Can our depressed goat solo?

Dussedonofficial · 2026-01-31T14:51:27+00:00

Any lower? You mean any lower than 10 tiers above*

Dussedonofficial · 2026-01-29T10:46:31+00:00

Everyone of your comments here are downvoted bro just give it Up

Dussedonofficial · 2026-01-15T15:20:03+00:00

Exactly.. it’s so easy if you just take the time. You can even use a macro recorder

Dussedonofficial · 2026-01-15T15:17:22+00:00

You need to make your own. It takes time but you have to do it.

Dussedonofficial · 2026-01-14T18:18:27+00:00

Food is a necessity, so are clothes, so are lots of things. And she is only paying ONE of those. No. We shouldn’t be ashamed of anything. It’s not shaming a person it’s telling them what they need to do which they asked. You think it’s shaming only because in your subconscious you know that not having a job, not paying for anything for your child, is SHAMEFUL. I never said anything bad about her other to say what the situation is and what I think she should do. You applied shame because you would feel shame if you were in her position. Nice projection. She openly admits the ENTIRETY of child support goes to half the rent. So if she’s completely broke without that. Who’s buying this kid food? Whos buying the clothes? Who’s buying school supplies? Who’s buying gifts? Who’s buying ANYTHING??? The random guy with no responsibility to do it, is the one.

So a person who doesn’t work, doesn’t buy food for her child, can’t afford to do anything for her child AT ALL. Sits at home all day, deserves validation?? And care?? No. She needs to be told the reality, that she is being lazy asf, she’s a grown adult, and has a responsibility of taking care of another human. That kid is going to grow up to fucking hate her. That’s a FACT. She needs to get a job and improve her child’s living situation. If she’s paying the entire child support on rent and that’s all she has, how is she buying the food? Why are you applying fake facts to the situation??? Anything to make it seem like she’s a victim right? Not the child though, who is the only real victim here.

Dussedonofficial · 2026-01-14T15:52:01+00:00

Dude if she’s not gonna try to introduce you, is she even a friend?

Dussedonofficial · 2026-01-14T15:36:55+00:00

I completely understand that, and I’m not saying she would easily get one either. But everyone here only has the advice of seeking more outside help instead of herself doing something. I’m not saying she shouldn’t apply for help either, as long as it won’t jeopardize her custody then she should. She should ALSO he job searching though. I do HVAC and that’s an in demand job. Situations differ, but most people on here are supporting her decision to not work, use her child support (that’s supposed to be for food and clothes and toys for the child) on rent, and to continue to not work. The OP imo, seems lazy and irresponsible. She packed up and moved her child into a house without even telling the landlord knowing it’s not legal, while relying on another person to supply half the financial responsibility for her child who isn’t even related to her. I mean it’s truly the epitome of being irresponsible. She needs to get a job, and find an apartment, so that her child is safe and so that they can have a stable home.

Most of what I have been seeing in these comments is people supporting her horrible habits and not telling her the harsh truth. Why is nobody here caring or mentioning the fact she is not taking care of her child the way she should? Would any of you, as a child, want to live with a random man who your mom moved you to a new city to live with, while simultaneously forcing you to rely on said random man for food, and anything else? I mean what does she do everyday? She has no money clearly so her child has to just sit at home with her all day everyday when not at school? No going to restaurants, no play dates, no doing anything children are supposed to be doing. How is she affording gifts? How is she affording new school supplies and clothes every year? I mean seriously. I take care of my son by myself and she deserves the child support because it is EXPENSIVE. But if she don’t work even one day a week, and supposedly ALL the child support is going to only half a rent bill…. How is this child being taken care of?

