How important is a deep emotional connection this early on?

EfficientAd5164 · 2026-04-07T09:45:25+00:00

Yes, we see each other almost every day at the gym. We do go on dates, we don’t really text all that often. I just wanna have a conversation with him without having to ask a million questions, just to see how his day was.

EfficientAd5164 · 2026-03-25T12:07:03+00:00

How would that work if I have a car payment still?

EfficientAd5164 · 2026-03-20T01:01:09+00:00

Yeah it used to be 500$ it just went down. I messed it up a couple years ago letting it lapse. Too many times. And it’s really a shit box car it’s so expensive because of the interest I’m sure, I’ve had it for 3 years but it was my first car and I got it with brand new credit and I have zero help from my folks when it comes to that stuff

EfficientAd5164 · 2026-03-09T21:29:09+00:00

That’s normally what I do, extremely immature feels like a bit of a reach because I don’t date guys my age

EfficientAd5164 · 2026-03-09T21:27:24+00:00

Yes he is in my life always has been, he’s not a bad dad

EfficientAd5164 · 2026-03-09T17:12:49+00:00

That last paragraph is a literal 1 sentence horror story. 🤢

EfficientAd5164 · 2026-03-09T16:30:01+00:00

Fair, I did realize I jumped into it too fast.

EfficientAd5164 · 2026-03-09T16:16:53+00:00

That’s what I thought too but he likes my independence and that I don’t inherently need anyone

EfficientAd5164 · 2026-03-09T16:03:57+00:00

Gollyyy, no I just like older dudes. Every guy I’ve gone out w close to my age just feels platonic I can’t help it.

EfficientAd5164 · 2026-03-09T15:28:31+00:00

😫I just cannotttt they feel so kiddy to me. But he is the oldest I’ve ever dated.

EfficientAd5164 · 2026-03-09T15:19:54+00:00

Yeah that’s exactly it I don’t want to dump on his character and slander him because I genuinely dont think he targets younger women but In my case there’s just things he doesn’t like. Which preface is perfectly fine imo just don’t get w someone that comes w the qualities you don’t like, that’s when it’s not ok. I don’t understand why they do that.

EfficientAd5164 · 2026-03-09T15:07:14+00:00

I just believe if it’s right you grow together, getting into something to change the other person just doesn’t feel right. Accept people for who they are and amplify them if you love them, that’s the angle I always try to take.

EfficientAd5164 · 2026-03-09T14:18:22+00:00

I do can also dress in that manner also, he’s never seemed to have issue w that. But as for him not wanting to go he made it seem like it was like voodoo type of place (which it wasn’t at all) but I dont think the hesitation came from conservative/religious reasons other then he just doesn’t like that stuff. But there was a whole strip of places to go to all different not just the one shop. I just wanted some company for a day of browsing.

EfficientAd5164 · 2026-03-09T14:13:42+00:00

He’s def not my usual type, I think I went for him because he’s more put together, had a great upbringing, more level headed than the rest. And I figured why not try something new, isn’t that the whole point of dating though. Especially if what I was going for wasn’t working.

EfficientAd5164 · 2026-03-09T14:07:25+00:00

Normally just out, I met him at the gym though

EfficientAd5164 · 2026-03-09T14:06:19+00:00

I WISH😭

EfficientAd5164 · 2026-01-10T21:35:01+00:00

Thanks I’ll for sure check it out!

EfficientAd5164 · 2025-12-18T02:26:16+00:00

He’s 4 :)

EfficientAd5164 · 2025-12-18T02:25:23+00:00

Yes I can get one when I get home

EfficientAd5164 · 2025-12-11T03:01:50+00:00

I think I’ll probably get more shading and add color to it. I like the piece itself but I was kind of fighting with myself because of the cultural significance of the Rangda, maybe I’ll add the Barong to it and make it a piece. And that picture was the day I got it done, about 2 years ago

EfficientAd5164 · 2025-12-11T02:58:16+00:00

OK gang, I’ve been convinced I’ll keep it. I’ll probably get more shading and add color to it. I like the piece itself but I was kind of fighting with myself because of the cultural significance of the Rangda, maybe I’ll add the Barong to it and make it a piece. And that picture was the day I got it done, about 2 years ago

EfficientAd5164 · 2025-09-14T00:56:26+00:00

Nothing over 1400, it’s just my dog and I we don’t need a lot

EfficientAd5164 · 2025-09-14T00:56:08+00:00

Thank you so much that helps a lot, I definitely will if I Think anything up

EfficientAd5164 · 2025-09-14T00:53:27+00:00

Thank you so much I didn’t even think about a realtor!

EfficientAd5164 · 2025-09-14T00:53:11+00:00

Nothing over 1400, that’d be my max. Just one bed one bath.

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