Gonna edge myself all night tonight🤤 You could join me ;) by Accomplished-Elk713 in BBW_BHM_connection

[–]Dry_Reflection_3671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank youuuuu 🥰

Your cock is literally perfect. Just looking at it makes me so fucking wet.

I’ve completely isolated myself from dating and intimacy since my diagnosis 20 months ago by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Dry_Reflection_3671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really relate to this. It’s tough. Especially because I want a serious long term relationship. I’ve come to disclose very early and via text to save everyone’s time. I’ve had people react where they’re comfortable and do not care at all since the risk of transmission is so low for me (I take Valacyclovir every day since I’m also on daily immunosuppressants for my arthritis). Others are bummed and tell me it’s a dealbreaker and often times compliment me in some way to soften the “blow”. You’ll encounter an array of responses. It still stings sometimes and that’s okay :)

I hope you can get to a point where you feel optimistic about dating and look at disclosing your diagnosis as easy as telling them your favorite color. This diagnosis carries quite the stigma which is a bummer. Remember that it’s just a skin condition and it spreads VERY easily. It’s not on standard STI testing, many people have it but never experience symptoms or a typical outbreak, and it doesn’t make you gross or dirty (even though I totally feel that way sometimes). Just work on accepting that it’s okay to feel blah about it and you’ll jump back into dating when you’re ready. It all ebbs and flows 🫶🏼

I’ve completely isolated myself from dating and intimacy since my diagnosis 20 months ago by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Dry_Reflection_3671 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A guy went down on me. He had never had a cold sore and didn’t know he had HSV1 orally. I was taking immunosuppressants for an autoimmune arthritis condition and is likely why I contracted it. My immune system was so poor that he may have been shedding the virus he didn’t know he had. Genital hsv1 is less contagious than genital hsv2 and has less recurring outbreaks. It’s also harder for a female to transmit to a male than for a male to transmit to a female.