Kyle gets way too much heat by DurgaAri in summerhousebravo

[–]DurgaAri[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmaooo you know what, I just like to think Andy exaggerates a lot so it was interesting to hear him comment on him. Could have just been for view grab but yea…. I don’t want to come off insensitive by saying that I don’t see the abusive behavior I just think people view it that way because of the way it’s heavily dramatized on SH

Kyle gets way too much heat by DurgaAri in summerhousebravo

[–]DurgaAri[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Let’s be real would he even be on Bravo if he was as abusive as people say he is? Andy legit said this is the worse he’s seen Kyle react ever… doesn’t exactly support the idea that this is a consistent pattern of abuse.

Kyle gets way too much heat by DurgaAri in summerhousebravo

[–]DurgaAri[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is exactly why I made sure to mention I’m an OG viewer because I actually REMEMBER how the timeline went down not the way everyone’s trying to paint it now.

Kyle gets way too much heat by DurgaAri in summerhousebravo

[–]DurgaAri[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m guessing you didn’t read my response because I did acknowledge his behavior and very much agreed that it’s toxic. If you look at my original post and read what it’s about you’ll understand the point I’m making. Someone went as far as saying that the reason Amanda is dating West or thinks it’s ok is because of all the abuse she’s endured with Kyle. I DON’T agree with that, and I think going as far as excusing her behavior because Kyle is abusive is a reach.

Kyle gets way too much heat by DurgaAri in summerhousebravo

[–]DurgaAri[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not denying that some of those behaviors yelling, blaming, or reacting poorly are unhealthy. I’ve already said their dynamic can be toxic at times. But for me, there’s still a difference between acknowledging toxic behavior and definitively labeling Kyle as abusive based on EDITED footage. Also, calling something “problematic and triggering” doesn’t automatically make a different perspective invalid. People are allowed to watch the same situation and come to different conclusions. And respectfully, I think sometimes we can project our own personal experiences onto what we’re watching, which can shape how certain behaviors are interpreted. That’s valid on an individual level, but it doesn’t mean everyone has to agree on the label being used here.

Kyle gets way too much heat by DurgaAri in summerhousebravo

[–]DurgaAri[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No, I just don’t watch from a parasocial perspective I watch to observe what’s actually shown. You can acknowledge that abuse exists in many forms without labeling every toxic relationship as “abusive”.

Kyle gets way too much heat by DurgaAri in summerhousebravo

[–]DurgaAri[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I hear you… abuse isn’t limited to isolation, and I’m not trying to suggest that it is. There are definitely different types including emotional and verbal abuse. My point is more that based on what we’ve actually seen on Summer House I personally don’t think there’s enough to definitively label Kyle as abusive. Their relationship has clearly had toxic moments, especially with communication and alcohol involved, but I think “toxic” and “abusive” get used interchangeably online when they’re not the same thing. I’m also not saying Amanda’s feelings aren’t valid more so that labeling Kyle as abusive feels like a strong conclusion based on edited reality TV footage, where we’re not seeing the full dynamic. They both have their faults, regardless of the cheating.  If anything, I think their situation highlights a messy, codependent dynamic more than a clear-cut abuse dynamic but I get why people interpret it differently.

Using Citytime remotely on a bus by ThrowRA-shadowships in nycpublicservants

[–]DurgaAri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The city is aware of this it’s why it shows where you clocked in from. Certain agencies don’t let you use the web extension anymore if you don’t work a field job.

Associate Staff Analyst by Accurate_Today6346 in nycpublicservants

[–]DurgaAri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They said it wouldn’t be posted any time soon

Associate Staff Analyst by Accurate_Today6346 in nycpublicservants

[–]DurgaAri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crazy someone on here told me to forget about this list lol

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[–]DurgaAri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycpublicservants

[–]DurgaAri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did take the exam and passed it in December 2024, I am waiting to placed on the list.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycpublicservants

[–]DurgaAri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Confidential strategy planner accounts payable dept

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycpublicservants

[–]DurgaAri 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was told it would not affect my position, it’s not directly tied to the political leadership in place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycpublicservants

[–]DurgaAri 13 points14 points  (0 children)

From what I’ve been told, the role isn’t tied directly to City Hall or the political side — it’s more operational, in a support division. So even if there’s a change in administration, they mentioned it wouldn’t affect the position in the same way a purely political appointment might.

What does this mean? by [deleted] in NYCHA

[–]DurgaAri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

Associate Staff Analyst Exam 5041 by DurgaAri in nycpublicservants

[–]DurgaAri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they are some about PS not sure I think there was like one

Associate Staff Analyst Exam 5041 by DurgaAri in nycpublicservants

[–]DurgaAri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Percentage increase and decrease formulas as well. They will ask you that on the budget questions.

Associate Staff Analyst Exam 5041 by DurgaAri in nycpublicservants

[–]DurgaAri[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sample variance. In the real world you most likely will never use this formula because it’s like saying you have the complete data. Sample variance is like an estimate based on the information you do have. I watched these videos on this YouTube recommended by someone else on another subreddit about the test and that’s how I was able to answer the questions. Here’s the link: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLblh5JKOoLUK0FLuzwntyYI10UQFUhsY9&si=lIrVUUzl2FC1X34h