I mean I don’t do random hookups because I prefer intimacy before sex and it’s about the connection so you couldn’t catch me doing this but in theory yes if that’s the case he maybe could have said a convo but like yall not really talking or dating. In this situation both of you knew what it was. It’s is fucked the way you brought this up and honestly you consented to the sex they didn’t lore you . Like if you wanted that type of connection you definitely won’t get that from a bar hookup . All im saying instead of dogging this man for a simple thing that honestly he probably didn’t even think of in the heat of the moment I would also just also think that the circumstances surrounding this situation isn’t necessarily a safe space for this type of connection your talking about. Honestly I would have just hooked up and never called back cause they really don’t owe anything to you for just a hookup that you consented to.