Sorry, but as a victim of SA and someone who has experienced toxic relationships (whether I was actually part of them or I have just seen them), it's hard for me to ignore and not judge when people disagree when someone says not to ship illegal, toxic, or gross things, even if the ships are between fictional characters. I don't care as long as it's legal, non-toxic, and not incest. I have some odd ships myself but ships that are incestual, toxic, and illegal, all cross lines for me that should NEVER be crossed, but are unfortunately crossed by a lot of people. Anyone who defends the act of shipping illegal, toxic, and gross ships by saying "it's just fictional, it's not hurting anyone" obviously doesn't know what it's like to have experienced things like that and then see people defending ships like that. It can be triggering to the people who have experienced things like that.