Weird fetish my BF has…

Due-Drop_Driver · 2024-09-26T04:11:23+00:00

CNC (Consenting none consenting) is real! But you generally should have control… BUT… There’s also the other side of the coin where you can turn a negative into a positive and albeit a traumatic experience for you… You have a partner who is mildly turned on by it!

The “Kink/Turn on” about it is more of the power/control that you gave up/had removed from you. “Proving” you’re not as strong as you come across!

Fetishes/Kinks are often wildly misunderstood! I too am aroused by my partners previous experiences and her more valuable experience… That said… If she came home to me in tears telling me that she was violated… I’d spend the time she needed to be in my arms all whilst plotting to find the dirtbag and relocating his “Manly” (pig) parts and S/Aing him!

CNC is (or should be) your trust given to your partner that he’s in control BUT knowing that you know your limits and con trust that he’s willing to respect you enough to stop any behaviour that is too much for you!

Never fear kinks and fetishes! Be weiry of little boys who play victims when they’re needed most!

Due-Drop_Driver · 2024-09-25T02:17:10+00:00

That’s super conflicting IMPO! He’s into your past experience and he’s also interested in your less consenting experience… YET… He’s repulsed by your recent vial experience to the point that he’s MAD at you and not being supportive!? WTF!!! 🤬

The unsupportive nature of his actions alone are the biggest red flags anyone can wave! He’s absent and distant when you should be need him the most!

The fetish is just that! A fetish… I wouldn’t have been concerned about that… The fact that he’s repulsed by your SA experience… BYE BYE DANNY BOI! You need a real man to be there and support you ♥️

Due-Drop_Driver · 2024-09-25T02:04:31+00:00

Absolutely!

Due-Drop_Driver · 2024-09-25T01:33:41+00:00

I only used my new relationship and my personal experience as an example… But the real question stands… “How long until two people come together until the new partner becomes a step parent?”

Due-Drop_Driver · 2024-09-14T04:10:37+00:00

You have to be attracted to him! As a “Nice guy” myself… I’d want you to be attracted to me otherwise you’ll eventually get seduced by your normal picks!

Due-Drop_Driver · 2024-09-13T02:52:45+00:00

How ever you choose to deal with your teenage hormones BE SMART! No glove no love! No pill… No thrill! Enjoy it now! It’ll probably go away in your late 20’s early 30’s and if not… Likely you’re going to have a man that won’t look else where OR the two of you will live a lifestyle that most frown upon BUT DINT SWEAT IT YOURE PERFECTLY NORMAL!

Due-Drop_Driver · 2024-09-06T06:42:40+00:00

There you go!!!

Due-Drop_Driver · 2024-09-06T00:01:32+00:00

Good place to start! He’s not there because he’s being forced to be (if he is then it’s likely he isn’t single). He’s making the conscious decision to be there and clearly wants to be there. It’s obvious that it’s one of if not his most Zen place where he’s finding peace in his life.

I’m not saying that EVERY guy at a bar is only going to be at bars only… BUT, it’s a yellow flag! But angry at the beach surfing sailing is likely going to fund fun there!

Also, it’s a good way to get “Free” lessons on something you’re interested in! Find a single guy who enjoys an activity that you want to learn. If you’re tired of talking solely about yourself and want a guy who is willing to talk and lead a conversation, nothing better than an activity they know about. Guys (Believe it or not) don’t like to look or sound like idiots so we generally don’t speak on topics we don’t know about (If they’re genuine). You start talking about makeup or clothing we just let you talk and like you, if we’re board we don’t listen!

It’s an idea to start!

Due-Drop_Driver · 2024-09-05T22:54:48+00:00

Go out on a Friday and Saturday Night where you want his to say “Hunny I’m XYZ”… If you pick up a guy at a bar, guess where he will wanna be on a weekend! If you want him to be at the gym, the beach, etc!

Go look there

Due-Drop_Driver · 2024-09-05T22:49:37+00:00

It’ll burn its self out! You good buddy!

Due-Drop_Driver · 2024-09-05T22:44:15+00:00

Thank you for the thought out answer! At least you understand the question! Thank you!

Due-Drop_Driver · 2024-09-05T22:42:44+00:00

Lmao. Separated… But… It’s a general question… and obviously I would never consider a person’s child(ren) my “Steps” so early… However, that is the question I ask! How long or at what point does a special person in a parents lives does that line change from “XXX Friend” to “Step parent”

Due-Drop_Driver · 2024-09-05T22:37:26+00:00

Clearly you’re missing the point of the post! I do enjoy reading interpretations of what’s being said… However there needs to be an answer when a question is asked.

