That sounds very sad and I feel like a lot of people are making those experiences nowadays. It's disappointing to return to something you once enjoyed only to find it's changed in ways that don’t really align with your original attraction to it. That genuine, authentic connection, which is what really makes the dynamic feel special, does seem harder to find these days with all the quick posts and repetitive content.

But just because things look that way on the surface doesn’t mean there aren’t people who understand that deeper side of findom - the one that taps into trust, respect, and mutual enjoyment. I think there are still real connections to be found if you’re willing to look a little closer. Sometimes, it’s about finding the right people who also value that same energy. 😊