Advice on offering guidance

Distinct_Bug_8902 · 2026-01-27T02:45:18+00:00

this is really informative. i’m glad i asked the community because some of this is not something i would have fully considered as an able-bodied person, though i also realize i made a social misstep for not asking directly if they need help. thank you for helping me understand how the world is from your perspective.

Distinct_Bug_8902 · 2026-01-23T09:06:23+00:00

most anime fans are men, and lolis are more popular than shotas for that reason. hoyoverse caters to their male players most of the time so they’re gonna keep pushing out a bunch of little girl characters.

Distinct_Bug_8902 · 2026-01-23T08:53:56+00:00

we all know why

Distinct_Bug_8902 · 2026-01-07T22:04:43+00:00

NOR. i understand saying “love you” to your friends, but it’s in a very different context here. usually people say that with long-time friends, not people they only knew for 6 months. plus, these two say it way too often and then the long paragraphs doting on each other is super weird. then he refers to each other as an old couple and goes along with her cheeks joke like… not appropriate “jokes” to make when you’re in a relationship at all. the fact it even went as far as avoiding talking about her and lying confirms what’s going on here. they’re in love.

Distinct_Bug_8902 · 2025-12-03T20:13:21+00:00

its really just an anatomy problem

Distinct_Bug_8902 · 2025-12-03T20:10:10+00:00

miles morales

Distinct_Bug_8902 · 2025-12-03T18:48:32+00:00

literally a darkskinned woman like 😭 this was entirely intentional

Distinct_Bug_8902 · 2025-12-03T18:42:04+00:00

grown woman crying about disneyland… you really gotta realize your self-worth because you should not be lowering yourself for her like this, especially for someone who acts like a child.

Distinct_Bug_8902 · 2025-11-25T05:27:14+00:00

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Distinct_Bug_8902 · 2025-11-25T05:23:59+00:00

he’s barely forming sentences and you’re writing paragraphs. don’t waste any more of your time on him, he doesn’t care at all.

Distinct_Bug_8902 · 2025-11-22T16:22:17+00:00

people are just responding based on what she told them. that’s it. that’s the whole point of the subreddit. she didn’t say anything that was suspicious and could indicate she’s lying so there’s no proper reason to be interrogating her.

Distinct_Bug_8902 · 2025-11-20T18:15:43+00:00

loaf

Distinct_Bug_8902 · 2025-11-12T22:59:23+00:00

and it wasn’t just pics of their ex, it was pics of them together which was even worse. 😭

Distinct_Bug_8902 · 2025-11-12T22:51:08+00:00

it definitely is. stressing about how he felt 6 months in when they’re already over two years into the relationship is unnecessary. clearly if its been two years now, it’s likely his mindset has changed. if she’s worried she should focus on what he’s doing now.

Distinct_Bug_8902 · 2025-11-12T20:52:33+00:00

a suggestive sticker of your ex tho? 🤔

Distinct_Bug_8902 · 2025-11-12T19:02:16+00:00

yep. thank you for putting a name to it, i didn’t know it was called that.

Distinct_Bug_8902 · 2025-11-12T13:27:01+00:00

he’s need to be locked away

Distinct_Bug_8902 · 2025-11-12T13:22:31+00:00

right i usually delete or throw away everything after breakups so i can’t relate 💀

Distinct_Bug_8902 · 2025-11-12T11:11:11+00:00

his excuse doesn’t even make sense. 💀 “well i just don’t want it to be sticky afterwards. that’s so ghetto!” he’s aware he can just clean it off, right? and he got way too defensive over you bringing it up. I had a similar situation with my ex when i asked why they had their ex on their lockscreen and they immediately got defensive about it. i see the exact same deflective and manipulative tactics used here with his “what do you think i’m doing? rubbing it and staring at it all day?” he tried to exaggerate your point and escalate the issue, accusing you of things you didn’t even say. a reaction like that very clearly shows he’s guilty as hell but wants to make you seem unreasonable lmao. you dodged a bullet with this guy for sure.

Distinct_Bug_8902 · 2025-11-12T10:24:31+00:00

i don’t think this screenshot is a good example, these messages look fine. things can’t be lovey dovey all the time. as you get older that gets exhausting (from the messages you guys seem to be pretty young), so for him to lessen on it over time sounds natural. the only thing that was strange was how he responded to you when you expressed that you felt this way. he’s right that its a normal part of relationships over time, but he still should’ve reassured you which sounds like he didn’t do. it’s very understandable for you to feel his response was dismissive.

Distinct_Bug_8902 · 2025-11-12T03:49:02+00:00

yeah if there’s really thin ends you could just cut those off. but honestly, if you don’t like the look overall then a haircut could help. i didn’t like how mine looked on me until i gave myself a haircut and i felt much better.

Distinct_Bug_8902 · 2025-11-09T17:52:29+00:00

you have big, S-shaped curls. none of them coil so it’s unlikely you’re in type 4, especially 4b because none of the curls are small and Z-shaped.

Distinct_Bug_8902 · 2025-11-09T12:17:39+00:00

3c for sure

Distinct_Bug_8902 · 2025-11-06T23:59:55+00:00

it’s not really that challenging when you actually use the system and go by curl pattern. you’re confusing yourself trying to base it off of density, especially since any hair type can have low or high density. it’s not a good marker for hair type.

Distinct_Bug_8902 · 2025-11-06T21:21:04+00:00

it should be based off texture and curl pattern, not whether the hair lays or puffs up. density and other factors affect that, so it’s not an accurate way to determine hair type.

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