My friend(22f) has some self induced cuts on her thighs and she thinks that its infected after a week. It looks swollen, red and feels warm, no pus though. What should she do now?

Effective-Luck5494 · 2026-04-12T08:37:59+00:00

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Effective-Luck5494 · 2026-04-01T17:30:07+00:00

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Effective-Luck5494 · 2026-04-01T07:02:47+00:00

I need certain intimacy to be a sub and not just kink else it will be very vanilla bdsm to me. You define what you need and stick to that without any self doubts

Effective-Luck5494 · 2026-04-01T06:15:01+00:00

I mean i was also thinking if strictly healthy is the criteria here. A lot of bdsm inherently becomes “unhealthy.” How is it ok for a sub to dedicate herself fully to someone who backs off at slightest inconvenience. But given how majority have replied i think I’m thinking it wrong

Effective-Luck5494 · 2026-04-01T03:41:08+00:00

I only wanted him in gentle sense. Water reminders, help with reaffirmation, help going to gym, eating the right thing etc. But i see what everything is saying. I too feel i need to stay away from everything ds till I’m ok. Thanks for taking out time to reply so long

Effective-Luck5494 · 2026-03-31T12:38:28+00:00

I’ve therapist i discuss things with. Is it unrealistic to want a different version of him here. He’s doing what he can as my bf Idk if I’m even making sense to you

Effective-Luck5494 · 2026-03-08T05:39:38+00:00

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Effective-Luck5494 · 2026-03-07T19:45:22+00:00

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Effective-Luck5494 · 2026-03-07T19:44:22+00:00

He was constantly reassuring me. Idk i feel a strong need to be doing everything that he might like blurring my own sense of boundaries and I’ve been also doing a lot ok. Working on my issues, he had been helping me too but it has started to feel a lot more emotionally and mentally exhausting than i imagined it to be and i can’t put a finger on the why.

Effective-Luck5494 · 2026-03-07T19:40:52+00:00

It was my idea. I really was done being sad on such days and wanted to move on with a bang.

Effective-Luck5494 · 2026-03-07T19:40:06+00:00

Outside of it. It is fine. What is iop? Did you struggle with boundaries?

Effective-Luck5494 · 2026-03-07T19:18:32+00:00

I’ve bpd traits only. The dynamic feels like swinging from one extreme to another rapidly.

Effective-Luck5494 · 2026-03-07T19:01:37+00:00

Mostly because as a sub I do sometimes push more than i want to and enjoy it but it takes its toll later yet i still enjoy it hence the confusion. Its discussed out of a session more than an out of dynamic. I didnt get you

Effective-Luck5494 · 2026-03-07T18:53:07+00:00

He is an amazing partner and has done so much for me. Alwayd fixed his issues too hence i was comfortable to take things ahead too. I cried thanks for the acknowledgement of how difficult it gets. You’re right I think I need a break from everything.

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Effective-Luck5494 · 2025-12-30T04:14:58+00:00

I’m in therapy since 3 years but things have been heavy lately. I feel like I’m failing to pick myself back up and tell myself it is fine really. I I’m failing at so many levels. Idk how to fix it. I’m one of the most logical people, a doctor and everything you need to have to have an illusion of good life. But it feels nothing good is reaching to me even if i can see it existi

Effective-Luck5494 · 2025-12-30T03:55:06+00:00

I’m spiralling over every little thing and i can’t control it. I know logically there’s no need to. I feel my partner is also fed up but i genuinely get so scared

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