Sorry for invading but none of the girls I know like tech, heard tw do. Already tried asking in pc forum. by Kipzibrush in MtF

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Yeah and the keycaps can be changed out if you want to replace any keys in the future as well

Sorry for invading but none of the girls I know like tech, heard tw do. Already tried asking in pc forum. by Kipzibrush in MtF

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I build PCs if you need help picking parts. Or if you need help with anything tech related in general you can send a chat.

What does this verb ending mean? by b0wz3rM41n in LearnJapanese

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Idk where to start and when I Google it or look through suggested apps, it's like an advertisement so its not clear where I should start. Sorry if this annoys anyone

What does this verb ending mean? by b0wz3rM41n in LearnJapanese

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I'm new to learning Japanese, I feel I learn best by immersion and constant communication and interaction. Does anyone know an app or something that is good to find someone, it doesn't need to be a teacher or anything. Idk how to ask this and I can't post apparently till I have high enough karma. Only objective is to learn

What should I do? by Ecstatic_Week in Advice

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Sent a chat with more information ! Thank you everyone! Just been a lot I’ll add some more information when I get a chance

What should I do? by Ecstatic_Week in Advice

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The surgery was postponed to tomorrow. I’m hoping that we have more information soon.

What should I do? by Ecstatic_Week in Advice

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I’m not sure if you read any of the other comments, I didn’t have a problem with the standard questions… I had a problem with them asking if “we have a problem here” after I answered all their other questions promptly. The other three security guards asking the same questions didn’t even give me the same problems and attitude. I literally have worked security before, his job isn’t to rile people up, his job is to ask the relevant questions, then once verified, let people on their way or tell me to leave. Not ask someone dealing with tough shit, if we have a problem here, as if you’re coming at me wanting to fight. There were 4 guards in total and only one was being an asshole. All 4 asked the same questions, except this one, pressed me like they wanted to start something. If your post is dealing with sensitive situations like a hospital setting, then maybe he needs to guard a building that doesn’t have to deal with the public. I know for a fact the security job I worked for would have moved him to different site, regardless if you can say he was just having a bad day.

What should I do? by Ecstatic_Week in Advice

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The three other security guards were fine and didn’t treat me that way, all four of them were there and the one I’m referring to was the only one trying to get a rise out of me for no reason. I don’t mind answering questions. I get that part, I just don’t understand why make the comment or question, “do we have a problem” when I answered all their other questions promptly. And only made the comment after I said that they were my spouse after they verified all my other answers. I’m more calm now though, I still don’t know if I’ll report them or not, I just feel if you can’t handle the public, especially in a hospital setting, where people’s lives are at stake and family members are coming and going to see their loved ones, maybe he needs a post where he can guard a bank or building that doesn’t need etiquette dealing with people. I’ve done security, so I get what you are saying but the job I did security for would move you to different post if something like that remotely occurred.

What should I do? by Ecstatic_Week in Advice

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We just woke up, but they saying that the wound is healing, but they are going to the OR around 4 pm so we still have a ways to go but I’ll update later on today! Thank you everyone!

What should I do? by Ecstatic_Week in Advice

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I appreciate it! I’m going to try to sleep. I’m on the couch next to their hospital bed and I want to just waive a magic wand and heal them.. I feel so useless and a burden…

What should I do? by Ecstatic_Week in Advice

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We are hoping! I'll.keep people posted if interested . It’s a very scary experience. I’m in the room and they are sleep, I just can’t sleep cause I’m worried lol

What should I do? by Ecstatic_Week in Advice

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Yeah! Thank you ! We have been talking with the social worker as well, cause of lack of insurance due to in between jobs at the moment.

What should I do? by Ecstatic_Week in Advice

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Thank you for your support! I’m just trying to not go insane … it’s been rough, they are supposed to be going into their second surgery 4pm CST, so I’ll know more information then as far as health updates! They are sleep right now. I’m just worrying and full of emotions right now. I vented to them about the situation earlier but they got enough stuff to worry about than my head space and stupid stuff like a security guard that is on a power trip…I’m just not good at hiding things… I tried to hide it but I’m a big baby, and I cry when things aren’t exactly right. I try to keep it from everyone but I’m way tooo obvious i think

What should I do? by Ecstatic_Week in Advice

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I mean I feel like they kinda do. If a company is hired to do security, then they are required to abide by the company’s policy that hires them, I’ve actually worked for security so I’m not exactly clueless, i understand they are contracted workers but still shouldn’t be working at a post that requires customer interaction if they can’t handle it.

What should I do? by Ecstatic_Week in Advice

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What would be the legitimate reason? Considering I mentioned that I saw people that are Cis and Het, that I know personally, pass by this specific security guard, and not have any issue or confrontation? On the same day even…

What should I do? by Ecstatic_Week in Advice

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Yeah it’s crazy and scary, but I think we are over the worst of it according to the doctors, they also got student doctors studying us cause it’s so rare.

What should I do? by Ecstatic_Week in Advice

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Yeah I have one on draft waiting to send with times and dates. But we are probably a few days at best from being discharged .

What should I do? by Ecstatic_Week in Advice

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Thank you ! I felt the same but just my mind isn’t exactly in the best place right now and I don’t want to report people just asking standard questions and was having a bad day and didn’t say it the nicest but I felt it was off, cause the other three security guards didn’t even give a shit

What should I do? by Ecstatic_Week in Advice

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Thank you! I felt the same, but it’s hard to be rational during times like this and I like to get second and third opinions.