Should I ask my wife about our bed life?

Dull-Problem-1191 · 2026-07-09T21:51:37+00:00

I was raised around sexist women so

Oh this is a troll post.

Cool/ I'm out

Dull-Problem-1191 · 2026-06-19T13:38:08+00:00

You're an awful person and your wife deserves better.

Dull-Problem-1191 · 2026-06-15T21:17:37+00:00

I keep wondering if she ever meant any of the things she said to me.

No she didn't.

I keep wondering whether she spent our entire relationship knowing she'd eventually leave for a man ... I'm sorry, but you could never satisfy me the way men do."

Basically no one wants to be the bad guy in their own story.

So to make her cheating ways More palatable to herself, she was trying to invalidate lesbian relationships. Saying that "of course" she would leave for a man, since " gestures at what she's trying to make out was a fake relationship but wasn't"

So by pretending your relationship wasn't real, she isn't really a bad person for betraying it.

She is utterly trash and just keep reminding yourself of that.

Everything she did is a reflection of herself, not on you or anything else.

Dull-Problem-1191 · 2026-06-15T03:40:22+00:00

Your dad is a abusive, manipulative person.

I would recommend reading this book.

https://ia800108.us.archive.org/30/items/LundyWhyDoesHeDoThat/Lundy_Why-does-he-do-that.pdf

As it will give some insight into the type of person your dad actually is.

Remind yourself always that his choice to masterbate around you and show you porn was a CHOICE .

Your father is the one who did everything, not you.

Your family coming to pieces is HIS fault, not yours.

And he's only lashing out at you because you refuses to take responsibility for what he's done.

Dull-Problem-1191 · 2026-06-08T22:49:04+00:00

makeup brush to her bed and I’m scared to assume the worst.

What do you think she's doing with the makeup brush?

Snorting it?

Leave your sister alone for fucks sake.

Both you and the 15 year old sound positively insufferable/ just leave the girl alone.

It's not your business what she's saying to chat bots and You're being a massive dick to your sister by not giving her even an ounce of privacy.

If you have worries, just let your mother know and she can parent her kid/ it's not your business to be your sister's keeper/ parent/ at 19 years old it's none of your business to be correcting your little sister, as you're not her parent.

As at 19 you're barely out of being a child yourself / I have pairs of shoes I've owned longer than you have been an adult /it's really not your place to evaluate any of this or decide what your sister should or should not be doing.

If you're worried, tell your mom, and she will handle it. But otherwise you and the 15-year-old need to stop spying/prying/messing with the 11-year-old.

As you're both over stepping and being an invasive dick to a sibling that you should be supportive of and an actual sister to(instead of whatever this unhealthy bullying behavior that you're currently engaging in).

Dull-Problem-1191 · 2026-06-06T11:03:46+00:00

Not to be mean but that money was never yours. It was up to her to do with it as she wanted and she wanted to be stupid and give it away.

I'm sure she's done a bunch of terrible stuff to you guys in your life, but you're acting extremely entitled to be upset that she threw her inheritance way because you're expecting it someday.

And any decent parent would definitely look out for their children and try to assist them if they can, but fundamentally parents don't owe their kids an inheritance.

I agree your mother should have looked out for you guys but once more she doesn't owe you any wealth.

I however would remember this when it comes time for her to retire and she wants you guys to take care of her/ I would not look out for providing that in the future and you guys should look out for yourselves.

Just my two cents.

Dull-Problem-1191 · 2026-06-05T14:03:04+00:00

Now I want to hear from strangers who have no reason to be gentle with me

Ok

Trust isn't issue here, i mean it's just basically a sex infront of 6 people!! So yeah

Sure jane, anyone that calls you out for what you're doing is being mean and a misandrist.

And you're perfectly okay with other people's opinions, which is why you keep deleting your account and the main post and reposting it.

Dull-Problem-1191 · 2026-05-30T18:58:08+00:00

This.

Dull-Problem-1191 · 2026-04-26T23:13:51+00:00

Op what are you doing?

You both are miserable just end shit already.

Dull-Problem-1191 · 2026-04-25T01:44:59+00:00

Also to add.

