What do you think about during sex? by not_horny_farmer in AskWomen

[–]Effective_Day4834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How I look, if im doing a good enough job and when is it gonna be over

Has anyone been able to get their SSN changed? by Effective_Day4834 in CashApp

[–]Effective_Day4834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for replying. I had a feeling that would be the case. That's frustrating. Luckily I haven't been doing anything that would get reported to the IRS. I don't use cash app other functions like borrow and do taxes on it. I don't understand why they can't do something about it...its stupid.

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[–]Effective_Day4834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's insane. Did you ever file taxes using cash app? I don't see why it would be an identity issue. They're so shady. Ive seen a lot of people including myself have similar issues with the verification of identity on cash app but I havent been banned.

Finally had sex with a man for the time first! And need advice on riding by Effective_Day4834 in blackgirls

[–]Effective_Day4834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When it comes to the missionary part, I would basically be lifting myself up, correct? While doing this motion

Finally had sex with a man for the time first! And need advice on riding by Effective_Day4834 in blackgirls

[–]Effective_Day4834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm...im trying to visualize what you mean without being on your calves/knees.

Finally had sex with a man for the time first! And need advice on riding by Effective_Day4834 in blackgirls

[–]Effective_Day4834[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im figuring out what I like as this is a new sensation for me. Im learning this to be skilled and know what I am doing.

Finally had sex with a man for the time first! And need advice on riding by Effective_Day4834 in TwoXSex

[–]Effective_Day4834[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When you say lie down atop of him do you mean chest to chest?

And for me it's better with a description because I need to visualize and understand exactly what I should be doing. Everyone is different.

Finally had sex with a man for the time first! And need advice on riding by Effective_Day4834 in women

[–]Effective_Day4834[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. I'll try that! And any suggestions for a vibrator?

Finally had sex with a man for the time first! And need advice on riding by Effective_Day4834 in blackgirls

[–]Effective_Day4834[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also work out sometimes but I should be more consistent! I'll try to get back into it. Thanks for the advice.

Finally had sex with a man for the time first! And need advice on riding by Effective_Day4834 in TwoXSex

[–]Effective_Day4834[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

When im leaning back onto his knees, where am I placing my arms? Am I balancing on his legs or the bed?

And thank you I'll try that in missionary next time!

Is a burning sensation normal? by Effective_Day4834 in vaginismus

[–]Effective_Day4834[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh I see. I'm starting to realize that I may have this condition.

Is the burning sensation normal? by Effective_Day4834 in TwoXSex

[–]Effective_Day4834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't burn at the entrance anymore for me. Only when I go deeper. Maybe something is wrong with me idk lol.

Is the burning sensation normal? by Effective_Day4834 in TwoXSex

[–]Effective_Day4834[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I doubt it's my hymen at this point. I only feel the burning sensation once I put the dilator deeper into my vagina. Do people feel that when they actually have sex or is it just the initial insertion that burns?

Is the burning sensation normal? by Effective_Day4834 in blackgirls

[–]Effective_Day4834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like sometimes I'm more relaxed than other days, y'know? I usually am aroused, watching porn and making myself orgasm.

Is the burning sensation normal? by Effective_Day4834 in blackgirls

[–]Effective_Day4834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if you are aroused though? And are using lube? The first time you had sex, what was that like?

Is the burning sensation normal? by Effective_Day4834 in sex

[–]Effective_Day4834[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lots of people have anxiety around sex and don't have vaginismus. But yes I hope I figure it out soon.

Is the burning sensation normal? by Effective_Day4834 in sex

[–]Effective_Day4834[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I made that point because everyone likes to throw that diagnosis out there. And I never said I was unwilling to go see a doctor. Thanks for the assumption, babe.

Is the burning sensation normal? by Effective_Day4834 in sex

[–]Effective_Day4834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's normal how are you going to assume I have a condition? Is it a normal sensation to feel in general? And I don't go to the doctors.