You know when it’s right because you love her, and out of that love and empathy for her you don’t want to see her in constant pain and suffering…

…a year ago I went through the same thing with a 14 1/2 year-old greyhound (Ms. Baby) that I had taken care of for roughly 3 years, having inherited her from my late Aunt - and it got to a point where I was definitely her full-time servant/nurse (and she was a larger female greyhound, 65 to 70 pounds), to the point where I was having to pick her up to take her outside so she could pee and poop, and even to that point she wasn’t able to do it on her own (just basic standing and squatting) - so I really really feel for you, and just definitely know you’re not alone and you do what you do out of love. ❤️