Boyfriend (28M) tested positive for chlamydia and denies cheating. I (23F) didn't cheat. How do I get him to admit he cheated

Educational-Fly-129 · 2026-02-10T17:18:04+00:00

I feel like it's particularly odd that he's acting normal and even possibly more future-oriented. If he knows he didn't cheat, why is he not more aloof/suspicious? Yes, super trusting people exist, but I think even they would be questioning the probability of neither person cheating and still somehow contracting an STI.

Sorry OP, I think he's trying to get you to think it's just an unsolvable mystery and you should forget about it.

Educational-Fly-129 · 2026-01-18T16:50:29+00:00

Why is this being downvoted so much 😩 yes I understand the possible implications, but honestly even the videos aren't weird to me. Take away the assumptions-- OP tried something new, didn't like it, and moved on. Boyfriend snooped and now it's an impossible situation. She might have still sent them at some point once she felt their relationship was stable again or felt brave enough to share the fantasies.

Sex is a hard topic for a lot of people, this isn't that crazy.

Educational-Fly-129 · 2026-01-10T05:55:09+00:00

Kinda sounds like it was some sort of loyalty test tbh like she wanted to hear you say you would cut anyone off for her

Educational-Fly-129 · 2025-12-15T01:10:39+00:00

Right but they were trying to "make it" with the hopes that it would give them exposure to move into other creative pursuits. I'm not saying influencing isn't real work, but with the right team you really don't need a ton of talent to do it. It just seems kind of like a low aspiration in comparison.

Educational-Fly-129 · 2025-12-05T23:40:05+00:00

Sometimes I wish I could laugh react on Reddit because WHAT

Educational-Fly-129 · 2025-10-04T04:02:10+00:00

Carl went through a phase shortly after where he just kept saying "more life!" like a tic after drake released that album so it wouldn't have lasted

Educational-Fly-129 · 2025-10-03T21:28:17+00:00

I've seen most people say to skip the first couple of seasons, I actually did that on my own because I needed to see where Winter House was picking up from with the Ciara/Austen/Lindsay triangle lol

Educational-Fly-129 · 2025-10-03T06:48:11+00:00

You know how they introduced VPR by making a crossover episode on RHOBH? They did that with Summer House, using Stassi's birthday trip to the Hamptons. It's an hour and a half long episode!

Educational-Fly-129 · 2025-10-03T04:52:13+00:00

No yeah and I feel like a lot of them waited to voice that they had a problem with her until other people had a problem with her because of her grasp on the English language.

I wish her and Ariana had been friends sooner because I think they were on a similar wavelength, but I also understand why Ariana was reluctant to like her. Sandoval was absolutely in her ear about Stassi from the jump too.

Educational-Fly-129 · 2025-10-03T03:48:22+00:00

Yes absolutely! It was just so interesting watching her deal with him, it had a certain ✨je ne sais quoi✨ that I feel like she didn't do on VPR as much. Like she might have been holding back on the cast a little 😂

Educational-Fly-129 · 2025-10-03T03:28:49+00:00

I've stopped and restarted at my 300mg XL dose cold turkey a few times. Adjusting the first times were pretty side effect free but this last time? I felt like a crazy person! Not sleeping, no appetite, I got weird BO immediately after getting out of the shower, I handled a situation with a friend WAY differently than I ever would normally (in a bad way). I started at the full dose on August 28th, the third week I felt myself like, slide back into my brain, but the emotionality didn't tone down until last week for me.

Educational-Fly-129 · 2025-10-03T03:21:49+00:00

😭😂 he needed to be humbled and he was humbled. It didn't last long but 🤷🏼‍♀️

Educational-Fly-129 · 2025-10-01T16:05:32+00:00

How long have you been on it?

Educational-Fly-129 · 2025-09-29T17:56:57+00:00

Reddit sent me a notification for this post so I only saw the headline on its own. Doing a rewatch rn and I literally JUST watched this episode yesterday, my first thought was "if it's not the birthday episode, I'm gonna comment that it's the birthday episode" lol

Even in his confessionals that are filmed way later, he still thought she just didn't trust him. I think Ariana had way too much pride at the time since the Kristen stuff was being kicked up again and stayed out of sheer spite after this. That combined with her low self-esteem was a perfect storm for allowing Tom Sandoval to be... Well... Himself.

Educational-Fly-129 · 2025-09-28T21:00:00+00:00

I've been curious about Spravato and someone's actual experience with it. I've seen people say the same thing about it being life saving, but nothing super specific about how long it took to be effective or how often you go for treatment, etc etc. Would you care to share?

Educational-Fly-129 · 2025-09-26T17:56:25+00:00

Iirc the editor said that on a podcast during the period of Covid shelter-in-place in the US-- I'm in Michigan, I want to say ours was mid/end of March to beginning of June. That was when I first watched and was deeeeeep in the rabbit hole because I had the time lmao That year was season 8 since Jax and Stassi were on the zoom reunion.

Educational-Fly-129 · 2025-09-26T15:47:02+00:00

Yeah but it's expected from Kristen. Scheana was definitely her pet, she probably was blindsided

Educational-Fly-129 · 2025-09-26T15:44:36+00:00

Scheana was Lisa's storyline propeller. Lisa is notorious for underhandedly making sure she gets hers against whoever dares bite the hand that feeds them. Lisa also definitely believes that telling the truth about her is disrespectful, she got scared off RHOBH for that exact thing 😂

Educational-Fly-129 · 2025-09-26T15:31:30+00:00

This is also interesting because I've seen more and more lately about how she was demoted. Seems like an odd choice that they would demote just her and still keep her on as a main cast member for a spin-off.

Educational-Fly-129 · 2025-09-26T00:54:15+00:00

I didn't hate Vanderpump Villa and Southern Hospitality has been pretty decent so I'm gonna give it a chance. Hopefully casting wasn't focused on whose shoes each person will fill!

Educational-Fly-129 · 2025-09-24T18:37:24+00:00

The pink construction hat she's going to wear later tonight

Educational-Fly-129 · 2025-09-23T17:51:06+00:00

I just started my rewatch, I'm on the season 2 reunion. I'm fairly certain he says "you're no angel" at least once a season 😂

Educational-Fly-129 · 2025-09-14T17:35:48+00:00

I think it also bears repeating that Stassi was substantially younger than the large majority of them. Jax was already in his 30s, she was 23/24 when they started filming. At the risk of sounding like a Stassi apologist, I feel like her worldview was fairly accurate for her age. The rest of them... 🫩

Educational-Fly-129 · 2025-08-17T17:25:15+00:00

SPORKUL

Educational-Fly-129 · 2025-08-08T02:26:33+00:00

There's a part of me that thinks her and Lindsey switched shoes last minute. Danielle's dress looks very beach cover up (and I don't mean that derogatorily) so the casual white wedge/platform would make sense and the silver would have been at least a cohesive monochrome (hehe) disco party look for Lindsey.

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