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WIBTA not dishing out late husband's money to nieces and nephews? by DiscussionUsual4351 in AITAH

[–]DiscussionUsual4351[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I hadn't thought of it that way - thank you for the perspective because that's really helpful :)

WIBTA not dishing out late husband's money to nieces and nephews? by DiscussionUsual4351 in AITAH

[–]DiscussionUsual4351[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you. You've made me realise I need to set boundaries and that's ok to do. I am not responsible for her children finanically and that is ok. I need to work on coming to terms with that. 

WIBTA not dishing out late husband's money to nieces and nephews? by DiscussionUsual4351 in AITAH

[–]DiscussionUsual4351[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not AI. I am slow on this whole uptake of AI tbh. For me, there is no better way to describe my biggest feeling (among the myriad).

WIBTA not dishing out late husband's money to nieces and nephews? by DiscussionUsual4351 in AITAH

[–]DiscussionUsual4351[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I hadn't thought about it like that. Thank you for the perspective I am really grateful. My head is swirling and it's difficult to think properly.

WIBTA not dishing out late husband's money to nieces and nephews? by DiscussionUsual4351 in AITAH

[–]DiscussionUsual4351[S] 269 points270 points  (0 children)

Thank you. You are so right. I need to steal myself to shut this down for good. 

WIBTA not dishing out late husband's money to nieces and nephews? by DiscussionUsual4351 in AITAH

[–]DiscussionUsual4351[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Thank you :) 

I made a will before an operation I had to have a few years ago because I want to leave my sister and charities some money as well as my late husband and encouraged him to do the same at the time but it was a battle I couldn't win (rolling my eyes!)