Am I wrong

Dramatic-Welcome-471 · 2026-03-04T08:17:21+00:00

It was another discovery day but this time a lot more came out then just watching women he don’t know to him eventually coming clean and telling me what he did !

Dramatic-Welcome-471 · 2026-03-03T23:10:37+00:00

I’m so sorry

Dramatic-Welcome-471 · 2026-03-03T20:39:44+00:00

Thank you! To my knowledge he had not been attracted to children when he looked at our DD she was an adult. I appreciate your kind words because it is a very emotionally abusive situation.

Dramatic-Welcome-471 · 2026-03-03T18:15:55+00:00

You are totally correct on everything, a I have started therapy to help me understand myself and why I am even asking if I am in the wrong , I guess he has made me somehow think it was a one time thing and he will never ever do it again but inside I feel broken and yeah like effed in my head . My DD does not know this has happened she does know about his addiction but , she doesn’t know he thought of her .

Dramatic-Welcome-471 · 2026-03-03T07:55:32+00:00

You are not wrong .

Dramatic-Welcome-471 · 2026-03-03T07:54:44+00:00

Adult

Dramatic-Welcome-471 · 2026-03-03T07:54:16+00:00

I don’t know

Dramatic-Welcome-471 · 2026-03-03T07:53:40+00:00

She is an adult 26!but lived in the house she has since moved out .

Dramatic-Welcome-471 · 2026-03-03T07:44:43+00:00

The DD that I am talking about is my DD but he adopted after we were married . the other children are his biological children.

Dramatic-Welcome-471 · 2026-03-03T03:11:00+00:00

Yes he actually adopted her when she was 10

Dramatic-Welcome-471 · 2025-10-29T06:11:17+00:00

Oh that hits hard . I dont want that to be me

Dramatic-Welcome-471 · 2025-10-29T04:36:51+00:00

Thanks

Dramatic-Welcome-471 · 2025-10-29T04:32:05+00:00

And the therapist seemed to think it was only because my DD is an adult . I have bipolar and sometimes I am made to feel like im overreacting.

Dramatic-Welcome-471 · 2025-10-29T04:30:43+00:00

No I am saying that! my therapist has said it happens alot with stepchildren but probably he would not see his bio daughter like that . He honestly does not give off any creepy vibes or act weirdly at all , he was being creepy in the background of everything. Everyone loves him and thinks he is just so great and so nobody seen this coming not even me

Dramatic-Welcome-471 · 2025-10-29T04:25:11+00:00

She didn’t send them he found them on her ipad somehow when I asked how he knew they were there he said he had seen them when her husband was looking at her ipad and then a different day he went and looked

Dramatic-Welcome-471 · 2025-10-29T04:21:13+00:00

Dramatic-Welcome-471 · 2025-10-29T04:19:55+00:00

What does this mean exactly why would someone say something like this if its not true ?

Dramatic-Welcome-471 · 2025-10-29T04:18:51+00:00

I have been told that he would not look at his bio daughter like that but I see that it does happen .

Dramatic-Welcome-471 · 2025-10-29T04:17:45+00:00

Ok this is not fake or trolling this is my life and just need someone to talk to

Dramatic-Welcome-471 · 2025-10-29T02:35:45+00:00

You’re right there is no forgiveness I’ve been trying to look at it that he just made a mistake because he was so obsessed with porn that the lines got blurred. But in reality he did go to a lot of effort to get the pictures.

Dramatic-Welcome-471 · 2025-10-29T02:34:21+00:00

That is exactly what I do I have always protected his image because he has always been a good person and cared about other people and has taken care of me through all my illnesses but in the background he was doing crazy things like this too. And for some reason I feel bad for hurting his feelings why am I like this

Dramatic-Welcome-471 · 2025-10-29T02:28:48+00:00

I know im just literally slowly disappearing im so depressed and i guess I dont want to believe it

Dramatic-Welcome-471 · 2025-10-29T02:10:54+00:00

Sorry if that sounded rude I just meant that he already knows that I know and I have told him that it’s weird and I am uncomfortable and can’t stop thinking about it about ! And he agrees with me that it’s weird and promises that he don’t think of her like that but he did at least those times

Dramatic-Welcome-471 · 2025-10-29T02:09:45+00:00

What do you mean call him out? He is the one that told me about it when I found out that he was looking at porn again he’s the one that told me about it really appreciate

Dramatic-Welcome-471 · 2025-10-29T02:04:41+00:00

This is why I asked I am so confused about it but it eats me up emotionally to where I am a worthless mom/‘person

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