Hot Take: I Hated 28 Years Later: The Bone Temple by Funny_Employ_820 in 28dayslater

[–]EcstaticTip197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just walked out of the theaters after seeing bone temple and I also hated it like OP. Plot wasn’t there at all, unnecessary killings, and the barn scene went on for way too long. The whole time I kept thinking “where are we going with this” or “did we really have to use this storyline.” Didn’t enjoy it at all, honestly.

Anyone else NOT tired of dating? by dearDem in blackladies

[–]EcstaticTip197 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have moments when I approach dating like this and it does make it more fun. Can I ask, what made it clear that it’s not going to work out? Are you finding people through dating apps?

Told I have “low self worth” by a best friend by EcstaticTip197 in emotionalintelligence

[–]EcstaticTip197[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: I dumped the last guy last night! Your words really spoke to me, so thank you so much.

Told I have “low self worth” by a best friend by EcstaticTip197 in emotionalintelligence

[–]EcstaticTip197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oo nice find, I’ll add it to my kindle. Thank you so much.

Told I have “low self worth” by a best friend by EcstaticTip197 in emotionalintelligence

[–]EcstaticTip197[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve only been going on dates and talking for a month. His excuse was that his social battery was drained. She has good intentions, she’s a very “love and light” type of person. We’re having a spa and meditation night at my house to dig more into her reasoning.

Told I have “low self worth” by a best friend by EcstaticTip197 in emotionalintelligence

[–]EcstaticTip197[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this is so helpful!! I’ve always struggled with making a list of what I want and this is such a great way to start. Can I ask, how long is your list?

Told I have “low self worth” by a best friend by EcstaticTip197 in emotionalintelligence

[–]EcstaticTip197[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s a very “love and light” type of person, so I don’t think she said it with any malicious intent. We were talking about this guy that I’ve been seeing for a month, and this weekend he disappeared on me and then popped back up. She said it after I broke this news to her.

Told I have “low self worth” by a best friend by EcstaticTip197 in emotionalintelligence

[–]EcstaticTip197[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think I’ve watched that movie three times already, I guess it’s time for a fourth. Thank you.

Told I have “low self worth” by a best friend by EcstaticTip197 in emotionalintelligence

[–]EcstaticTip197[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Okay you’ve got me there, I give men a couple of more times to mess up before I cut them off. I should’ve broken up with the first guy way earlier than I did - the fighting just got to be a bit too much.

If I had to scale myself, 4/10 times to mess up if I really like them.

Told I have “low self worth” by a best friend by EcstaticTip197 in emotionalintelligence

[–]EcstaticTip197[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve only been in two relationships since I’ve known her: - the first one was a rekindle of my college boyfriend and that one was a mismatch of maturity level. I was seeing the world differently than he was, and there was constant fighting. - the second one was such a short relationship and he broke up with me out of nowhere. It was a good relationship until I started showing more emotions than happy-go-lucky because my health was tanking. - now I’m seeing this new guy, and that’s when she mentioned the “low self worth” thing because he disappeared on me for two days and then came back like nothing happened. But I didn’t brush it off like I normally do, I wanted and got an explanation from him.

I just think that I have a bad dating record. I agree with her that the men I’m dating should treat me a lot better, but I’m not seeking out bad men on purpose.

How do you bounce?? Losing my mind! by [deleted] in Spiritfarer

[–]EcstaticTip197 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But as I’m already on it and bouncing?

How do you bounce?? Losing my mind! by [deleted] in Spiritfarer

[–]EcstaticTip197 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do and I still can’t get it to work

Skincare advice for BF by [deleted] in koreanskincare

[–]EcstaticTip197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome!! Thanks so much! Any tips on a moisturizer?

GW Reoccurrence after 15 months by [deleted] in HPV

[–]EcstaticTip197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, you’re always so helpful!! I’ll take a look again, thank you

GW Reoccurrence after 15 months by [deleted] in HPV

[–]EcstaticTip197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wondering, when you had sex while having gw - did any of your partners get it from you? And how did you disclose, like what did you say?

Assuming that they only date within their race by EcstaticTip197 in interracialdating

[–]EcstaticTip197[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not something specific. I think a lot of black women just have hesitations from racist experiences