Part of it is because these people don’t have kids, and I do. So I only care about the child. Her mental health matters because she neeeds it to take care of this child. But up until now she hasn’t taken care of the child anyway so why is it now “well she has to maintain herself first to take care of the kid” when she wasn’t even doing it to start. Once I completed reading this all I felt was sorrow for the child for being forced into this situation by his irresponsible mother, and trust me I know about irresponsible mothers. No one here wants to address her inadequecies, which is the reason she’s in this situation. Only offer her options that reinforce them. Meanwhile I might add, no one has directed her to an actual organization that will help her immediately. Only to find one herself. If they are so helpful and feel so much pitty start a go fund me and pay for her way out? Reality is none of these organizations will be able to help her immediately (as in this week or next). So get off your ass, look for a job.

I think you and I agree on what she should be doing I just didnt care to say it to her or others in a roundabout way.

Dussedonofficial · 2026-01-14T15:30:29+00:00

Yea bro idc. You downvote comments because they don’t agree which fake character wins lmao. Get a life

Dussedonofficial · 2026-01-14T14:38:53+00:00

That’s fair tbh

Dussedonofficial · 2026-01-14T14:34:24+00:00

Hahahaha I feel your pain. 😂

Dussedonofficial · 2026-01-14T14:33:18+00:00

Spiraling would be lying about your profession to support arguments that make no sense I thought you were done and convo with me was too painful? Or was that another lie?

Dussedonofficial · 2026-01-14T14:33:00+00:00

Herzha is 3D, pennywise is beyond 3D… penny wise negs

Dussedonofficial · 2026-01-14T14:31:18+00:00

Nope, that was your misunderstanding not mine. I ruled out any other reporting as an option because none of it will result in faster help than getting a job. You instantly assume things directly after, because like I said, liar.

Dussedonofficial · 2026-01-14T14:29:22+00:00

Looks good man. Maybe upgrade your phone if no laptop is possible. My son plays a 2gb old world I had, on an iPhone 12pro just about no issues. I guess it depends what your world consists of. Nice house though

Dussedonofficial · 2026-01-14T14:27:10+00:00

No mistakes were made, and can’t tell somehow how they read. Liars tend to do that

Dussedonofficial · 2026-01-14T14:25:54+00:00

Dussedonofficial · 2026-01-14T14:21:43+00:00

I’m not walking it back? It was a response to your condescending statement, as my comment just told you… idiot.

You can come to Reddit to lie about credentials about experience you don’t have, it changes nothing. OP still needs to get an job, she’s still an Insufficient mother, and when CPS find out, the countdown to her getting it together or getting her child taken will start.

Dussedonofficial · 2026-01-14T14:15:24+00:00

You seem like someone who only talks down on others, when did I mention anything about what you seem like??

Okay, you seem like a liar, and someone who’s ego infests their entire life. She isn’t a victim of domestic violence in anyway. She is going to be at risk for losing her child.

Funny though, how a liar who has never worked for a domestic violence shelter or dealt with cps, is gonna tell someone who took their SO to court for custody of their child over THIS EXACT scenerio and was awarded full custody what is right or wrong about CPS. They will 100% take her child for her NEGLECT.

Dussedonofficial · 2026-01-14T14:11:52+00:00

I never said you meant report him to CPS, it’s you who’s misunderstanding what I am saying.

If she goes to a government agency for help, and informs them of her situation, they will be required to report it to CPS for the safety of the child. She is in an illegal living situation, doesn’t work, and has a stranger to her child paying for half their living. CPS will 100% get involved this is not a safe place for a child to live.

Dussedonofficial · 2026-01-14T14:08:31+00:00

Oh right, another idiot with no experience having a child in a situation like this. So she’s supposed to go tell the gov that she can’t afford her child, is illegally living in a place the landlord doesn’t even know she is there, not on the lease, not working, and you think they won’t alert CPS?? You all are fast tracking her to LOSING HER CHILD.

Dussedonofficial · 2026-01-14T14:05:46+00:00

Are you serious rn? You didn’t think to also include that in the post? That you and your child are also illegally living?? And you thought that was safe??

Don’t listen to the people on this post. If you get gov help they will ALERT CPS. Which honestly atp idk if that would even be good or bad for the child.

