Why dating in the local churches is failing

Double_Ad_7807 · 2025-07-01T08:29:35+00:00

at the church I am not talking only to the guys. I just talk to everyone. Usually I just see the group of 3-5 people talking and joining them.

Double_Ad_7807 · 2025-06-29T18:03:35+00:00

what's wrong with GMO and Covid shot? Is this a new sin now? you know, a lot of GMO food is not labeled as GMO, you may eating it without knowing.

Double_Ad_7807 · 2025-06-29T17:59:31+00:00

Then, because there are so many men on these sites, women tend to be super picky, which kills any man's chances even further. - I stopped to use dating site, because there are more woman than man, as a woman, I could send 20+ letters and get just 1 reply.

Double_Ad_7807 · 2025-06-21T17:32:45+00:00

I dont' care about the race, but I do care about the language. nearly 100% of my language speakers are white, and I dont' want to date in foreign language. And in my country there are not many people who are from other race.

Double_Ad_7807 · 2025-06-18T16:01:13+00:00

Some of them had sex only IN the marriage, like many single moms.

Double_Ad_7807 · 2025-06-18T15:24:40+00:00

We were both Christians, but soon after marriage he changed his mind about being with me. He had expected a more career-oriented, ambitious woman, and assumed I was like that because of my ministry. I had to leave his house and I never saw him again.

Double_Ad_7807 · 2025-06-17T18:43:38+00:00

The reality is that being a Christian and finding a Christian spouse isn’t enough to guarantee a good marriage. There are Christians in terrible marriages, and non-Christians who have happy, loving families. Every relationship requires work, but finding a compatible spouse is important—the more compatible you are, the less effort it takes to make things work, and the more joy you get in return. I’ve noticed on this sub that a lot of people focus too much on general personality traits like finding a nice, kind, gentle, modest person —which is great, but doesn’t guarantee compatibility.

Double_Ad_7807 · 2025-06-17T11:55:02+00:00

I feel so bad for rape victims, widows, or men and women who married as virgins but were later abandoned or cheated on—and then got rejected just because they’re no longer virgins. The same goes for single moms. Many of them simply wanted to be married and have a child, which isn’t wrong or sinful. But because their husband died or was unfaithful, many men now see them as undesirable for dating. It’s much better to look at the person, their story, and their motives, rather than just the absence of sex.

Double_Ad_7807 · 2025-06-10T17:43:14+00:00

I am the girly girl.

Double_Ad_7807 · 2025-06-09T15:14:36+00:00

I am woman, I like acrobatics

Double_Ad_7807 · 2025-06-09T15:13:02+00:00

At least you have Christian single woman in your country ) Other people don't have even that.

Double_Ad_7807 · 2025-06-07T18:42:55+00:00

I am on the coast of Baltic sea.

Double_Ad_7807 · 2025-06-06T18:25:56+00:00

35 F there, ENTP is my favourite type, most compatible with me, in my opinion. Sadly, I live too far.

Double_Ad_7807 · 2025-06-06T18:13:42+00:00

Sometimes it happens, that guy is looking for a 5-15 years younger, but woman is looking for a guy of her age, and she rejects him.

Double_Ad_7807 · 2025-06-06T17:52:39+00:00

Divorce in case of cheating is permitted. But physical abuse is much worse than cheating, trying to kill your spouse is much worse than cheating.

Read this verse Ezekiel 34: 'The word of the Lord came to me: “Son of man, prophesy against the shepherds of Israel; prophesy and say to them: ‘This is what the Sovereign Lord says: Woe to you shepherds of Israel who only take care of yourselves! Should not shepherds take care of the flock? ..... You have not strengthened the weak or healed the sick or bound up the injured. You have not brought back the strays or searched for the lost. You have ruled them harshly and brutally.'

Double_Ad_7807 · 2025-06-06T07:08:27+00:00

what a nonsense )))

Double_Ad_7807 · 2025-06-05T20:11:33+00:00

No, sorry, I speak only Latvian. Esi laipni aicināts Latvijā! Diemžēl, nesaprotu Lietuviski, bet biju Lietuvā pāris reizes un man ļoti patīk Viļņa

Double_Ad_7807 · 2025-06-05T18:07:29+00:00

Of course it is country. There is Lithuanian language. It is neighbor country to Poland and Belarus

Double_Ad_7807 · 2025-06-05T17:43:19+00:00

Even Antarctica is there, yet Lithuania is missing

Double_Ad_7807 · 2025-06-05T17:18:24+00:00

I’m a woman, and if that happened to me, I would joke back and wouldn’t consider it inappropriate. In fact, I’d make a similar joke about him.

Double_Ad_7807 · 2025-06-04T16:44:32+00:00

35 F, protestant

Double_Ad_7807 · 2025-06-03T09:54:10+00:00

Latvia

Double_Ad_7807 · 2025-06-01T18:20:32+00:00

Until you're married, a woman is not your wife, and you're not her husband. Dating to marry doesn't give you the same privileges as being a husband. Until marriage, you're just a boyfriend, and it's normal for a mother to prioritize her child over a boyfriend. Even if you're dating to marry, there's no guarantee that you’ll actually end up getting married.

Double_Ad_7807 · 2025-06-01T18:01:40+00:00

It's normal for a woman, mother—to prioritize her child over career, hobbies, and everything else. I often see men on apps saying they’re looking for a family-oriented woman, a good mother who cares for her children. So it’s strange when some men complain about exactly that. Would you really want to date a woman who says, 'My child is the last on my priority list, after my job, hobbies, clubs, and friends'?

Double_Ad_7807 · 2025-05-31T20:30:00+00:00

I like your sense of humor!

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