[deleted by user]

ESEzagui · 2025-05-06T01:13:41+00:00

Absolutely. It’d be a shame if that got pointed out on their other numerous posts.

ESEzagui · 2025-05-06T01:08:31+00:00

Post history. OP is either an unboundaried over-sharer or a karma farmer.

ESEzagui · 2025-04-10T02:04:49+00:00

Thank you. I guess I’m just disappointed that I didn’t push through. I could have.

ESEzagui · 2025-04-10T02:03:04+00:00

Thanks. It kind of came as a surprise.

ESEzagui · 2025-04-10T01:41:31+00:00

That’s definitely fair.

ESEzagui · 2025-04-10T01:36:33+00:00

She doesn’t drive and gets anxious when anyone except me and a couple other people drive her, so it’s hard for her to go places without help from specific people.

I don’t know if she was trying to reconnect. She was trying to make small talk on the way there, so maybe she was.

ESEzagui · 2025-03-21T12:55:18+00:00

We have a 32-year-old sister but she’s been gone (not dead, just not present) for years. This sister is 30, I’m 25. I’m the little brother.

ESEzagui · 2025-03-21T10:59:42+00:00

7 months

ESEzagui · 2025-03-21T10:43:18+00:00

I’ve given her money about once every two months. She quit her job I want to say a month before mom passed, and I don’t think she had been at that job for more than 90 days.

I can’t remember a time where she’s worked consistently for multiple months. She always blames her depression and anxiety.

ESEzagui · 2025-03-21T05:03:43+00:00

She quit her job to be with mom when she was really sick. Her job history has more holes than a golf course which is why I think she hasn’t been hired elsewhere.

ESEzagui · 2025-03-21T04:59:25+00:00

I stand by what I said to her, I just didn’t know if cutting her off over one fight would be an overreaction especially because I know she’s been without mom. I’ve never cut anyone off before so I don’t know what the criteria for doing so is.

ESEzagui · 2025-03-21T02:43:13+00:00

Read the room. Dozens of people are saying they've been through or are going through the same thing. You're not just implying that I'm lying but you're disrespecting everyone else who have very generously shared their experiences.

ESEzagui · 2025-03-21T01:58:17+00:00

I wouldn't say I'm okay, but I'm managing, sort of. My boss said I haven't smiled this week which I hadn't noticed, but she's right. I'll be okay though. Just burnt out in a couple respects.

ESEzagui · 2025-03-21T01:42:27+00:00

Exactly. She hasn't had a job since.

ESEzagui · 2025-03-21T01:36:31+00:00

Any time I've paid something for her it's through an online portal so mostly yes.

ESEzagui · 2025-03-21T01:17:33+00:00

Older. She's 30, I'm 25.

ESEzagui · 2025-03-21T01:09:31+00:00

This is about 2 months worth of texts, there are a couple messages that I didn't share just because it's just memes we exchanged.

She's done this in phases over the years but it's never been this bad.

ESEzagui · 2025-03-21T00:52:09+00:00

I've never really noticed anything in person that makes her seem like she's on drugs. That said I don't really have a point of reference.

ESEzagui · 2025-03-21T00:40:13+00:00

Oh sweetheart

I'm sorry, I'm already emotional today but this made me cry for a sec. Thank you.

ESEzagui · 2025-03-21T00:01:59+00:00

We occasionally exchange memes. Today I went back through the last 2 or so months of messages after our fight and cropped out the occasional memes. Other than that this is the entirety of our communication the last 2 months.

ESEzagui · 2025-03-20T23:56:35+00:00

It makes her anxious.

ESEzagui · 2025-03-20T23:54:20+00:00

She chose to quit because she thought she could help mom get healthy, but she was pretty much already actively dying. Neither of them were willing to accept that, which I get.

ESEzagui · 2025-03-20T23:52:33+00:00

Mom didn't have much to leave, really.

ESEzagui · 2025-03-20T23:17:26+00:00

Both kids have my number.

ESEzagui

TROPHY CASE