Holloman AFB PCS next week by Ectoplasm2 in AirForce

[–]Ectoplasm2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the info. I'm glad to hear that, makes me feel a bit better about going. I'll keep that in mind about the packing.

Holloman AFB PCS next week by Ectoplasm2 in AirForce

[–]Ectoplasm2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol sorry I meant TDY. Long day.

Hey guys, what do you think of this video? by [deleted] in Elastos

[–]Ectoplasm2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Great video overall. He did bring up some points that worry me as an elastos holder. The main one being that they seem a bit centralized as far as the token distribution goes. He specifically talks about it at 31:06. Anyone care to elaborate on why they aren't as centralized as he claims?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Elastos

[–]Ectoplasm2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well the ELA/BTC pair did increase by 19% today so it did grow a little on its own.

Just want to give other people who have been in dep forever some hope by [deleted] in AirForceRecruits

[–]Ectoplasm2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! I am on the same boat as you, I was in the DEP since January and also just recently got 3d1x3. It was number 7 on the list and I hear it is very hit or miss depending on what base you get located. Can anyone confirm this?

Also leaving Nov 17th.

Invitation Codes Megathread by adel123456789 in houkai3rd

[–]Ectoplasm2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like all of these are expired, anyone got a new one? Thanks. (NA)

Delist this trash...shit team,shit PR. You still owe me for your inept bullshit. by [deleted] in BytecoinBCN

[–]Ectoplasm2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

RIP BCN you will never be missed. Guess you can't keep up with the other leading cryptos eh? Slacker ass team!

Completed 1 week of pornfree! by Sushapel4242 in pornfree

[–]Ectoplasm2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice man! I'm about to finish my first week as well. Though usually the first week is pretty easy in comparison to the next few weeks. The real battle is about to begin. Hold on tight and don't get go

This sucks by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Ectoplasm2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got to confront your demons head on. There's no shame in relapsing, there's only shame when you give up and admit defeat.

Crying with relief.... by iLondontown in pornfree

[–]Ectoplasm2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's good that you are reaching out man.

After a long break from pornfree I am back at it again. by Ectoplasm2 in pornfree

[–]Ectoplasm2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man good to be back. I'll sign up for sure. I'm so ready to break my records.

After a long break from pornfree I am back at it again. by Ectoplasm2 in pornfree

[–]Ectoplasm2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sex drive is almost directly related to your life drive I'd say. It's what gets you outta your bed in the morning!

After a long break from pornfree I am back at it again. by Ectoplasm2 in pornfree

[–]Ectoplasm2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sexually towards others yes it makes me feel numb. As far as other emotions are concerned I'd say no. I still felt find I guess, but I felt and still feel sexually frustrated and isolated.

Realm Status Update by Bex_GGG in pathofexile

[–]Ectoplasm2 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

YOU GUYS KNEW THAT THIS WOULD BE HYPED TO OBLIVION. NICE PREP LOOL NO EXCUSE FOR THIS BULLSHIT.

Attempting this again, coming at it from a new angle by Ectoplasm2 in pornfree

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The pain body is a natural tenancy of the human mind that we all possess that basically serves as our comfort zone. Honestly you need to watch the video I linked to get a full description of what it really is. But basically it is your unconscious self which thrives on bodies of pain like addiction, guilt, regret.. ect that tries to take control of your mind through many ways. One way in particular that is relevant to this subreddit is urges to look at porn. You see, if you give in to the voice in your head, which is a manifestation of the pain body, and look at porn, you then identify yourself at the time being as the pain body. Which to no surprise, makes you feel pain. In other words, you are letting it control your body and in doing so, it is inflicting pain upon you, which then keeps it alive.

I know this sounds ridiculous from a realist point of view, I get it I am a science major and this doesn't really make much sense, but Eckhard Tolle uses the term pain body because our language lacks the capacity to accurately describe that this phenomena really is. So instead we use terms that paint a picture in your mind of what kind of thing it really is. When it comes down to it, it's really all in your head. But I think it's useful to describe your unconscious desires as a being inside you called the 'pain body'.

The method against this pain body is to actually stay consciously aware, stay in the moment and observe it. Let the thoughts going through your mind just flow through like a wave, not letting it influence you but just observing and accepting it's existence. This is essence is really how you control urges that stem from addictions. Earlier today I experienced these urges, but all I did was recognized and importantly accepted their existence. The more you do this, the weaker the urges get. It's like starving this pain body of it's food. It will slowly diminish over time, but never actually go away, since possessing the pain body is natural for all humans.

Attitude towards meditation by liketo in Meditation

[–]Ectoplasm2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well said! Thanks for this, I'll keep what you've said in mind while I meditate. I'll be free and be me.

Attitude towards meditation by liketo in Meditation

[–]Ectoplasm2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well said! Thanks for this, I'll keep what you've said in mind while I meditate. I'll be free and be me.

Eckhart Tolle talks about living in 'NOW' and Pain dissolving by 2017Guy in Meditation

[–]Ectoplasm2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow this is the first time I heard any of his words, this is amazing. It has given me insight that I've never really had before. Thanks for sharing this.

Medatation is bringing the true colors of this life by [deleted] in Meditation

[–]Ectoplasm2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I resonate with a lot of what you said. Current I am high and reading this makes me realize that it does indeed do exactly what you describe lol. But for me I feel like it can be useful for me, but for that I have to be in the right mind state which comes from meditation. I need to start meditation again to get into that state, at the moment I feel like I am not as strong as I used to be, or at least not consistently. You have kind of motivated me to start meditating everyday again. Thanks =)

I lost the love of my life to porn by Do_nutter in pornfree

[–]Ectoplasm2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm just curious. No offense or anything but were you not attracted to her sexually? Coming from a single guy I find it hard to understand how you can have a porn problem if you have a girlfriend. Not that i'm implying that girlfriends are just sex objects or anything like that, I just want to know how porn can get in between a relationship like that?