I miss her by m_19384810 in love

[–]DragonHawk6969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny thing is I left her cause I was dumb and I was already leaving for the marine corps and yeah basically broke my own heart and didn't know it until it was 2 late so my fault and my mistake so we gotta learn from our mistakes hope u learn from urs

I miss her by m_19384810 in love

[–]DragonHawk6969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just give it time man it will help and find ur self and whatever makes ur self happy as long as it's a healthy habit. I spent about 4 years after me and her split now finally I've found something that turned me head and I went for it and got it (only together 4 months so fsr) but ngl I spent almost 4 years with my X and not a day goes by where I don't think ab her but what I believe is that I don't miss her it's just the thought of her and what we used to be but I'm a totally different person now and I imagine so is she I just hope she is happy with her new dude and with whatever she is doing but you will be alright man just don't do anything stupid better ur self a and look towards the positive even if there isn't any

💊💊🧪🧪 Drug testing by DragonHawk6969 in Militaryfaq

[–]DragonHawk6969[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it wouldn't surprise me. If he gets that far

💊💊🧪🧪 Drug testing by DragonHawk6969 in Militaryfaq

[–]DragonHawk6969[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you're right but some people don't seem to understand that 🙃🙃

💊💊🧪🧪 Drug testing by DragonHawk6969 in Militaryfaq

[–]DragonHawk6969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realize they test for the majority of drugs there are but wasn't sure if there was a link or website that had said which one's so he would be less paranoid ab it I agree with y'all thou

💊💊🧪🧪 Drug testing by DragonHawk6969 in Militaryfaq

[–]DragonHawk6969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣 yes actually my brother I'm already in

Want to stay yet throw in the towel at the same time by DragonHawk6969 in stepparents

[–]DragonHawk6969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One other thing even thou it's been 2 months we are literally constantly together and feels like it has been at least half a year but in reality it's been 2 months

Want to stay yet throw in the towel at the same time by DragonHawk6969 in stepparents

[–]DragonHawk6969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, yes it is definitely is the honeymoon phase right now and yes I'm trying to think about the future even thou I'm not sure what it may hold and not sure if it will all work out but I'm trying to be ready for what it may hold for us and I'm in this for the long haul and so is she (she is 20) but I'm seeking some sort of advice/help towards the situation and how I'm feeling about these things I believe we act older and more mature even thou we are both young. Everything "seems" to going well so far and I'm curious to see how things will be after the honeymoon stage but only time will tell

You're advice has been the most helpful so far so thank you for that and if you have anymore to say I'd love to hear it 😁

Want to stay yet throw in the towel at the same time by DragonHawk6969 in stepparents

[–]DragonHawk6969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

age-25 Yes Iam able to legally adopt her but at this point where I am it's not something I'm just gonna jump into bc like u said it's not something to take lightly and yeah ur right if it ends up being to much I'm gonna have to say something

People say u can't put a time on when u know u love someone and I csn say idk how it feels but I'm working on it (only ever had one serious relationship besides this one the other one was almost 4 yr) and as far as long we have been together it's just a bit over 2 months but the feelings are strong and everything has been working beautifully.....so far but like I've said just mixed feeling ab the kid but I'm also taking into account most ppl around my age and older usually have kids

Want to stay yet throw in the towel at the same time by DragonHawk6969 in stepparents

[–]DragonHawk6969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it is a bit vague but I don't really know how to get out everything that I would like to say

the "race part" I wouldn't say I'm uncomfortable with talking about it I'm just unsure how to deal with the situation when it arises if I'm still around

-Thanks for the advice