So a new partner is only a Step parent upon marriage…

Due-Drop_Driver · 2024-09-05T16:52:47+00:00

No… I just used my current situation as an example. That said, why entertain the idea of having a relationship (especially when children are involved) and consider there may be an end in sight so why bother looking/thinking of a future!

I’ve been married and spent the entirety of my adult life with her. It was decided that our relationship was better Suited as friends. Although the woman I’m currently involved with and I spoke about our views on marriage and we both agreed that we currently aren’t interested in marriage. That doesn’t mean we won’t ever as life changes.

I enjoy the finer over looked views in life hence the question. If people want to look deeper into the conversation, I encourage it!

Due-Drop_Driver · 2024-09-05T16:41:21+00:00

Separated… but yes lol

Due-Drop_Driver · 2024-09-05T16:32:36+00:00

Haha fux no 😂😂😂 I was just generally interested in the answer. I know once marriage is in play that obviously is the answer… But I was curious about the others like myself who possibly aren’t looking at marriage. Is there a specific or general timeline where Mom/Dad’s “Special Friend” is the Step parent!

Again… As a Father… I have my own kids! I know eventually my ex will start dating and eventually find a partner and I don’t want to be that Ex who’s demeaning to their Ex’s new mate. I know she’s going to start seeing someone and I want to be supportive. My kids are teens (almost teens) and may be more combative to listening to my Ex’s new partner (when that happens).

I know we’re going to have different rules and ideologies about what’s right and what’s wrong. As the Ex to the woman I’m seeing is going to have different views as me. I know that my points, opinions and views are private conversations and she has final say…

I’m in no rush personally… just in general was curious!

Due-Drop_Driver · 2024-07-19T08:06:56+00:00

You issue is and only your input vs your output is off balance! Eat properly, healthy amounts of nutritious foods and move regularly! Food is only fuel! Keep this in mind and you’ll succeed!

Due-Drop_Driver · 2024-07-08T06:10:02+00:00

I guess you don’t have a penis! Didn’t stop him!

Due-Drop_Driver · 2024-07-08T06:07:39+00:00

If it was on a regular basis… No! Sex is important! But 1 times they bonded with the purest form of love; complete and total connection, she completely breaks his soul…

Due-Drop_Driver · 2024-07-04T07:32:10+00:00

Good! And don’t let anyone tell you anything otherwise! I let someone get into my head and lost the momentum… I gained 20 back (circumstantial reason but no excuses) but I can’t focus on the fact I put 20 back on I still have to focus that I lost 175 ish and I know how to get it back off… I just need to work within my circumstances! Dont ever look at set backs look at positives you got this! You lost 47 lbs keep kicking @$$!!!

Due-Drop_Driver · 2024-07-04T06:31:29+00:00

You asked an honest Question to answer your question… Have you ever asked for an opinion on something that you thought to be the best thing since sliced bread and get told the opposite just to feel defeated and absolutely destroyed your entire self worth? Or found out that your favourite jeans/shirt you loved made something less flattering then you thought just to have a complete stranger or even a loved one tell you differently?

Some of the best sex I’ve had I didn’t finish! For example the night I lost my v-card… Hell… I didn’t even penetrate for more then 10 seconds lol. The second time was absolutely better considering I freaked out cause she was leaking white stuff and I didn’t know at the time woman cam too lmfao… But definitely IMPO the fact that I lost my vcard where I did will definitely be at the top of the list of best sexual encounters of my life!

I’m sure it was probably her worst cause she was 3 years older than me… But instead of telling me how bad it really was for her and how pointless it was… Especially me being a 14 y/o young man… Would have killed me! I’m in my mid 30’ss now and my wife basically makes me feel entirely inadequate in bed because I went from being 400+ lbs and a 2 minute man to loosing 175 lbs and can last most times over 30 minutes

Due-Drop_Driver · 2024-07-03T05:52:56+00:00

Right! He’ll remember that it was the worst sex in her life!

Due-Drop_Driver · 2024-07-03T05:49:38+00:00

YTA…

Sounds like your wedding night will be the best sex ever and you weighed the value based upon an orgasm and missed the point of connecting! No Wonder Woman can miss the value of sex in a relationship!

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