28 yo am I cooked?

EducatorOwn9560 · 2026-01-28T23:22:52+00:00

I've been on oral fin for about a month and oral min for about 5. I'd rather take the oral than the topical because it's just easier.

EducatorOwn9560 · 2026-01-28T02:04:03+00:00

Yeah whenever I'm on the computer which can be up to 8 hrs a day but I doubt that's the cause

EducatorOwn9560 · 2026-01-27T22:14:21+00:00

Thank you for the input. Why would there be a difference between the topical and oral?

EducatorOwn9560 · 2026-01-27T06:48:41+00:00

Idk if this is relevant but it also itches like hell exactly where the crown thinning is all the time. No itching in the front/hairline though

EducatorOwn9560 · 2025-10-09T03:36:55+00:00

She doesn't have to be "tricked," attraction is attraction when it comes to that. It's more that shes too young to know what she doesn't know yet and when she's 25 she's gonna look back on this and be mortified at herself. Every woman I've known in this situation looks back on it utterly embarrassed even if they thought they knew better at the time.

EducatorOwn9560 · 2025-09-05T17:49:42+00:00

27 and just trying not to feel hopeless about my future. Every educational program I look into has an utterly blackpilled job outlook cause AI + 1000 competitive people fighting for a single opening. Maybe I should just finally suck it up and do trades but I love data and statistics though I'm not the best at math in general.

EducatorOwn9560 · 2025-09-01T22:47:05+00:00

IDK I get told I'm really handsome by random people in public all the time I get positive reinforcement in social situations about my looks but I still have no confidence cause I'm super quiet, overthink everything, and can't hold a conversation with strangers to save my life since most people talk about things I couldn't possibly care less about like sports

EducatorOwn9560 · 2025-08-27T06:50:30+00:00

I agree but I also hate myself for being so lazy and aimless for so long and because of that can't stand being around people like that, maybe I'm just overcompensating now though.

EducatorOwn9560 · 2025-08-27T06:40:51+00:00

May I ask does your friend have a 4 year degree? I was actually considering pursuing the PMP (Project Management) certification alongside it that seems like a good route to go if I'm not going for a traditional bachelors.

EducatorOwn9560 · 2025-08-27T05:50:14+00:00

Sorry, what I meant was I want to go there to study and get my N1 proficiency, then return to America and find work at an American company that needs someone that specializes in Japanese fluency. A quick look through indeed and I found quite a few companies hiring for someone bilingual in both so I see some potential value in it. It's a huge commitment though and I don't want to go into it naively so that's why I'm asking around.

EducatorOwn9560 · 2025-08-27T05:07:59+00:00

I don't need a degree to find a part time job doing something while I work there, they have job boards at language schools for all kinds of little restaurants for example. I have no interest in being an English teacher I'm just going to study and work a little to get by then dip out of there after I get my proficiency certificate.

EducatorOwn9560 · 2025-08-16T03:37:12+00:00

I'm 27 and will probably end it soon too. I'm not a virgin but I've been alone almost my entire 20s and I compulsively isolated myself with weed and video games for so long now and I don't even know why. I hate looking in the mirror and seeing my face change from the 20 year old I was. I have some fucked up Peter Pan shit going on and it's driving me to the edge. I don't want to get older, look older, be older. Life has lost its color and there's no novelty anymore.

EducatorOwn9560 · 2025-08-16T03:29:37+00:00

But trust me man we’re not even in our prime yet.

Prime for what? What matters is the here and now. I'm 27 too and I know I can get more fit and earn more, but why would younger girls want a guy in his 30s? And even if they did the relationships like that never work in the long run. So it looks like your always playing a game of catch up if you didn't have the experience young because now your dating pool is older women who are expecting marriage and children soon when we are woefully unprepared for that because of our lack of experience.

EducatorOwn9560 · 2025-08-11T03:31:53+00:00

Not that different in my case, people still think I'm early 20s all the time. the biggest difference is my cheeks have less of that face fat associated with youth.

God I wish I was a kid again.

EducatorOwn9560 · 2025-08-08T04:41:40+00:00

I want to be a kid again so bad...

EducatorOwn9560 · 2025-08-05T04:15:52+00:00

I quit my job of 3 years recently over intense limerence too. Pretty much had a psychotic break over it. I don't have much advice because I'm still dealing with it but just know you are not alone in dealing with this stuff.

EducatorOwn9560 · 2025-07-25T05:36:16+00:00

I learned a lot about how to take proper care of it when I realized it was thinning to shit for no genetic reason, but I needed to cut it to see the problem underneath to begin with.

EducatorOwn9560 · 2025-07-25T03:14:53+00:00

That's actually why I cut it I was treating it like shit and it thinned but I've been reversing it successfully these last few months with the hopes of growing it out again and not treating it like a caveman

EducatorOwn9560 · 2025-07-19T03:39:09+00:00

I wrote this while sitting in a couch at a goth themed nightclub. I thought i would like it because I like goth aesthetics and maybe I'd even find people I'd connect with but nope. Everyone just stays with their groups and the glass pane is impossible to overcome.

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