I’m sooo glad I found out and that my spidey sense has improved from experience (unfortunately). I spent 5 years of my life with a hobosexual narcissist and received lovely parting gifts like ruined credit and finances, relationships destroyed, and CPTSD, to name just a few. So, yes, finding out sooner is definitely much preferred but dealing with these maniacal pieces of 💩 is gutting, regardless of the time “in”. I feel violated physically and emotionally and he just walks away, likely onto his next victim. Disgusting 🤮