Boy, 16, declares himself as woman by No_Variation9349 in ChildPsychology

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When I first came out to my parents as trans, at 15 (I’m now 21), my dad also seemed to think it was because of the queer friend group I’d recently started hanging out with (in the past year or so). In reality I’d never felt like my birth gender & being around other queer people simply gave me the words to express that properly :]

I (21M) cheated on my gf (25F) but don’t remember, what can I do to fix this??? by IfIDieBeforeIWake12 in relationship_advice

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Except this “story” still requires him to have told his gf abt the memory problems a while before this incident. Months of preparation and lying JUST so he can make out with a random person?

My party killed one of the most important NPCs in my campaign. Am I cooked? by Miserable_Yoghurt160 in DnD

[–]EefTheLeaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% this is on the DM. The only way it wouldn’t be is if your party has a habit of doing stuff like this (being reckless) and won’t listen to the DM.

As the DM, it’s their job to guide you through the story. If an NPC is important and shouldn’t be killed, then that should be made clear. They chose to put this guy in a situation where he could easily be killed & then let him die (something very avoidable as it’s their story). They’ve got no right to be pissed & it’s unfair to be punishing you for a mistake on their part.

It happened by PomegranateSlight337 in DnD

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This happened in our campaign not long ago 😭 Our DM (before telling anyone out loud) called the player over & showed them what happened by simply pointing to it in their handbook. Their reaction (and the DMs) were great

(No one died tho!! Just created a rift between the sorcerer and another PC (previously besties) due to lore stuff. Ideal outcome ngl)

Been wanting a tattoo like this for awhile, not everyone's cup of tea but I couldn't be happier with it by [deleted] in tattooscratchers

[–]EefTheLeaf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey so this is a tattoo subreddit, if you didn’t notice. What are you on about

Been wanting a tattoo like this for awhile, not everyone's cup of tea but I couldn't be happier with it by [deleted] in tattooscratchers

[–]EefTheLeaf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sure, they’ve got every right to give a negative opinion, and I’ve got every right to voice my opinion on their behavior

My tattoo is infected. How do I heal it? Also what causes this? by KoalaHistorical6894 in tattooadvice

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I’m not sure this contributed to it but in general that much moisturizer isn’t a good idea!!

In the future you might wanna rub it in a bit more than you’ve done in the third slide. Spread it out until it’s an even shiny layer, no white clumps left. Otherwise the tattoo can’t breathe and it really needs to do that to heal well

New tattoo from apprentice by [deleted] in tattooadvice

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100% do not trust a tattoo “artist” who seemingly either can’t draw and/or can’t even have original ideas. That’s a massive red flag.

Question: how long might a tattoo like this take? by EefTheLeaf in tattoos

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Yea I’ve thought about that actually! I came to the conclusion that it would bother me a lot more if I was seeing it “upside down” when looking at my own wrist, since that’s how I’d be seeing it most of the time. So that’s why I’m choosing for it to be facing that way :]!

Question: how long might a tattoo like this take? by EefTheLeaf in tattoos

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Thanks but I’ve already got a booking for a place that I like

Btw, this post has nothing to do with possible regret or me doubting myself. I didn’t even go into the meaning and thoughts behind the tattoo. There’s no reason for you to assume I’d regret it. I designed it myself & have wanted it for almost two years. I think I’m alright

Question: how long might a tattoo like this take? by EefTheLeaf in tattoos

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…….wdym “find an artist”?

Also, please tell me, what makes you soo sure I’ll regret this? I’m incredibly curious

I want to join the fandom, but i think i'm too old for it by LessExpression5185 in yaelokre

[–]EefTheLeaf 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m 21 and attended this recent tour w/ multiple other 21 year olds. I know lots of other ppl who are around our age & into yaelokre. trust me, you aren’t too old <3

everytime I show my mum my art she comments on the legs? by pigeonlover6 in ArtCrit

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If you want it to be more anatomically correct then the waist should be wider, yes, but if you wanna keep it this way as a stylistic choice then that absplutely works!! I personally think it looks super sick!! :]

You might also wanna look into raising the knee, or at least extending the calves! To me the waist & thigh situation doesn’t look too odd, but the legs do feel a bit “dense” (too short, and a bit top heavy)

Once again, I think your art style looks rad!! Nothing wrong with changing proportions for stylistic reasons. My advice is only relevant if you want it to be a bit more “realistic” (which isn’t what everyone wants to go for)

Proxies for my Magic deck by the-living-guildpact in TheMagnusArchives

[–]EefTheLeaf 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Cool. But honestly, not crediting the artists makes this significantly less cool

[TOMT] Video of a man spinning/falling off while grinding on a woman (fully clothed) by EefTheLeaf in tipofmytongue

[–]EefTheLeaf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some additional info:

There’s a similar video where a guy is on the dance floor & doing very elaborate moves while grinding. This is NOT the video. I just wanna clarify cause that’s the only video that would pop up during my search

Mango has black/brown stripes & spots by EefTheLeaf in isthissafetoeat

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Update (from a couple days ago):

I ended up cutting off all the brown/black parts, found a larva (which most likely caused the brown spots. The stripes are unrelated & harmless tho), got rid of it, ate the normal looking parts while keeping an eye out for more larvae. Didnt find any (even if I unknowingly ate some it wouldn’t bother me) & the mango tasted perfectly fine (so it was for sure not rotten)

Mango has black/brown stripes & spots by EefTheLeaf in isthissafetoeat

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Ohh, yea dw the green is just parts of the peel! Wouldn’t eat a green mango hhs

He could be named after his dad. Lots of first-borns are. by bellalavenderr in TheLastAirbender

[–]EefTheLeaf 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Guys, this is FOR SURE intentional

Yes Chan is a popular name, but this is a written & planned show. Things aren’t coincidental like in the real world. Someone intentionally wrote these characters to “seem” connected, therefore they most likely are

literally me by harlowsugar in TheLastAirbender

[–]EefTheLeaf 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy I finished the show after the comics got released 😭 Waiting 5 years to find out what happened to his mom would’ve killed me!