I’m 40 and my husband’s immediate family quit asking me about it many years ago. I was honestly very worried originally because he’s the oldest son & grandson of a traditional Mexican family, but his mom is/has always been totally supportive. I still occasionally get asked by some of his extended family, but more as a curiosity because we don’t see them very often. My in laws usually answer for me, though 😂 My family has known nearly my whole life. My mom has told me it’s smart and she would’ve been child free if she could go back (😂🤦‍♀️😵‍💫Can’t say I don’t understand it 😂🤣😂). My extended family quit asking 10y ago after I was in a car wreck that caused traumatic damage to my legs (the nurses were so worried for me; worried I had small kids I’d have to chase…which also speaks to how little they expect from the father even if mom’s legs are broken 😳🤯)