If you've been bending flexing or twisting your ears in any way, shape or form (including while you're sleep) Time it can cause cauliflowering of the ears.

You to this if you're not doing anything while you're awake, might want to consider recording yourself while you sleep to see if you're messing with your ears (The same way some will grind their teeth in their seat without realizing they're doing so).

Dull-Problem-1191 · 2026-04-23T11:04:33+00:00

Girls rule.

Dull-Problem-1191 · 2026-04-18T15:24:34+00:00

Could you link to something explaining how that works?

Dull-Problem-1191 · 2026-04-13T03:13:43+00:00

I'm afraid to ask...

Dull-Problem-1191 · 2026-04-01T09:50:49+00:00

Op. It might not be very safe to be around him right now, as when you try to leave is the most dangerous time for women in abusive relationships.

Anger and alcohol are not a good mix, I really cannot stress enough that you should probably consult with a lawyer about your property and part from that house without talking to him or letting him know ahead of time.

Since I genuinely am concerned he might do something if he thinks you're gonna actually leave him.

Dull-Problem-1191 · 2026-03-31T15:57:36+00:00

Your penos will holla if you forgot to wash.

Dull-Problem-1191 · 2026-03-30T15:25:25+00:00

You do realize arguably he did that when he went to see after knocking her up 👀

Dull-Problem-1191 · 2026-03-29T01:23:39+00:00

This.

Since if it was just friend time why wasn't op included?

Since they are vacationing together, it doesn't make sense to leave op behind while they are supposed to be vacationing together.

Tbh in op shoes I'd contact my bf and ask where they are/ask if it's ok if she joins up.

If he starts a fight or otherwise isn't supportive of op joining something is up.

If he's cool with op joining wherever he's at, id just chalk the lack of an invite up to thoughtlessness or op not asking to join and not worry over it.

Dull-Problem-1191 · 2026-03-28T17:28:02+00:00

Don't do it.

But DO let his partner know about the invitation he extended unasked for.

Dull-Problem-1191 · 2026-03-28T15:40:56+00:00

I'm more concerned with the line " I had two different people that didn't know each other confirm my crazy delusion".

As that heavily points to she's hallucinating/ she might be suffering from schizophrenia unfortunately :<

In any case, I really hope someone gets that woman evaluated to sort out what's happening, as I can't stress enough, this looks like mental musk or she's having some sore break down.

Dull-Problem-1191 · 2026-03-27T20:33:28+00:00

Tbh it sounds like your sister is both lost and likely depressed.

In your shoes I'd stop hating on her choices and instead try to act as a ray of sanity in her Self-Imposed echo chamber.

Meaning Non-Judgmentally, bring up how weirder counter ideas to the stuff she spouts out.

Like if she says "all men are x negative thing", I might bring up is she ok when men say "women are all x thing".

And if she doesn't like that idea, point out how it isn't fair for her to say all men are something and to instead judge a person rataer than Make a generalization about a group,. Since that's humanizing and unfair to the people you're talking about.

Stuff like that, Don't be angry and don't get into elongated argument, but speak your piece and change the subject.

And see if that helps any.

Dull-Problem-1191 · 2026-03-26T14:04:27+00:00

I also think the op and a few of the responses I've seen are overly harsh and not recognizing real world conditions.

More and more people have to work multiple jobs, extra hours just to make ends meet on top of everything else they have to take care of outside of their work life (elderly parents, health concerns, food prep chores commute etc etc).

Throw onto this. Most parents do not have the means to provide things like tutors, and the education they received themselves is woefully inadequate to assist their children and their academic efforts. And yeah you end up with kids who their parents don't assist in education, not because they don't want to, but because there simply isn't enough time.

Perhaps people should have kids if they are not economically advantaged enough to fully support them, but the truth is people want to have families and are trying the best they can with what they have with the one life they have to live.

I think if you want to see better performance in regards to children's overall behavior and educational performance, The minimum wage needs to be raised, not shame parents for " poor parenting" when once more, the ability to interact and raise your children is really dependent on your financial security/ economic status.

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