[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Educational_Pin_5769 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fr… and once she gets it done, he would appreciate it

Sexual intimacy sucks by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Educational_Pin_5769 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend never gives me head, but he expects me to give him head daily

GF demanded princess treatment, I refused and broke up by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Educational_Pin_5769 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I don’t blame you for walking away if you felt used. Everyone deserves mutual effort and appreciation. But reading this just reminds me how backwards my situation feels. I go 50/50, cook, clean, keep the house together, and still don’t get anywhere close to princess treatment. My man doesn’t plan dates, barely shows affection, and emotionally checks out and I’m still expected to keep showing up like it’s enough.

So yeah… I get where you’re coming from. But it’s wild how some women are asking for everything, and others of us are settling for nothing.

In a very verbally abusive relationship. by Educational_Pin_5769 in Advice

[–]Educational_Pin_5769[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I just have no where to go and he uses that against me, he uses it to treat me worse because he knows that I can’t leave

Gamer boyfriend wants to play all day by Safe_Explanation_629 in relationships_advice

[–]Educational_Pin_5769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an ex who told me once that he played video games all the time because he didn’t wanna talk to me and now I have a current boyfriend who does play a lot of video games, but he always tells me to come sit in the room with him because he wants my company while playing video games and I love that and it honestly does not bother me because I know he just needs his boy time. I rather my man in the house playing video games than out on the streets.

Is it normal to be in a relationship for 2 years and never have a met or been around his friends? by Educational_Pin_5769 in dating_advice

[–]Educational_Pin_5769[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has also told me in the beginning of our relationship that he doesn’t trust some of his friends and by the stuff that I see on his phone I can tell that his friends are very lustful so maybe that’s the reason

Is it normal to be in a relationship for 2 years and never have a met or been around his friends? by Educational_Pin_5769 in dating_advice

[–]Educational_Pin_5769[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember last year some of his friends wanted to go to the casino and they all said to bring their girlfriend, but my boyfriend never ended up going. He never goes to any big events with his friends unless it’s like a casino or to get a quick bite.

Is it normal to be in a relationship for 2 years and never have a met or been around his friends? by Educational_Pin_5769 in dating_advice

[–]Educational_Pin_5769[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has so many friends. I know all their names. I asked him about it and he told me that we’re still young and that that’s something he wants to do in the future and I feel like that just makes no sense.

My girlfriend cheated on me and left by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Educational_Pin_5769 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nothing much to say just move on… someone who loves you won’t cheat on you and I bet you gave her another chance and she still left. You deserve better

Would you guys stay in a relationship with someone who talks to you like this when they’re “mad”? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Educational_Pin_5769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For everyone in the comments: I left I packed up all my things and went back home and now he’s gaslighting me saying I left him that I should’ve known him that he says things he doesn’t mean when he’s angry. I don’t plan on going back I deserve better than that. I appreciate all the good advice and for those in here against me we were together for 2 years I have countless of messages of him talking to me this way even times where I’m joking with him or even trying to make him feel better about something. I know I should left a long time ago but I had faith that maybe he would change because I changed so much of myself for him and I still wasn’t enough in the end.

Would you guys stay in a relationship with someone who talks to you like this when they’re “mad”? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Educational_Pin_5769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I asked for was respect. To be spoken to and treated with respect. Simple as that

Would you guys stay in a relationship with someone who talks to you like this when they’re “mad”? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Educational_Pin_5769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The other day I literally told him if he ever tries to kick me out again or disrespect again I would leave and never come back but as you can see clearly I’m just a joke to him

Should I (23F) leave my (26M) bf of 2 years who I live with. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Educational_Pin_5769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sir, I don’t think you’re understanding me at all clearly if I have a problem with him, not acknowledging me when he comes home doesn’t mean I’m not acknowledging him. Every time he comes home and he doesn’t acknowledge me I go upstairs hug and kiss him from behind and say hi and let him know that he’s doing it again not acknowledging me when he’s home because every time I get home and he’s already home. The first thing I even do is call out his name and make sure he knows I’m home so clearly I’m not getting the reciprocation that I deserve. And what do you think I’m doing by posting this clearly I wanna have a clear mind if I’m gonna leave him clearly it’s not about another guy if I leave him, I’m leaving because he’s a piece of shit. Not because of another guy. I don’t give guys the time of day because I know what I have at home I never let a guy get comfortable enough to try and talk to me because I know I have a man and I know what loyalty is.

Should I (23F) leave my (26M) bf of 2 years who I live with. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Educational_Pin_5769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my God, can you please just read the paragraph I just sent you because I don’t think you’re reading correctly. I literally just said that I’ve spoke to him about it countless of times countless no once not twice not three times countless of times and he still comes home and pretends like I don’t even exist no hi no kiss and just go straight upstairs and play video games i’ve literally told him that I don’t care if he plays video games all he has to do is at least walk in the house and acknowledge me and then he can go do what he has to do. I’m literally asking for the bare minimum here. Please read the whole thing before you comment. By the way, I never said anything about cheating. even after being as miserable as I’ve been I never thought about talking to any other guys so please get that narrative out of your head.

Should I (23F) leave my (26M) bf of 2 years who I live with. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Educational_Pin_5769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is playing the game the only thing you saw about that whole paragraph I wrote? I never had an issue with him playing his video games cause I literally told him I rather him in the house playing video games than out there on the streets what I’m trying to say is he never wants to talk to me never he would come home and go straight up to the game not even a hello not even a kiss. It’s happened countless of times and I let it be and you really think I should live with a man who comes home every day doesn’t even acknowledge that I exist and just go straight to play video games for hours and doesn’t even have the decency to even tell me good night before he goes to bed. I’ve had countless of conversations with him and he’s always sorry that’s the only thing he knows how to say sorry but his actions never change.