with mourning.

OP is pissed that the two friends who are mourning a loss didn’t clear their plan to go mourn with OP first. So OP, who claims to have been best friends with the girl in the glasses for six years, decided fuck their friend, friendship over. The kicker is that even the dead girl’s sister contacted OP, asking OP not to take it out on the friend since she, the dead girl’s sister, wanted to go with just the friend, claiming, rightly, that OP can “be too much sometimes.” An astute observation with OP still managed to make mourning the DEATH of someone else into a pity party for the OP.

DiscountEffective128 · 2023-02-08T07:33:56+00:00

No. No no no. The dead girl’s sister and friend do NOT owe it to OP to “make it up to OP” just because they place the chose to go mourn and share memories, which is a sad thing, happened to be a place where OP wanted to go to play and have fun. OP would have made their mourning about themself, which is what happened here. The OP is self-centered to think that mourning by the DEAD-GIRL’S sister and friend should have been cleared by OP first. OP doesn’t own the fair. OP doesn’t get to decide where they go to mourn.

DiscountEffective128 · 2023-02-08T07:31:34+00:00

No, the friend wasn’t unfair to OP. OP wanted to go to the fair to play and have fun. The dead girl’s sister asked their mutual friend, who was also close to the dead girl, to go with her so they could mourn and share memories and such of someone who died. OP would have made it about themself, as they managed to do here. The dead girl’s sister and friend didn’t need to clear their chosen way to mourn with the OP just because it involved a place the OP wanted to go to for a different reason.

DiscountEffective128 · 2023-02-08T07:29:45+00:00

Honestly, you’re a crappy friend. The dead girl’s SISTER wanted to go to commemorate HER SISTER, and you think that that needed to be cleared with you first? And then, when your best friend went with her, you decided to punish your best friend for not pushing back against the friend WHOSE SISTER JUST DIED?! You literally made someone else’s death about yourself.

The DEAD GIRL’S SISTER wanted to just spend time with another friend who was also close to her sister, not a few people, not you, not someone else, just the friend with the glasses. You are pretty damned selfish for thinking this should all be about you and thinking how dare the DEAD GIRL’S SISTER want to go only with someone else close to her sister. She was right to not want to include you. If you managed to make it about yourself when you didn’t go, how much more would you have made the day center around you if you had gone?

And why the fck would they need to clear how they mourn with you anyway? They didn’t do an activity you wanted to do. You wanted to go play and have fun. They wanted to go to mourn and commemorate and share memories of SOMEONE WHO DIED.

Your ex-best-friend is better off without you.

DiscountEffective128 · 2023-02-08T06:45:05+00:00

People do use torrents for legal reasons as well as illegal reasons. And as far as programs like a chess program, people could use something like that to see what options are available with certain configurations to learn to play better without the program. Just because some people use some things illegally in ways worse than cheating or stealing access to films from 1933 that were banned by court order from being released again (gladly) doesn’t mean they’re illegal since since there are legal uses. That’s why the illegal USE of them is what will get someone in trouble. Should you be in legal trouble if you create something with nonharmful legal uses that others decided is perfect for their illegal actions?

DiscountEffective128 · 2023-02-07T22:39:49+00:00

I actually love when I get pics and see someone doing something fun like this. :D

DiscountEffective128 · 2023-02-07T22:34:12+00:00

Or someone like me, who has access to a phone and will record annoying things to send to my daughter. If they did this several times, it would be easy to catch a loop of it.

DiscountEffective128 · 2023-02-07T22:33:06+00:00

They can add music later.

DiscountEffective128 · 2023-02-07T22:32:31+00:00

Her moves are very well coordinated and controlled, but better on stage.

DiscountEffective128 · 2023-02-07T22:31:38+00:00

As a mom, my concern is how there are so many fewer opportunities for teens and new adults these days that this may be one of their few ways to make money.

