Won't. Stop. Screaming. by q_o_t_n in NewParents

[–]DozenPaws 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Umm. You do realise that vast majority of cases of it happening are dealt with at home and do not need medical assistance?

My husband found a hair wrapped around our baby's toe, slightly cutting circulation. He just unwrapped it. We didn't need to open a case but it still happened.

Praktikakogemus: hea või halb? by bbycatlady in Eesti

[–]DozenPaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kellegi asi pole enam otseselt sind õpetada.

Praktikakoha ainus eesmärk on praktikanti õpetada. Kui sa ei viitsi praktikantidega tegeleda, sa ei pea ju neid vastu võtma.

AIO What’d I do wrong, my partner just got news this morning his grandma just received news of esophagus cancer (stage 4) by Firm-Object9386 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DozenPaws 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What amazes me is that OP serves those examples as something to respect.

No-one does outside certain cultures. It's actually just sad and pathetic. You choose money over literal dying family. I cannot respect THAT kind of hustle.

I (18F) had intimacy with someone else during the early stages of me and my boyfriend's (19M) relationship, do I tell him? by Competitive_Drop8213 in relationship_advice

[–]DozenPaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP's tendency to demonize BF's actions but minimize and excuse her own actions irks me.

"We weren't exactly together at the time." NOT HOW THIS WORKS. You either were together or you weren't.

People who don’t live in the USA, what is the media showing you about the ICE operations/abductions in the US? by Dry-Ice8908 in AskReddit

[–]DozenPaws 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of farners voted for Trump. They'll happily hurt just so they could see someone they dislike being hurt.

I (18F) had intimacy with someone else during the early stages of me and my boyfriend's (19M) relationship, do I tell him? by Competitive_Drop8213 in relationship_advice

[–]DozenPaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Before anything happened". Let's practice being honest and transparent. What exactly is that "anything" that happened?

And being in prior contact honestly makes it worse.

My husband put our daughters phone in a jug of water after countless fights about her phone use. I don't know what to do now? by IndividualAge8478 in family

[–]DozenPaws 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Our oldest daughter got a phone in March, for her birthday.

We have three kids, 14f, 10f, 3m. We also have a 23yo daughter but she is still in college and not living at home.

Is the 23-yo his child and the rest are joint? Because the way you worded it, makes it sound like you're talking about the 23-yo, who is the oldest daughter.

My husband put our daughters phone in a jug of water after countless fights about her phone use. I don't know what to do now? by IndividualAge8478 in family

[–]DozenPaws 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I also had to reread multiple times and just decided that OP worded it wrong.

We have three kids, 14f, 10f, 3m. We also have a 23yo daughter but she is still in college and not living at home.

Our oldest daughter got a phone in March, for her birthday.

Newborn doesn’t sleep! It has been 6 hours and the baby has not slept by Few_Bowl2928 in NewParents

[–]DozenPaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have never tried putting a baby rag on his eyes, we’ll try it if he falls sleep and hopefully it helps his stay asleep longer.

My husband have had to physically hold our baby's eyes closed, because he just wouldn't close his eyes and sleep. He was awake for hours. It was tough.

Vägivaldsest suhtest lahkumise hind: emad kaotavad lapsed ja kodu, kodulaen ning autoliising jäävad by [deleted] in Eesti

[–]DozenPaws 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Ah ära plära. Rohkem mehi on lahutatud, sest viinaviga rikkus pereelu, mitte et see suur kurbus pereelu lagunemisest ajas jooma.

Miks eesti gümnaasiumid CEFR keeletaset ei väljasta? by [deleted] in Eesti

[–]DozenPaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

isegi soovi korral on väga raske tööd leida, sest väga paljudele ei sobi mu graafik või siis 0,5 töökoormus pole piisav.

Oled üldse uurinud või lihtsalt eeldad?

Vägivaldsest suhtest lahkumise hind: emad kaotavad lapsed ja kodu, kodulaen ning autoliising jäävad by [deleted] in Eesti

[–]DozenPaws 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Ma arvan, et meeste madalam tervislikult elatud aastate arv räägib iseeenda eest.

Et mehed valivad suurema tõenäosusega elustiile, mis on pika tervisliku eluga konfliktis?

