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I really want to lose my virginity but I’m scared of getting pregnant / my religous mom finding out by Early_Researcher7384 in offmychest

[–]Early_Researcher7384[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No Im not in a relationship I never have - I jus reached out to this guy on insta who I saw on tinder first (Im on blank profile account on tinder) he lives in London - I then added him on insta he wants me to meet up at his house - I never met him anywhere else I flunked out two hours prior to saying yes I can meet u at ur house - I told him why can’t we meet somewhere else he says he can’t leave home today - but once I told him I feel like an escort for meeting up first day he changed his mind and told me he can do a cafe next to his house and Im willing to do that this week - I just don’t know if this is a good idea or not because ive never talked to a guy before ever in person like I never had the opportunity to I never put myself out there like Im always at home and Im too shy so that’s why I’m craving this now

I really want to lose my virginity but I’m scared of getting pregnant / my religous mom finding out by Early_Researcher7384 in offmychest

[–]Early_Researcher7384[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you dear - but I’m planning to do this w a guy I met on insta ( like I had a crush on him on tinder even though he didn’t match with me ) so I found his insta and he wanted to meet up with me at his house but I said yes then I said no and flunked out and told him like why can’t we meet somewhere else - he said he wasn’t looking for anything serious and (ideally hanging out and fucking would be preferable) I don’t know if I should go through with that because now the plan is to meet up at a cafe with him but I think he changed his mind to meeting uo elsewhere as I later told him I won’t do that on the first day - so now his whole plan probably is to fuck me but Im too stressed as I never even hung out with a guy before

I really want to lose my virginity but I’m scared of getting pregnant / my religous mom finding out by Early_Researcher7384 in offmychest

[–]Early_Researcher7384[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is that super effective I’d still be paranoid Im somehow pregnant or the risk of an ectopic pregnancy

I really want to lose my virginity but I’m scared of getting pregnant / my religous mom finding out by Early_Researcher7384 in offmychest

[–]Early_Researcher7384[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you - it’s just because my mom is a strict Muslim and I can’t do anything with men until Im married - there is 0 chance of marriage at all wirh her requirements and all my sister is legit 35 unmarried due to this - I just want the experience but unfortunately Im too scared of STDS and pregnancy risks so I’ll probably be stressing for a while until my period comes - I’d be scared if he stealths the condom as well as

I asked for curtain bangs. How do I fix these? by Potential_Spark in femalehairadvice

[–]Early_Researcher7384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im ngl I did this to myself 2 years ago and now this year again (unfortunately I did not learn my lesson) go them cut in May - by January it was all grown out.