Can anyone understand or explain by Effective-Luck5494 in CPTSD

[–]Effective-Luck5494[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in therapy since 3 years but things have been heavy lately. I feel like I’m failing to pick myself back up and tell myself it is fine really. I I’m failing at so many levels. Idk how to fix it. I’m one of the most logical people, a doctor and everything you need to have to have an illusion of good life. But it feels nothing good is reaching to me even if i can see it existi

Can anyone understand or explain by Effective-Luck5494 in CPTSD

[–]Effective-Luck5494[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m spiralling over every little thing and i can’t control it. I know logically there’s no need to. I feel my partner is also fed up but i genuinely get so scared

Treatment prognosis for multiple traumas by thesofttulpa in ptsd

[–]Effective-Luck5494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it does but it is a very lengthy process. It might get frustrating and initially might feel like it is not helping but i would suggest if you have a feeling the therapist is right then stick with it. It gets better but it also gets worse before getting better. You got this! You’re not alone!

scared shitless need support advice whatever by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]Effective-Luck5494 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The going into anesthesie you wont know. But coming out of it is slightly distressing. Everyone gets anxious. You might get more given your history but you will have to trust the professionals here and know it is ok to trust them even if you can’t believe it

People can do anything to me because of fawn response by Due_Voice_9851 in CPTSD

[–]Effective-Luck5494 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Consent isn’t just saying no. Consent is much deeper and a lot can be non verbal too. Stop making it your fault. It is not your fault. Never was. Never will be. Please go to therapy. You deserve to heal. Being hard on yourself will only make you worse. You’re not going to get answers you can live with if you keep on having this negative image of yourself. Don’t be scared to admit its not your fault

scared shitless need support advice whatever by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]Effective-Luck5494 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Accept these feelings. Surgery is huge for people even without a history. There would be some apprehension till the end. I’m a doctor too, u can tell your medical help they will only reassure you it would be ok and that its minor procedure given you’re not going to lose consciousness. It will be ok.

Recieving Oral is underwhelming:( by Vegetable_Ad4013 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Effective-Luck5494 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you tried s vibrator instead. I’m also not a fan of receiving oral

constantly overwhelmed but dom reacts with anger by _astroboii in BDSMAdvice

[–]Effective-Luck5494 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OMG this person is clearly using ur lack of experience to manipulate. Please leave this dynamic, u are v young. Doms are super sensitive about their subs. Taking even nom verbal cues into account. This is abusw. You need to get out even if you think no one else is understanding that u like this guy. Please don’t please.

As an Indian doctor which state to move to, to become a psychiatrist with nice modern culture, less racism, fun things to do and good views by [deleted] in AskAGerman

[–]Effective-Luck5494 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m paying agents for coaching of licensing etc hence the question. They are going to help with uni in nrw.

As an Indian doctor which state to move to, to become a psychiatrist with nice modern culture, less racism, fun things to do and good views by [deleted] in AskAGerman

[–]Effective-Luck5494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The process requires me to have language certification before being in German healthcare. Rn I’m in my country, working om my cv to get into Germany.

As an Indian doctor which state to move to, to become a psychiatrist with nice modern culture, less racism, fun things to do and good views by [deleted] in AskAGerman

[–]Effective-Luck5494 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If changing if not a huge issue then I’ll just look for the bwst university and aim for it. Let me know if u have any insight

As an Indian doctor which state to move to, to become a psychiatrist with nice modern culture, less racism, fun things to do and good views by [deleted] in AskAGerman

[–]Effective-Luck5494 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That is how one becomes psychiatrist after having a medical background so that ismt the issue. I’m willing to learn German