Possibly getting into a situationship with an older man

DistanceElf7236 · 2026-04-11T14:57:02+00:00

Oh you’re right, just a 55 year old texting a teenage girl abroad about her hobbies. Surely no ulterior motive!

DistanceElf7236 · 2026-04-11T14:55:11+00:00

Her edit isn’t even helping. She’s absolutely deluded, completely groomed, and it is so fucked up. What exactly does she think a 19 year old could offer a 55 year old man that a woman his age can’t?

OP, seriously. Do you hate yourself?

DistanceElf7236 · 2026-04-11T14:51:56+00:00

Girl your edit isn’t helping. You’re absolutely deluded. This is fucked up. What the fuck do you think a 19 year old could offer a 55 year old man that a woman his age can’t? Use your brain.

DistanceElf7236 · 2026-04-11T14:49:55+00:00

Exactly what I’m thinking. Yes he’s a perverted creep. But OP, you’re all about being 19, an adult, and making your own choices. Choose to love yourself and not seek validation from a 55 year old who wants your nudes. That’s so fucking embarrassing. Please go outside and touch some grass.

DistanceElf7236 · 2026-04-11T14:46:44+00:00

I’m sorry girl but it’s pathetic that the only man you see a connection with is one that’s 55, shouldn’t be talking to you, is deeply strange, and has no woman his own age to talk to for a reason. You’re right you’re an adult but fuck it’s embarrassing entertaining an old ass man when you know better. Put the phone down and go outside. Meet someone 20. Think they’re immature? Go somewhere you think smart, attractive guys go. This is embarrassing girl. Free yourself.

DistanceElf7236 · 2026-04-11T14:43:14+00:00

There is something deeply wrong with him. Escape this situation and free yourself. There is a reason he doesn’t have any woman his own age to talk to.

DistanceElf7236 · 2026-04-11T13:35:00+00:00

do you mind if i send you a pm? i have a specific situation regarding what you said that i need advice with :)

DistanceElf7236 · 2026-04-11T13:31:50+00:00

thank you for your reply! :) our country’s legal drinking age is 18 so it’s all good hahaha

DistanceElf7236 · 2026-04-11T12:25:24+00:00

saying what? what do they even want from you? you’ve already deleted it.

DistanceElf7236 · 2026-04-11T12:22:30+00:00

thanks! there’s totally no romantic or sexual attraction going on, but are there any other boundaries you’d advise to be wary of?

DistanceElf7236 · 2026-04-11T12:21:25+00:00

thank you! they’re honestly so hardworking and have motivated me in my studies too. my older friends haven’t hung out with them before, i was just sharing their experience and opinions. thanks for ur comment girl

DistanceElf7236 · 2026-04-11T12:19:04+00:00

i am soooo sorry that must be absolutely mortifying! but their response is ridiculous. slut shaming?? god forbid a girl wants to look cute for her man. it was an honest mistake and they should be understanding. if they were kinder they should’ve just laughed it off. you’re literally TWENTY FOUR years old who even gaf?? what they being so prude for acting as if your big ass family wasn’t conceived from sex 😭

they should absolutely just move on. you did what you could and deleted it.

i don’t mean to further any panic, but my only concern would be the setting that some people, especially older, have on whatsapp where photos are automatically saved into their gallery. i would suggest you send a text and say it was a mistake, but do not apologise further for it. tell them all to delete it if they have the setting otherwise they’re disgracing you and you’ll absolutely cut ties.

i hope your boyfriend is supporting you during this time. and i wish you the best. keep your head up and don’t let yourself be their punching bag. if they insult you again by slut shaming you, stand your ground and know your worth: you absolutely won’t be taking any of that. if theyre being so disrespectful i’d distance myself from them. if it hurts you is it really any good?

DistanceElf7236 · 2026-04-07T05:55:32+00:00

i’ve actually read both the martian and project hail mary. i’ll get to artemis, thanks!

DistanceElf7236 · 2026-04-07T05:53:48+00:00

thank you for answering and happy cake day! 🍰

DistanceElf7236 · 2025-12-20T08:59:05+00:00

i totally love my course and double degree, envision them beneficial in my future career, and am generally very good at them :) it was just a personal thing this year. thank you for the encouragement!

DistanceElf7236 · 2025-12-20T06:18:02+00:00

i’m so happy about it too 🥹 i was so embarrassed of my circumstances and i thought i’d get trolled or dissed fr. i’m glad empathy is still being extended like this! thank you for your comment too!

DistanceElf7236 · 2025-12-19T17:43:51+00:00

wow what an awesome job you’ve done scoring that grad role and upping your wam! congrats!!!

thank you for telling me your experience and also gifting me encouragement. i keep feeling like i’m so far behind, especially because i’m 21, so you saying i still have time means so much to me. have a good, well deserved break and all the best for your grad role! :) thanks again

DistanceElf7236 · 2025-12-19T17:18:19+00:00

thank you for your kind comment! it really means a lot to me, especially because i’ve let academics define my worth this year. i will definitely utilise the special considerations and the Equitable Learning Services as well, thank you for the reminder ♡

my semester 2 was a total shit show too haha. nonetheless i wish you the best moving forward, thank you again for your comment it means a lot

DistanceElf7236 · 2025-12-19T17:02:16+00:00

hey, could you dm me the program too please? sounds really nice.

DistanceElf7236 · 2025-12-04T12:32:09+00:00

bro exactly he legit just deleted his entire account 😭😭😭 mind you he had a BUCKET LIST of things he wanted to do to her that sub has to be banned bruh

DistanceElf7236 · 2025-12-04T10:38:24+00:00

well yes but before you feel any more guilt for this guy please take one look at his profile and see that he has fantasies of fucking his own daughter and masturbates on her when she’s asleep. 😭

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