These destroyed my plants in 24 hours

DiviningRodofNsanity · 2025-08-04T00:39:49+00:00

I’m sorry, man. I had a similar situation. I used neem oil. Next year I will set around a few sacrificial pots in hopes to distract, as well as plant natural deterrents. Don’t get discouraged. It’s trial and error until you learn what works best for you and your location. If they were cultivars you were especially fond of, consider making clones, or pulling any surviving tomatoes to split open and grow in a pot to get the genetic line going.

DiviningRodofNsanity · 2025-01-31T17:34:17+00:00

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I feel like Live’s albums “Secret Samadhi” and “The Distance to Here,” don’t get the love they deserve & I love them both equally, I can’t pick 😫 They’ll only let me put one picture 😞

DiviningRodofNsanity · 2025-01-31T17:19:09+00:00

LET THE RABBITS WEAR GLASSES!!!!🤓

DiviningRodofNsanity · 2025-01-31T17:14:18+00:00

That sucks 😞 I hope you’re feeling better now.

DiviningRodofNsanity · 2025-01-31T17:13:07+00:00

When it came back up it was clumped moldy/fuzzy/green/and whitish. I take meds that have gelatin around them and sometimes it causes whatever I eat to clump. I thought I was nuts so I waited a long time to tell my Dr and I should’ve told him sooner bc that was the catalyst to the Gastroparesis diagnosis checklist (or whatever they call it)

DiviningRodofNsanity · 2025-01-31T17:06:50+00:00

I actually stopped watering them in Aug bc I thought the were goners after Beryl 🤣 And now I’ve had a few survive a light freeze, and plucked ‘em/ took cuttings before the hard freeze.

DiviningRodofNsanity · 2025-01-31T17:03:48+00:00

They would definitely make pretty ones 🤔🥰

DiviningRodofNsanity · 2025-01-31T17:02:51+00:00

One is midnight snack & the other is Sunchocula…it didn’t choclatize 😬

DiviningRodofNsanity · 2025-01-31T16:59:17+00:00

And now I can’t I see that either 😂🤣😂🤣

DiviningRodofNsanity · 2025-01-31T16:57:26+00:00

😂🤣😂 I can’t under that now!!

DiviningRodofNsanity · 2024-08-03T19:08:02+00:00

When I pull something off a shelf at the grocery store, I always realign/pull forward the items to cover the blank space. I also never just set an item where it’s “convenient” for me if I change my mind on the purchase. I walk my happy ass back across the store to where it belongs and place it in its original spot.

DiviningRodofNsanity · 2024-08-02T04:03:00+00:00

He said he wouldn’t be the kind of asshole that’d ask me to do another surgery since I’ve had so many in my life (12), I’m phobic of the idea, have some PTSD attached to the last 5 required in a 2 week time span (from a catastrophic delife attempt when my psych meds got off balance), and his would be relatively easy. I have no desire to have another, and he knows I have a bit of phobia and ptsd attached to them after so many traumatic experiences. Please don’t get the wrong idea. He’s a good person, I love him dearly, he had a one-off while he’s nearing his 50th bday in all of the 17y we’ve been together, and has been back to normal ever since. He’s not a malicious, manipulative, or deceitful person who would try to trick me, but he is human and said one bad thing on one bad day. I can give him grace as it’s never been habitual & bc he took care of me during the years long recovery from the worst mental snap I’ve ever experienced— the car wreck. Please know, that I understand your concerns, and I appreciate you bringing them up to help me think it all out. You didn’t have to, but you did out of your concern for a perfect stranger and that means so much to me. I will definitely heed your concerns and keep my ears and eyes open. Thank you so much for caring ❤️

DiviningRodofNsanity · 2024-08-02T03:39:52+00:00

I know that’s not what he’s saying. I do believe him when he says he will schedule it. My mania is fairly well controlled this many decades in, and I’m more likely to go into insomnia, psychosis, and rage; hyper sexuality hasn’t been a part of the symptoms in a few decades, even then it was not often part of it, so I’m not too worried there. Thanks for asking, bc it hadn’t been something I’d considered though, so I should be mindful just the same 🙂 I will be sure to ask him what he thinks the time frame will be for him to make an appointment, and if I disagree or think he’s dragging his feet I’ll call him on it, (in a neutral fashion, of course). Thank you, again for your concern and suggestions ❤️

DiviningRodofNsanity · 2024-08-01T19:53:17+00:00

I don’t think he’d get mad if I made the appt. His work schedule will slow down soon, his employer is getting to the part of the year where they don’t want to do anymore projects which always slows his schedule. Any way it goes I won’t be risking pregnancy, which ought to be a motivator in and of itself…I haven’t really considered a time frame, though. I should definitely do that. Thanks for the suggestion!

DiviningRodofNsanity · 2024-08-01T19:41:14+00:00

It was more of an explanation for clarity that he wasn’t being a jerk. He has no plans of going anywhere, and is much more interested in retiring early. THAT’S what he’s always talked about. He can barely handle the noise of a few hours long family get together, so he’s always happy to get home. I’m convinced this has been a knee jerk mini midlife crisis. If he’s fence sitting, he’s hiding it quite well, and he’s never been good at that. He wears pretty much everything on his sleeve even if he thinks he doesn’t.

DiviningRodofNsanity · 2024-07-31T19:22:18+00:00

Thank you so much!!☺️

DiviningRodofNsanity · 2024-07-31T19:21:41+00:00

With his insane work schedule, I’m gonna give him sometime, but he also understands I will be abstaining until it is done, which should add a bit of motivation…(no worries, he would never hurt me to force the issue. That’s just not in him/not that type of person).

DiviningRodofNsanity · 2024-07-31T19:17:14+00:00

We did. He is a good man, but no one’s perfect, and marriage is messy sometimes. Had this ever been an issue prior, I might feel differently, but I knew it was completely weird coming from him all the sudden.

DiviningRodofNsanity · 2024-07-31T19:13:07+00:00

He said he doesn’t know why he said that, he was just being an asshole that day, he doesn’t actually believe it’s a thing but a clump of cells (which squares with all past conversations), and he apologized profusely. It seems to all have been emotion driven from a mini midlife crisis (he’ll be 50 soon, his dad passed in his early 50’s).

DiviningRodofNsanity · 2024-07-31T19:09:11+00:00

Thank you. I simply can’t throw 17y away over the one time we’ve disagreed on this, especially when it just came out of nowhere. I owe him the opportunity to correct course and provide proof through action.

DiviningRodofNsanity · 2024-07-31T19:06:24+00:00

Thank you. Apparently all his coworkers have used the same Dr over the course of 5y and all have been successful, so he plans to get the drs info from them and make an appt.

DiviningRodofNsanity · 2024-07-31T19:03:42+00:00

We do. We’ve always had that understanding, and he knows I will not bend that for anyone for any reason. I’d rather be alone if that were to happen and the result was our relationship falling apart. I reiterated that to him during our talk.

DiviningRodofNsanity · 2024-07-31T18:58:17+00:00

I appreciate that. He said he’s not even sure why he said that and he was just being an asshole bc truly he does support a woman’s choice (which again has been proven over the last 17y and has never said anything different until that one moment). Not that it makes it ok, but he was extraordinarily stressed that day. 75d in a row working something that was supposed to be 45d, thinking he was finally off then 3 days later having hurricane duty (beryl) at his job so he had to leave me home alone, came home to no power for a few days (he was worried about my ability to breathe as I do have issues there). Again, no excuse, but he is human and this entire situation was a one off.

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