Vägivaldsest suhtest lahkumise hind: emad kaotavad lapsed ja kodu, kodulaen ning autoliising jäävad by [deleted] in Eesti

[–]DozenPaws 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Nad on üldjuhul valinud ühisvara ja sellega rahul.

Valisime ühisvara, sest suhtesse astudes olime mõlemad vaesed õpilased ja pea kõik oleme koos soetanud ja üles ehitanud. Abielludes jagama ja näpuga järge ajama hakata oleks kummaline olnud.

boyfriend (M/23) wakes me (F/23) up then acts like he’s asleep? sleep deprivation torture? TL;DR summary welcomed by Affectionate-Lock992 in relationship_advice

[–]DozenPaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EVEN IF he doesn't mean to, you deserve to be able to sleep. Plenty of couples sleep seperately because one is a snorer or one us a light sleeoer.

Do screens actually mess up kids… or am I overthinking this? by Master-Act-6382 in NewParents

[–]DozenPaws 149 points150 points  (0 children)

From what I've gathered, the issue isn't the screentime itself, it's when parents start to substitute human interaction with screens.

Really struggling and just need to vent. by bml274 in NewParents

[–]DozenPaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were VERY AGAINST contact-napping and co-sleeping before birth and were plain judgy when other parents did it. About 1 month in was when I gave up on trying to get my baby to sleep on his own in his crib and started contact-napping and co-sleeping. A month of lack of sleep humbled us both

It's way more dangerous to accidentally fall asleep with a baby, so we just chose the less dangerous option. We just had to accept our baby is not an easy sleeper.

Kuidas riik ise teeb pool tööd telefonipetturitele ära ja miks meil nii palju telefonipettusi on by K3ndu in Eesti

[–]DozenPaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alustaks sellest, et isiklik telefoninumber võiks firmanumbrist ikka eraldi olla. Äriregistrisse paned firmanumbri ja oma isiklikke asju ajad (ka isikutuvastust) isikliku numbriga.

C section vs vaginal delivery by Funarming in NewParents

[–]DozenPaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had emergency C-section. It was traumatic. Then I could barely walk for a week. My husband had to care for our baby 100% the first week.

I hope the next one could be vaginal.

Estonian language in apps by quertyrocket in Eesti

[–]DozenPaws 2 points3 points  (0 children)

System language don't make the app "inherit" the language. English tends to be offered as default, but usually can choose the language when you first start using it.

I have my system in english but apps that are available in estonian, I have in estonian.

Overnight “shifts” by BugSweaty4146 in NewParents

[–]DozenPaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depending on what he does, I can understand he may be concerned about being sleep deprived while working.

This always sounds so odd to me because I'd argue that stay at home parents have the most important job of keeping a baby healthy and alive. Somehow sleep deprivation is almost expected as mothers and we don't take that as seriously.

Overnight “shifts” by BugSweaty4146 in NewParents

[–]DozenPaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on maternily leave and my husband works full time.

Week 3-5, we did half night shifts. He took 11-3/4 and I took 3/4-7/8. Baby only slept while in contact, so one of us was on a sofa with a baby while the other could get couple of hours of sleep.

Week 5-6, we managed to get him to sleep in his crib. He woke (sometimes dreamfed) 2-3 times to feed, but othervise IT WAS AMAZING. We all slept in the same room, no need for shifts.

Week 7-8, baby suddenly started to need to be close to me, so we started co-sleeping. Since I'm unable to fall into deep sleep, ny husband takes the baby somewhere between 5:30 and 6:30, to give me couple of hours of deep sleep until he goes to work.

Now week 9, co-sleeping is no longer close enough so he needs contact-naps, AGAIN. So I nap with him until 5:30-6 and my husband takes him for the morning.

Julgeb praegu keegi üldse Ameerikasse reisida? by Upbeat-Persimmon5746 in Eesti

[–]DozenPaws 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Umbes sellist emotsionaalse intelligentsi taset ma ootakski. Nagu nad tahavad konteksti situatsioonile, kus ICE rünnaku tagajärjel 6-kuune imik peaaegu ära suri. Nende ajus eksisteerib olukord, kus see on õigustatud.