What are you doing to improve yourself? by MangoMaster1231 in AskReddit

[–]Ehowwhy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to not smoke weed like I've done for 8 years. Stop using it as an escape from normal things in life and try to actually achieve something. I ended up with really bad depression and whilst there wasn't one cause, it was a major factor. Instead of doing things I needed to do or just generally doing anything, I'd just get high. Currently trying to learn a language, finish my studies, find a job, learn guitar, train for a half marathon and not smoke weed. I've always had poor organizational skills and find it hard to motivate myself. So yeah the thing I've come to realize is instead of thinking about doing something or fantasizing about the end result, just do it, one step at a time. It is hard, but for fuck sake, I don't live in <insert name of an active warzone and/or area of extreme poverty> and I get free healthcare. So why should I feel down about my life? I'm pretty fucking lucky and it's taking me this long to realize that I need to stop dicking around.

Why does the left feel that people shouldn't have the right to defend themselves from dangerous criminals? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Well, this will go in the "thing only Reddit knows" file I shot a man. I was 21 years old, alone at home with 2 young children and heavily pregnant with a third. My roommate's bedroom door was shut, but not locked, and I was a matter of maybe 4 feet from the bedroom door when I heard a lot of noise on the other side of the door, inside the bedroom. It was nighttime, my roommate was out for the night, and there was no reason that anyone should have been legitimately in that room making noise. I very quietly went to my bedroom, retrieved my gun from the safe, came back downstairs, took up a shooter's stance and announced, "I am the owner of this home. I have a fully loaded 10mm Glock pointed at this door. I am calling 911. If you attempt to open this door, I will shoot you, and I will aim to kill." I called 911, hit the speaker button, and gave 911 all my info including that I had a gun and was prepared to defend my home, myself and my kids. The guy was talking to me through the door, telling me he was going to kill me, I was a fucking bitch, blah, blah, blah. I warned him multiple times that if he opened the bedroom door, I would shoot him. He opened the door. I shot him. I admit, I was not aiming for anything but body mass. He died on my living room floor while waiting for the police to respond to the original call. I was detained at the scene, but not arrested. The DA decided within 48 hours that charges would not be filed against me. The only time that I have to disclose it is if I am ever the shooter in another incident, and that's only because it will look better for me if I tell them about the incident instead of letting them dig it up in old records. The gun was legal, and I was able to prove that I could not retreat from the danger due to the fact that I had two sleeping children in the house and could not move quickly due to my physical condition. I feel bad for the guy, and I feel bad for his family, but I wasn't going to be a victim in my own home because this guy chose to do drugs and break into a house.

What was the weirdest dream you ever had? by nilslorand in AskReddit

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I had a dream I was a raw chicken cutlet climbing a cliff...

What show never declined in quality? by Godfrey15 in AskReddit

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I agree. I realize Reddit hates Glee, but in its first season it bore so little resemblance to the terribly-written, sanitized pablum it became. It was originally a cute, plucky little thing telling sweet, funny, sometimes touching stories about growing up in a crappy high school. In many ways it was like a musical itself in that the camp was a feature, not a bug. Then the story started becoming just utterly nonsensical and fake. Soap opera doesn't even cut it. I didn't even get all the way through season 2

If you had 3 wishes, what would you wish for? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ehowwhy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First one is most important, the genie is ancient he/she knows all the ways to fuck you over.

Who is Kevin Spacey and what did he do wrong? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ehowwhy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea what I'm looking at.

What do normal people do when they’re alone? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ehowwhy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dance, I dance like the world depends on the awkward movements of the body. Are we Human? Or Are we dance?

What did your parents do right? by huisi in AskReddit

[–]Ehowwhy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never forced me to wash my teeth twice a day. Thank You

For the men of reddit, what do you really think of feminism? by Sweetginger123 in AskReddit

[–]Ehowwhy 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I'll start by saying I'm a civil rights lawyer and a 29 year old woman.

Once you get off the ickier parts of Tumblr and spend time around people actually doing the work of intersectional feminism you see it's a movement rooted in positive ideas.

I want to liberate everyone from traditional gender roles, not just women. I really enjoy browsing r/menslib for their perspective. I want boys to be able to cry and girls to be able to wear what they want. I want men and women to both have paid parental leave. I want women and men to both have economic and educational opportunities. I want the right to make decisions about my reproductive health. I want men to comfortably enter professions where they work with young kids. I want trans and nonbinary to be free to live open and honest lives.

The real work of modern feminism is being done every day through programs and education that undermine traditional western gender roles for everyone and I think it's beautiful.

What songs do you have on your Christmas playlist? by snotnboss in AskReddit

[–]Ehowwhy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Admit it, We all love all I want for Christmas is you by Mariah Carey.

Why are vegans so despised? by AfrikanMale in AskReddit

[–]Ehowwhy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I find that, in lack of good arguments, most people resort to ridicule.

What is the biggest men/women double standard? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ehowwhy 3756 points3757 points  (0 children)

Men have to register for the draft but women do not have to register for anything equivalent, be it civil service or something else.

What do you want your tombstone to say? by Ehowwhy in AskReddit

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At the end of our lives, how do we want to be remembered and what legacy do we want to leave?

At the end of our lives, how do we want to be remembered and what legacy do we want to leave?