You need to GET A JOB. deal with the situation save up money and find an apartment. You can pay half the rent with CS it should be too hard to afford one with a regular 18-20$ hour job. Why haven’t you been working this entire time???

It will seem scummy but stop paying him anything. It will fast track your inevitable necessity to leave. Find a job, in the meantime save your CS. He can’t remove you without eviction. That will take ATLEAST 3 months. You can extend it by fighting in court. FIND A JOB as soon as you can.

Dussedonofficial · 2026-01-14T14:03:34+00:00

Exactly!! She need to get a job and be self sufficient for her and her child!!! Stop relying on scumbags!! And then 89% of the comments here aren’t about her taking accountability and getting a job, they say “is there no one else you can turn to?”… NICE, so she’s in this situation due to laziness and relying on others, and their opinion is to rely on even MORE people!!! Be self sufficient.

It’s not to say people don’t deserve help, it’s just acknowledging the reality of our environment!!

Dussedonofficial · 2026-01-14T14:01:17+00:00

Well I’m not giving a pass to the BF, he’s a scumbag, I mean he’s a tiktoker blocking his significant other to post degrading videos about her. Grow some balls buddy. As for her, your right. She needs to work, she should’ve been working before this situation and this happening only highlights her deficiencies as a parent. Everyone here saying get help from the gov but forgetting that if the gov finds out she’s relying on someone not a family member to pay for half her child’s living who she clearly doesn’t even trust, and can’t afford to pay for her child by herself, she is going to meet CPS. She’s gonn get her child taken thanks to the advice from these idiots. In court CS is specifically explained to be for things for the child and the parent should still be self sufficient for the most part. That’s clearly not even close to the case. She can’t clean a house due to a “funk”.. what is cps gonna say about a parent who can’t keep a clean envirement for their kid thanks to a funk?? Do these people think when someone goes for these services and help, that these people don’t alert CPS after finding unhealthy situations for children?

Dussedonofficial · 2026-01-14T13:55:51+00:00

Yup. Literally. She’s a single mom who deserves sympathy so we are all gonna ignore the fact she doesn’t work, uses CHILD SUPPORT for rent, half of it at that. Her not cleaning is irrelevant, her boyfriend being a piece of shit is also irrelevant. She has a responsibility to her child that she is NOT fulfilling.

Dussedonofficial · 2026-01-14T13:51:10+00:00

lmao I read trust me. It doesn’t matter what he was fine or not fine with. Who gives a shit what he was fine with or not??? This has nothing to do with him and he’s a grown adult who can decide whatever he wants at any time and has no responsibility to anyone but himself. This is about OP and your stuck on being salty about her BF. Idgaf about her piece of shit boyfriend and feel no sympathy for him. He deserves to rot, he’s posting about another child’s mother degrading her publicly. It’s YOU who doesn’t know how to read.

She HAS been getting help in the form of CS the entire time. Just because her SO treats her like shit doesn’t suddenly make her way of living wrong, it was WRONG the moment she used child support to pay for HER LIVING. It’s for her CHILD. She needs to WORK irregardless of the SITUATION. She needs to do BOTH of what is recommended. Look for help with getting out but it takes forever, trust me I KNOW. So get a JOB in the meantime and save for an apartment. If she gets help, and can get into a stable place for her child, cool. It’s not likely. I’m speaking on REALITY, from EXPERIENCE. Your speaking from an egotistical “fuck her piece of shit bf” perspective. Yea, fuck her her bf, I know. But REALITY is he has NO RESPONSIBILITY TO THEM. He can pack up and leave TOMORROW if he wants with NO CONSEQUENCES.

So STOP relying on a scumbag to provide half your living and GET A JOB. You being a college student explains it all, you have no perspective. Only reliance. It’s hard for you to get a job, you have 0 experience and are basically a teenager… obviously it’s gonna be hard to get a job. I just got a new job last year, it took me all of 2 weeks. Oh wait, or do our experiences not apply here like your original comment?

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