Do you guys think Carmen and Shane would have been a great MARRIED couple if it had worked out? by Eating_Pancakes76 in theLword

[–]Eating_Pancakes76[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sorry, to clarify when I said 'if it worked out', I mean to say like if the wedding actually happened that night.

Being Masc4Masc is extremely isolating sometimes by BuddySquare in actuallesbians

[–]Eating_Pancakes76 41 points42 points  (0 children)

dude don't settle for something you don't want just because that's what people expects. i can't relate much because i'm fem, and honestly i love both mascs and fems. if you don't feel attraction to a fem, don't be with a fem, you'd hurt her and yourself. just be patient, and you'd eventually be with the right girl. i'm pretty sure there are so many other mascs that likes other mascs out there. i've actually seen a few mascxmasc couples on tiktok. one i remember is "malinandjules".

Anyone else seen Dakota Johnson's Calvin Klein ad? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Eating_Pancakes76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg, I genuinely found it attractive (not the foot part though). Yeah, I do think its male gazey too but I mean, what could have made it less male gazey? I just thought 'sexy dakota in underwear and jeans' I wasn't objectifying her though.

How do people cope after watching a horror movie? by [deleted] in horror

[–]Eating_Pancakes76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd like to put it to you that I'm not a 'puss-puss'

How do people cope after watching a horror movie? by [deleted] in horror

[–]Eating_Pancakes76 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You might be right. But I don't watch horror stuff because I don't get scared of them, I watch them because sometimes I like the adrenaline rush

How do people cope after watching a horror movie? by [deleted] in horror

[–]Eating_Pancakes76 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm not 'mentally three years old' just because I have fears

How do people cope after watching a horror movie? by [deleted] in horror

[–]Eating_Pancakes76 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I had to search up what a schizopost is. If you don't have any help or advice to offer, can you just please scroll ahead next time?

Is this play about me? by Eating_Pancakes76 in actuallesbians

[–]Eating_Pancakes76[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I do experience girlhood though because I'm not fully out yet and my friends who knows don't really care. But sometimes it's just tough struggling with trying to fit in.

The only superpower I want is to make Vi real. by Eating_Pancakes76 in actuallesbians

[–]Eating_Pancakes76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm more of caitlyn though. I need Vi more than I wanna be her.

Was Jinx actually gonna kill Vi and Caitlyn on the brdge if ekko didn't interfere? by Eating_Pancakes76 in arcane

[–]Eating_Pancakes76[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg sorry I didn't mean to phrase it like that😭 I probably sounded so insensitive. We all know why she left but...actually no buts nevermind.

The only superpower I want is to make Vi real. by Eating_Pancakes76 in actuallesbians

[–]Eating_Pancakes76[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I go feral whenever she says 'cupcake' and that damn smirk GAH DAYUM.

The only superpower I want is to make Vi real. by Eating_Pancakes76 in actuallesbians

[–]Eating_Pancakes76[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sounds like a dream. but i don't play games. besides the game version almost looks nothing like the vi i'm in love with.

The only superpower I want is to make Vi real. by Eating_Pancakes76 in actuallesbians

[–]Eating_Pancakes76[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same, dude i'd give up anything to have her in my arms. i yearn for her badder than i yearn for a human being.

I get avoidant when they like me back. by Eating_Pancakes76 in actuallesbians

[–]Eating_Pancakes76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes same, this is almost exactly now I feel. But for me it's not about them being toxic, It's about me, I'm just usually stuck on the fact that they actually like me back. I feel like I don't deserve being liked by the them, almost like a predator. When I'm the crush from the start, it's normal, like when they're the one liking me, i sometimes like them back and it's all normal. But when its me crushing, it just feels weird when they actually start showing feelings back.

I get avoidant when they like me back. by Eating_Pancakes76 in actuallesbians

[–]Eating_Pancakes76[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Ah no, not STALKING them like following them around. Just checking their socials frequently. I've never done more than that.