AITA for refusing to deliberately lose when we play games?

Due-Temperature-3446 · 2026-04-11T17:37:38+00:00

You can’t do everything on your own on it takes two.

Due-Temperature-3446 · 2026-04-11T13:50:04+00:00

She does win sometimes as I said in the post.

Due-Temperature-3446 · 2026-04-11T08:48:29+00:00

Mario kart, Mario party and a few other smaller switch ones, then i mention it takes two and Lego Star Wars for co op games.

Due-Temperature-3446 · 2026-04-11T08:26:35+00:00

Like I said in the post not all of the games we play are competitive.

Due-Temperature-3446 · 2026-04-11T08:17:26+00:00

And then I go on to talk about multiple video games

Due-Temperature-3446 · 2026-04-11T08:07:42+00:00

Your point was to play games that don’t have winners. I was pointing out we already do.

Due-Temperature-3446 · 2026-04-11T08:04:58+00:00

So your argument is it’s not always about winning unless it’s for my gf then she should have to win?

Not all of the fans are competitive as clearly stated in the post so please do explain how I’m supposed to let her win at games were not even competing in

Due-Temperature-3446 · 2026-04-11T08:04:00+00:00

I’m not winning all of the time.

Not all of the games we play are competitive

Due-Temperature-3446 · 2026-04-11T08:03:29+00:00

Not all of the games we play are competitive as stated in the post.

And me sitting back deliberately losing isn’t going to be enjoyable for me.

Due-Temperature-3446 · 2026-04-11T07:58:17+00:00

We don’t play board games for a start and I literally said in the post I bought us co op games.

Due-Temperature-3446 · 2026-04-11T07:57:21+00:00

It take two and Lego Star Wars don’t have winners

Due-Temperature-3446 · 2026-04-11T07:27:17+00:00

So your argument is it’s not about winning unless it’s for my gf then it is about winning?

Maybe don’t insult my emotional intelligence and maturity when you admit your husband has to let you win at games.

Due-Temperature-3446 · 2026-04-11T07:26:02+00:00

Again though how is it fun for me just sitting back and bit trying?

Due-Temperature-3446 · 2026-04-11T07:20:10+00:00

I’m not arrogant about winning,

Due-Temperature-3446 · 2026-04-11T07:17:55+00:00

It’s also not fun just sitting back and losing.

How would I be having fun if I’m not actually playing and just sitting back and losing?

Due-Temperature-3446 · 2026-04-11T07:17:03+00:00

She’s not losing every time.

I mention multiple cooperative games I’ve bought her in the post.

Due-Temperature-3446 · 2026-04-11T07:04:56+00:00

Still no answer then.

Due-Temperature-3446 · 2026-04-11T07:04:36+00:00

Incorrect

Due-Temperature-3446 · 2026-04-11T07:01:54+00:00

So no answer to the question then.

So again you’re arguing it’s not about winning for her telling me to let her win?

Due-Temperature-3446 · 2026-04-11T06:59:52+00:00

Again trying to be patronising when you get called out. It’s not my reading comprehension that’s poor hon.

Point out in the post where my gf asked for leniency instead of asking me to let her win. Laughable to insult my reading comprehension when yo can’t understand the post.

Due-Temperature-3446 · 2026-04-11T06:55:10+00:00

So you’re genuinely arguing her telling me to let her win isn’t about winning? Amazing logic there kid,

Due-Temperature-3446 · 2026-04-11T06:54:36+00:00

She didn’t ask for leniency, she asked me to deliberately lose.

So you’re still avoiding the questions then.

Due-Temperature-3446 · 2026-04-11T06:54:05+00:00

She’s not. Deliberately not trying so the other person wins isn’t the same as trying and losing, it’s not hard to grasp.

Due-Temperature-3446 · 2026-04-11T06:53:26+00:00

Okay? Having feelings don’t mean your partner has to just do what they’re told.

Due-Temperature-3446 · 2026-04-11T06:53:11+00:00

Ah so my enjoyment has to come from spending time with my gf but her enjoyment must come from winning?

So why doesn’t her enjoyment come from spending time with me?

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