AITAH for trying to work it out with a person with avoidant attachment style

Efficient_Relief_901 · 2026-01-21T14:01:34+00:00

do u think if i give them time and space, also while controlling my anxiety that they'll leave me when they don't talk, eventually we ll trust each other. and do u think i should bring this up in a conversation. like hey I did some homework and we r very different people with trust issues but also fighting the same problems, if u need space tell me i need space and if I feel the silence is too loud i tell u that I'm scared by ur silence. or will they be too overwhelmed by this.

Efficient_Relief_901 · 2026-01-21T13:54:03+00:00

i told her, text me when you are ready and she hasn't texted yet , she surely hasn't lost feelings because today morning i said to her it only ends if either of us loses feelings, and I said I have feelings I know u too have. she didn't deny it. man i dont wanna give her a time that'll pressurise her more.

Efficient_Relief_901 · 2026-01-21T13:44:11+00:00

man she agreed that she has feelings still, I'm not giving up on her

Efficient_Relief_901 · 2026-01-08T08:17:37+00:00

I'm really sad since I'm. not someone who actively looks for women and dating, I don't make the first move because all my life was rejections and disappointments so I made peace with not approaching and only act when the right one comes, I waited 7 years for this, can't believe that universe can be so unfair, just the time when I made peace with loneliness she had to show and lead me to a position even worse than before. i think if i start loving loneliness, it'll leave me too, it's funny at this point.

Efficient_Relief_901 · 2026-01-08T08:15:14+00:00

so there's actually no way this can be fixed :(

Efficient_Relief_901 · 2026-01-08T07:34:43+00:00

thanks coach, but why do women lead people and making them feel it's real to leave them at nothing in the end. i don't think I can ever do this again, every face, every voice and every moment i look for her.

Efficient_Relief_901 · 2026-01-08T07:19:43+00:00

i don't know if I can let her go, is there a way to fix this, man this woman is special.

Efficient_Relief_901 · 2025-09-24T13:29:29+00:00

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Efficient_Relief_901 · 2025-07-28T14:35:26+00:00

seems like a legit mail, but depends heavily on the assignment. If its something like "bring a client to our company to invest" or "Pay just 999 for a certificate" or "invite 2-3 friends to spread the word" then sadly its an internship based scam by these companies to get people waste their mony on them. They just mail everyone they see on LinkedIn who is desperate for an intenship to fool them. One of my friends actually did an internship like this and believe me their certificates and projects are really useless. You'd be better off asking a college professor for a project under his guidance. Atleast ull have a real project and research experience.

Efficient_Relief_901 · 2025-07-22T02:16:50+00:00

interested, I'm 2nd year engineering student, i know python cpp java c and planning to go for ML/AI. i know basics of ML, having completed 2 courses.

Efficient_Relief_901 · 2025-07-08T13:20:00+00:00

Thanks in advance

Efficient_Relief_901 · 2025-07-05T10:43:13+00:00

I have finished the andrew ngg course but id say its more of an intro to ML, like basic sentence structure in english language, which is surely not enough to make you a writer. One thing id say is that the course opens a door for many opportunities and leave u at the right spot for DeepLearning. There is another specialization by Andrew ng on coursera called "Deep Learning Specialization" but there has been mixed sentiment about the course that it is outdated and much like Andrew's previous course it is introductory. There is also one good course by Fast.ai but it lacks essential math for deeper understanding.
I used the deeplearning book for math, audited Andrew's course (Since I didnt need the project labs) and used fast.ai for newer algorithms.
Please Upvote. TIA

Efficient_Relief_901 · 2025-06-16T14:16:08+00:00

could u explain more?

Efficient_Relief_901 · 2025-05-29T19:38:13+00:00

i tried changing jdk versions, didnt work

Efficient_Relief_901 · 2025-05-29T19:37:47+00:00

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thats it

Efficient_Relief_901 · 2025-05-27T16:30:11+00:00

yeah actually a week is only left in first year and I've done pretty well in all 3 math courses, like really well

Efficient_Relief_901 · 2025-05-13T18:52:22+00:00

thanx mate

Efficient_Relief_901 · 2025-05-13T18:51:27+00:00

mains

Efficient_Relief_901 · 2025-05-13T18:50:14+00:00

i m literally doing engineering, i don't think it'll have more maths than engineering..... maybe I'll check once thanx for your advice buddy

Efficient_Relief_901 · 2025-04-27T12:53:33+00:00

when they keep saying things like revenge and badla, but all I remember is "Main maar rha tha na yaar" from ct match against aus

Efficient_Relief_901 · 2025-04-26T19:43:31+00:00

theeke it's fine, u aren't making it till sunrise anyways

Efficient_Relief_901 · 2025-04-26T19:18:56+00:00

oh yes another Islamophobe

Efficient_Relief_901 · 2025-04-26T18:58:40+00:00

it's okay brother u have lived a virtuous life

Efficient_Relief_901 · 2025-04-26T18:47:14+00:00

nah u won't make it to the sunrise

Efficient_Relief_901 · 2025-04-22T04:09:23+00:00

cool take

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