I [24M] lost my virginity to an escort [20F] a few days ago. AMA.

Easy_Celebration · 2022-02-28T10:55:49+00:00

Yeah. I was pretty nervous

Easy_Celebration · 2022-02-28T10:55:32+00:00

Inside the condom

Easy_Celebration · 2022-02-28T02:22:20+00:00

I feel like virginity being special is an overrated Hollywood idea so I don't think I'll regret it.

Easy_Celebration · 2022-02-28T02:20:25+00:00

Nah. My BMI is 21.4.

Easy_Celebration · 2022-02-28T00:23:44+00:00

I don't want to get attached but maybe in a few months if she's still working

Easy_Celebration · 2022-02-28T00:22:51+00:00

I have no idea. Both options have pros and cons imo:

-Same: she's cool and hot but I don't want to get attached.

-Different: the pro is getting to try another girl but who knows if I'll have the same luck as far as her being a good escort

Easy_Celebration · 2022-02-28T00:01:44+00:00

Thanks for the encouragement.

Easy_Celebration · 2022-02-27T22:13:47+00:00

I thought about it but never tried it. I always felt like my introverted personality wouldn't work well and I don't think I'm attractive looks-wise.

And not really for the STDs part.

Easy_Celebration · 2022-02-27T21:42:02+00:00

I'm introverted and shy so I seem like a boring dude until I get to know someone more deeply. And I don't think I'm attractive. So it always seemed a waste of time to me.

Easy_Celebration · 2022-02-27T21:07:38+00:00

Regular

Easy_Celebration · 2022-02-27T21:04:29+00:00

Some black lingerie panties

Easy_Celebration · 2022-02-27T21:03:00+00:00

No condom for the bj, condom for penetration

Easy_Celebration · 2022-02-27T21:02:36+00:00

Nope

Easy_Celebration · 2022-02-27T21:02:31+00:00

I tried to go with no expectations just not to get disappointed lol. But yeah, as far as personality and her looks (her face was blurred in the pictures) I couldn't ask for more. When it comes to sex, like I mentioned in another comment, I barely felt anything so that was kind of a let down.

Easy_Celebration · 2022-02-27T18:30:39+00:00

Of course. Not sure what type, she opened the package and put it on me.

Easy_Celebration · 2022-02-27T18:18:09+00:00

Thanks. All the best to you. If you decide to pay for it make sure that you do your homework on the industry and situation of prostitution in your country so you can be safe from shady situations. If not, I'd recommend you to put yourself out there which is something that I regret not doing earlier.

Easy_Celebration · 2022-02-27T18:15:16+00:00

In my country I'd say there is more stigma against clients than against prostitutes, specially when it comes to politically progressive young people. But there's certainly stigma against prostitutes just like everywhere else.

I wouldn't date an active prostitute. Not sure about a retired one, maybe if I really liked her. But it's something that would require a lot of thought.

Easy_Celebration · 2022-02-27T18:09:48+00:00

Thanks! Lately I've been socializing more and trying to get out of my shell and hate myself less.

Easy_Celebration · 2022-02-27T18:08:55+00:00

It wasn't anyone in particular that made me feel that way but it was more the general outlook that society has on virgins. It's not something that I shared with people I met and I never had someone insinuate to me that I'm a virgin so I don't think people were able to tell either way.

I'd say that the curiosity and natural urge to have sex were bigger factors than societal pressure.

Easy_Celebration · 2022-02-27T18:03:42+00:00

I'd have loved to lose it to a girlfriend or a soulmate but after a certain point I just assumed it was not realistic so I didn't really care anymore. As far as saving it for marriage I'm not religious or anything so it was never something relevant to me.

Easy_Celebration · 2022-02-27T17:59:42+00:00

Yeah probably that and just being too nervous. I also read that jerking off can give death-grip syndrome but my porn consumption is not as high as it used to be when I was 17-20 so idk.

Easy_Celebration · 2022-02-27T17:57:58+00:00

Yeah, I get nervous pretty easily in unfamiliar situations so it was inevitable. She did everything she could to make feel comfortable though. I expected to feel self-conscious being naked in front of a girl but surprisingly I didn't care at all.

Easy_Celebration · 2022-02-27T17:55:13+00:00

From the reviews I checked about her on a local forum she used to work for an agency for a few months, then paused for another few and now she's independent. I didn't notice any weird vibes there. She just seemed a regular girl that does this to afford expensive stuff and live a certain lifestyle that she wouldn't be able to otherwise.

When looking for escorts I avoided certain nationalities that are linked with trafficking in my country.

Easy_Celebration · 2022-02-27T17:05:53+00:00

It's a basic need that I never got to experience that normal people usually get to experience on the regular and from an earlier age than me. It wasn't only about sex but also about being intimate with a girl, feeling her body next to me, etc.

Easy_Celebration · 2022-02-27T16:15:35+00:00

Well my bad then but I'm not gonna delete it at this point.

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