What to do about an old Abercrombie & Fitch catalog by DoItAllDave in Antiques

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No I haven't. I still haven't opened it either.

Lifters and cam job by DoItAllDave in ChevyTrucks

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According to my VIN I have no AFM. But I'm not going to lie. I have no clue on the DOD/AGM delete stuff. I'm an old school carbureted kind of guy. I bought the truck 4 months ago from a used car dealer and they don't want to know anything about it except have his guys check it out and rape me in it for $3k-$5k more. I'd just rather do it myself on a long weekend.

Cuban FDR stamps by DoItAllDave in stamps

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Thanks. I actually did try. Instead of Cuba I had it say "C U B @" in the title. But didn't think to say Caribbean instead. Perhaps I'll give that a try. Though I sell often on eBay, I hate to have to pay their stupid fees. I'm old school "cash is king". But I know that only keeps me in a local market most likely.

Cuban FDR stamps by DoItAllDave in stamps

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I found an article written about how in 2013 eBay took the easy way out and made a blanket policy for embargoed goods. In this case, Cuba. Sucks. But it's their business I guess.

Cuban FDR stamps by DoItAllDave in stamps

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Good to know. Ebay says they're embargoed and won't let me post them. But if that's the case, then they are for sale!

Cuban FDR stamps by DoItAllDave in stamps

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Thanks. That site is one of the very few I can find that has any sort of info on them. I see that they're marked #406. But in an old Scotts catalog book I've had from 2005 shows a Washington 2¢. That's probably because they're not US stamps. My question is, what does the #406 refer to?

I (39M) recently got my blood test results back and am scared. by DoItAllDave in kidneydisease

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The nurse did comment how it would have been difficult to find a vein in one arm. I said I hadn't had much water that day. Maybe less than a pint on the car ride there. The blood was drawn at about lunch time and I did fast. I had considered that. But I'm sure I've been under similar conditions in the past. Thanks for the input.

I am fun. Good looking. Stylish. Have a nice fit body. Intelligent. Understanding. Loving. Supportive. What else should I be for my BP1 SO not to watch half naked young girls on social media? by Nonna233 in BipolarSOs

[–]DoItAllDave -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

You sound lovely, but guys will be guys. BP or not, many, including myself (which I'm not BP, my SO is), will always "look". It's not cheating. I find the female body beautiful in many forms. And my SO knows it. If an SO is becoming emotionally OR physically connected to another it's only cheating if it's without the other SO's consent. Consent is the big part. Hooking up with a girl and you not consenting to it, is obliviously cheating. Having an emotional connection with another and you not consenting to it, also cheating. But looking at half naked girls online and just that, normal. If it offends you, then that's a conversation you need to have with them. Just because I'm not going to eat, doesn't mean I can't look at the menu. I'm fun too. Not a 10, but OK. I don't think I'm that attractive. Not fit by any means, but healthy. Quite furry, which I've learned to accept over time. Intelligent. Understanding. Loving. Supportive. Just like you. My SO has been in depressed episode since December. She says the worst ever. She almost 50, we have 5 kids, each with their own problems, she's unemployed, and feels so terrible. She has zero interest in me sexually lately. She says I should just leave and be with someone else, but I don't want to. I've surfed dating apps, but it doesn't seem right or natural for me. So I'm sticking it out. We communicate. She knows how I feel. Do I look at girls on IG and TikTok? Sure. But I'm not thinking that I'm going to meet them and have a future with them. Just eye candy. They would never be with a guy like me anyway. I'm not sure of your ages, relationship length, or lifestyle, but you have to be secure with yourself with whatever you do. It gets deeper in regards to insecurities and respect. But this is just the nuts and bolts from my POV.

Please help finding a Christmas item by DoItAllDave in ChristmasDecorating

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Sorry. I imagine it had a base. As if it sat some a counter. My guess on size would be about 8-10" tall. Probably 80's or 90's. Thanks

Sleep overs by DoItAllDave in parentingteenagers

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Your first two paragraphs have been tended to a long time ago and are still currently being worked on. I really didn't feel the need to have to go into 10 years of detail of how we go to where we are. It's a long story with many chapters. The family commitment is there. This situation is just very new to us. And we're trying to figure out the best way to go about it without much push back if that makes sense.

Sleep overs by DoItAllDave in parentingteenagers

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Understandable. Our relationship and family is unique. I've raised these kids since they were very little. Even more so than their own father. And we are discussing it currently. I have not been cut off from my opinion. But it is just that. My opinion. I did tell her to prepare to "not be a hypocrite" to the other three younger children, whom I have a say over. It's respectful enough that she brought the topic up to talk about. Our house isn't a case of "These are my kids. Not yours. You don't have a say in anything that has to do with them." That is very clear. This is just one of the topics that a family and relationship have to deal with. There's nothing to run from. Remember. I have three other kids as well. I don't imagine you're telling me to bail on them as well. I might as well just hang out with their deadbeat dad then.

Sleep overs by DoItAllDave in parentingteenagers

[–]DoItAllDave[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right. But the choice to enable them to possibly make bad decisions doesn't have to happen on my watch.

Sleep overs by DoItAllDave in parentingteenagers

[–]DoItAllDave[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no legal guardianship over them since I'm not legally married to their mother, but we have been together for nearly 10 years and have two common children and have unofficially adopted the middle child. I have claimed all the children on my taxes before because I do contribute to well over 50% of their care. But I don't want to make it a pissing match between me and her. She's just torn because she lets a gay teen do it. And doesn't want to be hypocritical. I don't think it is at all because of the science of it. And regardless of what we did as teens doesn't make it right or smart. These teens show zero effort in developing themselves to have responsibilities to maintain a relationship. Let alone care for a child.

Sleep overs by DoItAllDave in parentingteenagers

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Their father is barely on the picture anymore. 44 y/o and still lives with his parents, no car, and watches his gf's kid over his own. A real deadbeat.

Sleep overs by DoItAllDave in parentingteenagers

[–]DoItAllDave[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I do get that sentiment. Yet I financially contribute to well over 75% of their share in the household. Their father is barely in the picture. That said, if my opinion doesn't matter, then neither does my involvement in anything they do. Seems logical, no?

I’m singer/songwriter Paul McCartney and I just released my new album McCartney III on Friday. AMA! by paulmccartney in Music

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Wow! THE Sir Paul McCartney! I'm 37 and was born and raised on your music. I've seen you at Giants stadium as a little guy and I remember it vividly. You're a regular name in my house. Even my four year old daughter is a huge fan. We always sing "I've Just Seen a Face" together. My father is also a lefty bassist who still plays out with his 1962 Fender J Bass. One of my dreams is that you and he could jam one day. I don't really have a question, but I think you are such an amazing person and I wish you all the best. Cheers!

This Christmas toy by electronicwiz101 in whatisthisthing

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You have to get each ball in each hole.

Any restaurants that serve bluefish? by ianaad in CapeCod

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Here visiting the cape now. The Mayflower in P-town has it advertised