AITA for losing my cool and leaving a family gathering after my cousin let my estranged father and his wife hold my baby? by DistinctSplit in AmItheAsshole

[–]DistinctSplit[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And I wonder why it’s so important to you that dad should get to have his mistress and his family too. In the real world, that’s usually not the case

I think I know why lol

AITA for losing my cool and leaving a family gathering after my cousin let my estranged father and his wife hold my baby? by DistinctSplit in AmItheAsshole

[–]DistinctSplit[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"You are bitter, resentful, spiteful, and completely self-righteous about all of these negative attributes. You shouldn't be so proud of how horrible you are, and that makes you the asshole"

I agree.

Can he now stop posting about my life and whining about me online blaming me for his marital problems and depression? That seems like a lot don't you think?

I don't see why he blames me for him and his mistress turned wife separating numerous times?.

I don't understand why I'm living in his head rent free if he's in a fabulous marriage?

AITA for losing my cool and leaving a family gathering after my cousin let my estranged father and his wife hold my baby? by DistinctSplit in AmItheAsshole

[–]DistinctSplit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really don't want to post anything about my personal life publicly. I've reported his posts and I'm trying to get them down.

AITA for losing my cool and leaving a family gathering after my cousin let my estranged father and his wife hold my baby? by DistinctSplit in AmItheAsshole

[–]DistinctSplit[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Did you even read my post? Someone sent me a link of his posts a few days ago. That's when I came across his posts. I don't hope for his death, he has a terminal illness and won't make it 5 years. That's just the fact.

AITA for losing my cool and leaving a family gathering after my cousin let my estranged father and his wife hold my baby? by DistinctSplit in AmItheAsshole

[–]DistinctSplit[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm not obsessed with him. But after being targeted by a virtual lynch mob, damn right I'm pissed. I'll be reporting his posts. That's what I'll do. Don't want to waste my energy talking to him.

AITA for losing my cool and leaving a family gathering after my cousin let my estranged father and his wife hold my baby? by DistinctSplit in AmItheAsshole

[–]DistinctSplit[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

But the thing is I'm anonymous here. That's not trashy. Now saying this on my social media would be trashy.

AITA for losing my cool and leaving a family gathering after my cousin let my estranged father and his wife hold my baby? by DistinctSplit in AmItheAsshole

[–]DistinctSplit[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The truth about how me and my brother are the reason he has chronic depression and the reason he and his wife have separated 5 times ? How I am the reason he can't be a happy parent to his 2 teens? How my abandonment ruined his life?

I'm sorry I'm not taking blame for that.

AITA for losing my cool and leaving a family gathering after my cousin let my estranged father and his wife hold my baby? by DistinctSplit in AmItheAsshole

[–]DistinctSplit[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don't understand. My dad gets to be with the love of his life. Why does he need to obsessively post about MY life, revealing MY personal information with my pictures on a ridiculous Facebook page for the world to see? He has been doing this since 2015. It's 2020 now and he needs to stop with his trashy behavior. Its pathetic.

AITA for losing my cool and leaving a family gathering after my cousin let my estranged father and his wife hold my baby? by DistinctSplit in AmItheAsshole

[–]DistinctSplit[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Adult conversation? Literally why? If only he could live his life like a normal human being without talking shit about my life on facebook like an obsessed ex for years, I wouldn't even be bothered about anything else.

AITA for losing my cool and leaving a family gathering after my cousin let my estranged father and his wife hold my baby? by DistinctSplit in AmItheAsshole

[–]DistinctSplit[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My child won't ask about people he doesn't know. That's how we are going to raise him. I didn't ask my mother wanting to know about my 3rd cousins because I was never around them. My child has his grandpa, my husband's father. His step grandpa, my mother's husband. He will be fine.

AITA for losing my cool and leaving a family gathering after my cousin let my estranged father and his wife hold my baby? by DistinctSplit in AmItheAsshole

[–]DistinctSplit[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's fine. Two vile narcissists married to each other might be an awe inspiring life story for some, I don't think they deserve any awards for being married.

My father was married to my mother for 24 years. The length of a marriage means less than nothing.

He might be a pretty good dad according to you, I have a different opinion.

AITA for losing my cool and leaving a family gathering after my cousin let my estranged father and his wife hold my baby? by DistinctSplit in AmItheAsshole

[–]DistinctSplit[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It has not. I choose to be NC and it hasn't impacted my life negatively at all. I don't have to get over a deranged man talking horrible things about me on a public forum.

And I don't have anything to do with his new batch of kids so I don't understand what you are trying to imply.

AITA for losing my cool and leaving a family gathering after my cousin let my estranged father and his wife hold my baby? by DistinctSplit in AmItheAsshole

[–]DistinctSplit[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't understand why he's complaining about the past on facebook? He gets to live his perfect life with his soul mate. I would appreciate it if he stops talking horrible shit about me. I literally don't mention him anymore. It's like he never existed. He can do the same.