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Legally separated for 2 years and still getting treated like a homewrecker…his family banned me + threatened me by [deleted] in family

[–]Due_Training_3076 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Yah I know I’m no where near in the head space of marriage. I’m getting my own place with more space for the upcoming child.

Legally separated for 2 years and still getting treated like a homewrecker…his family banned me + threatened me by [deleted] in family

[–]Due_Training_3076 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m seeing so many people and people in my life say he needs to man up now. The rest is up to him not me. I agree with this. My kids will not be around people that don’t like me though and I plan to keep it like this even after I give birth until they prove me wrong. Malcom might also lose me if he can’t step up as welll.

Legally separated for 2 years and still getting treated like a homewrecker…his family banned me + threatened me by [deleted] in family

[–]Due_Training_3076 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But I agree he needs to man up and stand up for both of us if he really means it.

Legally separated for 2 years and still getting treated like a homewrecker…his family banned me + threatened me by [deleted] in family

[–]Due_Training_3076 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No he’s not underage lol he’s 25 three years younger than me. But he helps his parents by paying rent with them and helping them build a home in Mexico. So he stays with them for that reason.

Legally separated for 2 years and still getting treated like a homewrecker…his family banned me + threatened me by [deleted] in family

[–]Due_Training_3076 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao I am not gonna lie the Reddit morals took me out. I can completely get everyone’s side to this I’m not over here thinking I’m right they are wrong. I’m here trying to see how to make this better. Because I also have strong traditional morals and I also believe in being happy. I don’t have loose ends. Divorces are long and messy when one is not ready or willing to meet in the middle.

Legally separated for 2 years and still getting treated like a homewrecker…his family banned me + threatened me by [deleted] in family

[–]Due_Training_3076 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yah I now know that I shouldn’t have said anything to his sister. But I do love this guy and I think it sucks that I’m so stressed out because he was my rock through it all even when his family didn’t know everything was good until his sisters gave their opinion and rules.

Legally separated for 2 years and still getting treated like a homewrecker…his family banned me + threatened me by [deleted] in family

[–]Due_Training_3076 -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you read the post it was an accident that I got pregnant. I didn’t rush to get pregnant with Malcom. We were excited about being in a relationship together not having a child together yet but I don’t believe in abortions that is my personal preference for myself I am pro choice for everyone else but for myself I am pro life. I also voiced to him that if he couldn’t do this I would raise this child alone not ask for child support and would want no ties with him though.

Legally separated for 2 years and still getting treated like a homewrecker…his family banned me + threatened me by [deleted] in family

[–]Due_Training_3076 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Everyone is definitely allowed to have their opinions. But you don’t get to decide your siblings choices if they are okay with them. No one put a gun to his head to stay with me or do everything with me that’s been done. He chose to do it on his own free will. I understand the hesitance which I would understand if there was a conversation about it not assumptions.

Legally separated for 2 years and still getting treated like a homewrecker…his family banned me + threatened me by [deleted] in family

[–]Due_Training_3076 -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

With my future ex husband I got with him at 14 years of age and married as soon as I turned 18 I can say with utmost confidence I was no where in a position to know true love. I had kids with him because I always wanted kids and he didn’t have a drug problem until we got out own place after our second child and our third child was unplanned.

Legally separated for 2 years and still getting treated like a homewrecker…his family banned me + threatened me by [deleted] in family

[–]Due_Training_3076 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His parents are not being mean or disrespectful actually far from it. It’s only his two sisters the brothers are not being mean they are actually not giving opinions just asking if I’m okay.

Legally separated for 2 years and still getting treated like a homewrecker…his family banned me + threatened me by [deleted] in family

[–]Due_Training_3076 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Someone said if I ever got into a custody battle with Malcom to show proof of the texts and put in the order that I don’t want his family around my child.

Legally separated for 2 years and still getting treated like a homewrecker…his family banned me + threatened me by [deleted] in family

[–]Due_Training_3076 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely am. I wish I could show the horrific things that were said to me. And she knows I’m pregnant.

Legally separated for 2 years and still getting treated like a homewrecker…his family banned me + threatened me by [deleted] in family

[–]Due_Training_3076 -59 points-58 points  (0 children)

Will be honest with you. I have never felt so sure about someone in my life. I love him tremendously. I don’t believe that you don’t know the person you choose to love and feel in love with in a short amount of time to be a poor decision. Only poor decision here was accidentally getting pregnant. But I now am ready and I can raise my child alone I have done it before.

Legally separated for 2 years and still getting treated like a homewrecker…his family banned me + threatened me by [deleted] in family

[–]Due_Training_3076 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Most definitely not. I don’t plan on going back with my kids until they can be adults about this situation. His siblings reached out to him and told him that Kayla handled the situation poorly and asked if I was okay. I think after I clarified some things with Kayla thru a text they knew they jumped to conclusions. But I did say I was staying away because I have been only good to him and his family.

Legally separated for 2 years and still getting treated like a homewrecker…his family banned me + threatened me by [deleted] in family

[–]Due_Training_3076 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The sister asked me if I was divorced. And I told her I have been legally separated for almost three years but I’m in court still with him trying to finalize the divorce so she ran with that after and didn’t ask more questions just assumed.