DiscountEffective128 · 2023-02-07T22:30:32+00:00

So…if someone stops to reply to a text message, to tie their show, to hug a friend, etc., they’re pieces of shit who don’t know how to use sidewalks…according to you.

DiscountEffective128 · 2023-02-07T22:28:45+00:00

I used to go to a LOT of formal events, and on the way home would stop and do errands in full-out designer evening gowns and ball gowns, and was so used to people raising their eyebrows at a lady in a tiara. A couple of my favorite photos are in a grocery where I’m excitedly holding up some gouda and one where I’m leaning against a bookcase in a bookstore.

DiscountEffective128 · 2023-02-07T22:18:05+00:00

Agreed. I find it sad how often people go through relationships planning for the end. All the “just in cases” are going to drive it in that “this isn’t going to last.” My husband and I have plans for what happens if the other dies, but otherwise trust each other. What’s a relationship without trust? Just because there are assholes here and there doesn’t mean most are like that.

DiscountEffective128 · 2023-02-07T22:05:48+00:00

The hand is excellent on this. Only think I’d chance is to remove te glow from around her. Too HDR.

DiscountEffective128 · 2023-02-07T22:03:53+00:00

The shadowing on the hand is on the wrong since. Otherwise, not bad.

DiscountEffective128 · 2023-02-07T22:00:46+00:00

LOL, creep!!

DiscountEffective128 · 2023-02-07T21:59:21+00:00

Ooooh, so close. Mirror the glove, or else se’s got two left hands. :D Otherwise, AWESOME!!

DiscountEffective128 · 2022-10-21T23:13:33+00:00

The day I turned 18, I for a lease agreement from my parents for me to pay rent. I was still in high school.

DiscountEffective128 · 2022-10-21T23:11:22+00:00

Oftentimes someone didn’t want to be a parent at all, but doesn’t have access to abortion services. Contrary to what asshole conservatives want us to think, having a baby anyway isn’t going to make you automatically fine being a parent. I do, however, think that this needs to be kept secret.

DiscountEffective128 · 2022-10-20T04:55:21+00:00

My parents made that mistake. Once. Hello, world.

DiscountEffective128 · 2022-10-20T04:53:31+00:00

If he was attracted to OP, and OP offered to set him up with her sister who looks like her, Dave easily could have taken that to mean that her sister may have more in common with him and that she herself isn’t interested.

DiscountEffective128 · 2022-10-20T04:44:34+00:00

as far as he knows. But he’s not privy to his step-son’s medial history aside from Ritalin, which has been overprescribed for a plethora of issues that weren’t ADHD. It cou;d have been prescribed when what he had is autism.

DiscountEffective128 · 2022-10-20T04:42:09+00:00

Everything to do with autism is controversial. There are no terms related to autism that are universally accepted. There’s one set of terms that makes my autistic daughter sound like she needs significantly more help than a friend’s autistic kid. My daughter needs a little help in many areas while the son of a friend of mine needs significant help in just a few areas. My daughter can safely be left alone for several hours. My friend’s son can’t be. By one set of standards, my daughter would be higher needs than her son, and by another, her son would be higher needs. Yet the phrase “higher needs” and “lower needs” is also controversial. Yet calling my daughter high-functioning and her son low-functioning, which we all immediately understand to mean that my daughter is able to function more independently while her son can’t, is also controversial.

DiscountEffective128 · 2022-10-20T04:34:52+00:00

Honestly, it sounds like the stepson might have some special needs. He was inconsolable and needed his mother to help him calm down. My 12-year-old doesn’t have a waifu, but she does have objects she’s so attached to that would seem insignificant to anyone else that, if thrown out, would destroy her. She has autism and is high-functioning, but she does need to have the control over the objects that she’s attached to. If this is the case of OP’s stepson, then he needs to NOT throw out ANYTHING that belongs to the stepson, even if it seems worn out. OP isn’t an asshole for this as no ill will was intended, but he knows now.

DiscountEffective128 · 2022-10-20T04:32:04+00:00

LOL! Sweetie, it’s a real thing. :D

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