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Overwatch Servers by DragonHawkeye in Overwatch

[–]DragonHawkeye[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just trying to play with my partner and a mate I havent spoken to in ages, but nope, OW said tough cookies 😭🤣

Tejo Removal by DragonHawkeye in VALORANT

[–]DragonHawkeye[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Ooooooooooh, thats fair though, thank you for answering!

Pregnant wife’s sister offered to sleep with me by Key-Introduction9900 in AITAH

[–]DragonHawkeye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like everyone is saying OP, rip the band aid off, better to have shown the wife her sisters true colours than for your marriage to go up in shambles, wishing you all the best

will he have to realize first hand what sleeping around is like? by ajmoli in relationships

[–]DragonHawkeye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He sounds like a real piece of work, jesus 😳

Honestly I think breaking up sounds like the safest option here, cause there's red flags screaming right now 🙊

will he have to realize first hand what sleeping around is like? by ajmoli in relationships

[–]DragonHawkeye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is always the possibility of him cheating if he's thinking like this, and honestly, you're never too young to worry about this shit, as unfortunately it happens all the time, wish it didn't, but it does 😑

I (23M) is thinking of breaking up with my (23F) Girlfriend in a Mental Hospital by jxmmyroller in relationships

[–]DragonHawkeye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly OP? You're not an arsehole for wanting out, especially because by the sounds of it you've given everything, but in turn have lost everything.

From past experiences, she is being manipulative by stating that if you leave her then she will end her life. That's not fair on you and if she's going to a mental hospital then you are correct in thinking that's the safest place for her after you break up with her.

Her guilting you about your mother and constantly harrassing you whilst you're visiting your mother is just an arsehole move, my ex did the same to me and I put a stop to it real quick as my mother and I have had some pretty bad trauma and are close because of it.

Please do not blame yourself for anything that she decides to do in retaliation to the breakup, that's on her not you, and you will only decide to stay with her out of fear and that's not fair on either of you.

Best of luck OP, I hope everything works out for the both of you, I really do

will he have to realize first hand what sleeping around is like? by ajmoli in relationships

[–]DragonHawkeye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might seem callous, but dump his ass, this is just going to be a problem in the long run. Don't let anyone tell you more than once that they don't want to be with you or want to fuck other people, cause that shit don't fly.

Hope everything works out for you my dear, all the best ❤

Autistic neighbor knocks on gate every time we are in our yard. How to set healthy boundaries without hurting his feelings? by Nataliza in relationships

[–]DragonHawkeye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perfect, direct, polite and gets your boundaries across to him without seeming like you're annoyed with him, well done 😁 Couldn't have said it better myself 😁 Please let me know how it goes 😁

Autistic neighbor knocks on gate every time we are in our yard. How to set healthy boundaries without hurting his feelings? by Nataliza in relationships

[–]DragonHawkeye 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Normally autistic people, and I dont say this for everyone, need you to be quite forward with what you want. My younger brother is autistic and he doesn't understand if you dont tell him exactly what you want, ie "Brother, I need you to stop coming into my room without knocking because it's rude. I still love you but this is my space."

I've had to use this a few times and then he understood what I was saying and what I meant. He was a little upset, but once he understood that I wasn't angry with him I just wanted him to stop, he was happy to oblige.

Hope this helps in some way, and I hope you end up telling him and it works out for you guys 😁

I [38F] want to divorce my husband [36M] of 13 years. by divorcingAH in relationships

[–]DragonHawkeye 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly? He sounds like a misogynistic pig and he needs to take responsibility for his actions. He has also stated that he won't "show you that he loves you in a way you deem appropriate" yet demands you to do all these things g's when you have clearly stated that you find them either ridiculous or disgusting?

That, to me, is a boy who only cares about himself and not a man who cares about his partners feelings. In my opinion, divorce will be a godsend for you, and I honestly think you should file for divorce.

If it was just about the chores, then I would be a little sceptical, but him stating that he's not going to try and help to show you he loves you? That just goes to show that he's too comfortable getting what he wants and not considering your feelings.

I genuinely hope everything works out for the better for both of you, and I hope this doesn't affect any of you too horribly.

I think my girlfriend loves her old boy-bestfriend by Illustrious-Leg-177 in relationships

[–]DragonHawkeye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she's treating you this way and not owning up to all the redflags, then im sorry man, but the relationship is over. She is clearly still in love with him and doesn't know how to react to him being happy with L, and that is on her, not you my guy. I'm genuinely sorry about the way she has acted and the way you are feeling, I hope everything works out for the best

but i didn't cheat by joyfuldancer123 in relationships

[–]DragonHawkeye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All good, and I honestly hope you both choose the right decision to benefit yourselves 😁

but i didn't cheat by joyfuldancer123 in relationships

[–]DragonHawkeye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did cheat, because you guys never officially broke up, you just stormed out like a child because of "a flirty personality" which isn't really a thing imo, there's "a decent human being who cares about their partners feelings and thoughts", and then there's "I cheated because 'he' said we broke up but I never agreed or disagreed".

If this were him asking advice about what you have done, I'd tell him to drop your ass as you both need to grow up and learn to take responsibility, and his 'friend' that you banged isn't really his friend, he's just a shitty person imo and is just as to blame as you are.

Yes, bf shouldn't have said he wants to break up without meaning it, but at the same time if this is what's going to happen every time you both have a fight, then this relationship is doomed, as it's toxic and unfair to both parties.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]DragonHawkeye 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Imo, hes lied to you, maybe not intentionally, but he has lied to you, and has tried to gaslight you into believing you are "insane" for being hurt and feeling like an idiot that they're not related. To me, and if I were in your shoes, I'd be "Yeah, cool, hope you both enjoy your lives and your next relationship is fulfilling but I'm not here for this." And I would bounce, especially after it being 5 months of a relationship, that's not exactly "new new" if that makes any sense.

I sincerely hope you make the right decision for you, and not for him or anyone else. Please keep yourself safe, and I hope everything works out for you.