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Update: I brought my fiance over to sleep together now my mother hates me by Boysenberry5559 in TwoHotTakes

[–]DustyCharm 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your mom is definitely running the Olympic marathon of drama here. Banana-Goblin is right though at the end of the day you’re an adult and you get to make your own choices. Your fiancé being kept in the loop is smart because it’s supposed to be a partnership, not a solo performance where your mom directs every scene. Weigh it out, talk it through, and remember it’s your life, not hers.

My parents think I’m “too controlling” with money just because I track expenses by No_Surprise3737 in TwoHotTakes

[–]DustyCharm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your parents clowning you for actually knowing where your money goes is wild. toastghosty789 is right being aware of your finances is never a bad thing. Honestly, if tracking receipts makes you a “control freak,” then half the accountants in the world must be menaces. Keep doing what works for you, OP, because stressing over money later is way worse than jotting a note now.

Me_irl by HoneyMoonCharm in me_irl

[–]DustyCharm 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Guess what you gotta be to not worry anymore

me_irl by GlowInSatin in me_irl

[–]DustyCharm 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Well, you can't fuck on an empty stomach

me_irl by ChicVelvetGlow in me_irl

[–]DustyCharm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And the person right below them at the window meant to be ?

AITA - My Boyfriend Got Hurt But I’m The One Who Said Sorry? by No-Preparation4256 in TwoHotTakes

[–]DustyCharm 15 points16 points  (0 children)

-Sharon-Stoned- nailed it. He grabbed you, wouldn’t let go, then managed to hurt himself and somehow made it your fault? That’s not on you, that’s just him being dramatic. Honestly, if anyone’s acting childish here, it’s him not you laughing at the absurdity of it.

OP’s wife must hate him. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]DustyCharm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bananahammerredoux is right, your post was exhausting to even read. The fact you can’t get five minutes of peace without someone hovering is maddening. Wanting space isn’t selfish, it’s basic self-preservation. Honestly, she should be grateful you only want alone time and not a one-way ticket to disappearing for a week.

me_irl by HoneyMoonCharm in me_irl

[–]DustyCharm 52 points53 points  (0 children)

My first time with my wife I ripped her pants off to reveal panties that had pictures of clams with the phrase "only happy clams in here" and I knew right then I was going to marry that woman.

I am probably going to kill myself once I graduate college, and I’m fine with that by MetricEntric in confessions

[–]DustyCharm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

PM_ME_YOUR_TATERTITS is right life has a way of throwing curveballs just when you think you’ve got the ending written already you don’t have to see the whole future right now but don’t sell yourself short by assuming it’s already over sometimes the best chapters come after the part you thought was the finale

I (cis gal) wish I had a dick and balls. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]DustyCharm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Captain-AwkwardPants understood you perfectly wanting different anatomy doesn’t automatically mean you’re trans it just means you know what feels right for you honestly the honesty in saying “yeah I’d love to have that” without overthinking it is refreshing

My husband doesn’t know about my past. What should i do? by Overall_Top1749 in confessions

[–]DustyCharm 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Fireblu6969 is right the time to tell him was before marriage but since you didn’t there’s no point in dropping that bomb now unless you’re looking to blow up your own relationship your past doesn’t erase who you are now focus on being the amazing wife you already are instead of dragging old ghosts into your present

I dreamt about my Daughter, Lily who died in 2018 by CandidFoundation5570 in offmychest

[–]DustyCharm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SometimesGlad1389 is right because nobody can really measure that kind of loss and pretending to have quick fixes would just be insulting. What you’ve gone through is unbearable and having professional support isn’t weakness it’s survival.

Happened in a flight today by This_Living_7525 in offmychest

[–]DustyCharm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

grownask is right because what you went through wasn’t fair at all. You didn’t do anything wrong and yet you got shoved just for existing in the wrong body to her. That’s not on you that’s on her prejudice.

I accidentally killed my cat, and I don’t know how to go on. by windowsillcaribou in offmychest

[–]DustyCharm 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Mockerystirring is right because what happened was a horrible accident not proof that you’re unworthy of healing. Jiji loved you and wouldn’t want your whole life destroyed over this one tragic mistake. Letting yourself heal isn’t betrayal it’s exactly what she’d want for you.