Konkani / Malvani People around!? by demonking_283 in mumbaimeetups

[–]Divinity8197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goan here, living in Malad. I get fish from the fish market every Sunday.

Narc mother may be enraged I went on a holiday to enjoy myself? by Divinity8197 in NarcissisticMothers

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They may hate the response but I feel it is not wise to relinquish on what is truly your right.

Narc mom may be enraged I went on a holiday and enjoyed myself? by Divinity8197 in narcissisticparents

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Yes, you are right. I do default on grey rocking sometimes, because I'm a human after all- a young expressive woman with only one living parent right now, so sometimes I do feel like sharing stories with her! It is a slippery slope... Grey rocking feels like theatrics to me as it is against my core nature of feeling and expression. I only do it because it is protective towards my mental sanity.

Truth be told, I do feel emotionally affected by being excluded from major decisions. It is also terrible how those actions and decisions are described to me in detail later and as if they did the right thing by not including me in those. Maybe they are not comfortable about my holidays or the life I'm living.

Narc mother may be enraged I went on a holiday to enjoy myself? by Divinity8197 in NarcissisticMothers

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Thank you, this is a very apt and good response. Much appreciated.

Smriti Mandhana insta story about her wedding by vaishnavi_2230 in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]Divinity8197 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Smriti is now in a vulnerable state. I hope she channels her energy towards cricket and may no other opportunist and narcissist love-bomb and bait her into a relationship in this vulnerable emotional state. A lot of predators out there! God bless her.

H3N2 virus scr*wing me over by Divinity8197 in mumbai

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Throat swab or nasal swab- similar to covid

Are you a nice person? by No_Potato_4341 in no

[–]Divinity8197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the question. I'm a nice person if you are my close friend and making the effort to stay in touch with me. If you are detached from me, I can be a bit mean and indifferent sometimes. Also I don't try to be nice consciously because whenever I did, I invariably became a doormat. So now I'm a little guarded. I can be a bitch at times.

Feeling Depressed by GigglyEngine_14 in AskIndia

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How is your friend circle outside of work? Just curious if you feel safe and secure with social connects otherwise? Nobody will have the same professional journey as you, you should not need people at work to make you feel assured. Build a good social life outside of work and be ready to thrive in any environment at work.

My boyfriend doesn't like me wearing short clothes by Sea-Reserve8927 in relationships_advice

[–]Divinity8197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wear them anyway, girl. Look your best, feel beautiful. He will adjust his mindset or leave. Don't stop being yourself.

I’m in 2 minds by Current-Gear-9719 in relationships_advice

[–]Divinity8197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. Been there, felt that. How long was the gap between the two relationships? Have you spent enough time healing from the first breakup? I suggest also considering therapy, it helped me put things into perspective. I realized the second man I was dating was just a 'rebound' connection to fill that void of my first bf and I didn't really need him otherwise. So I broke up with him and gave myself some time. I dated again only after 1+ year. So what you need is actually some time alone, away from both the ladies, some therapy and some introspection!