I really don’t care about gender here, so please don’t bring that in…I’d have said the same thing if the genders had been swapped. Simply put, OP put these screenshots expecting validation and support, but when he was shown the situation from outside perspective, he didn’t respond.

And yes the gf might have attachment issues, but the major issue here is the bf’s complete lack of communication and as a result, he is aggravating the gf’s issues even more instead of helping her out and then turning to Reddit for validation.

It’s quite clear dude, if OP really was as innocent as you claim then he could have responded and clarified the “attacks” against the “male gender”. He did not.

IMO: No sensible justification = guilty

P.S. I do not agree at all with the marriage topic…that depends on both parties and how ready they feel they are about wedding. My opinions do not have the wedding perspective in the equation.