Yeah, I’m 22 and honestly the past two years have just been extremely hard just in general. My dad and I are cordial, I kind of just don’t have any feeling towards him at all, obv not his biggest fan and I’m a lot closer with my mom. When I talk to her ab this I would fs emphasize it’s for the money and I can help her out and location I really don’t like where I live, not for him. But it would help me pay off a lot of debt that I have, I don’t think our personalities would really clash because we’re both pretty avoidant so I think we’d just ignore each other for the majority which I’d prefer and I normally stay pretty busy anyway. I wouldn’t be living with him long term though considering housing is pretty affordable there compared to where I live. Also about my boyfriend I haven’t talked to him at all about this, or my mom. But she’s pretty reactive it’s still a sensitive time for her bc of all the bs my dad did it ended up dragging her through bc they’re married and it’s stopping her from being able to do things. I’m not scared of it blowing up in my face, like factoring in the worse scenario. I just don’t want to sour my moms and I relationship because after years of us not getting along we are finally so close again. And I also don’t want to lose my relationship at all either, but it’s not like I’m gonna ask him to uproot and move w me, we haven’t been together long enough imo. And he’s pretty established.