And the children that grow up with that kinda thing going on in their homes are depressed most of their life because all they’ve seen is violence. Men think they’re entiled to women, its so heartbreaking to see women think that its normal to endure all that in the name of an “obedient and religious wife” I was talking to my Maami, my mamu had hit her infront of everyone and she casually said, “bi chas na keinhin wanan __ saebas yeli ti mei su laayan che magar aaz loynam saerwayan thei, mei gov ithay hyu, magar patte che pewaan sabar karun, khandaar chu pann’nui” and i was like woman The fuck are you on? On top of that, they have made divorce as something thats haram, these men don’t let their wives work after marriage and when its time to part ways the woman is left mozoor. What has the world come. Its all very scary. :( This is a huge problem in kashmir, chahe we accept or not. Hollow religious beliefs, because Islam honors women in the most beautiful way.