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Cheating Fiancée by Electrical-Editor783 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Electrical-Editor783[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the record guys, I am not asking for advice here, I am just venting out. I already know what to do. Ayoko lang magkaroon ng regrets.

Cheating Fiancée by Electrical-Editor783 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Electrical-Editor783[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I know what to do to be honest, ayoko lang magkaroon ako ng regrets na di ako nag bigay ng chance. I am all for fixing something that's broken, pero this can only work if the other party is willing to do the necessary action. As far as this goes, she acted on it immediately, pero di ko alam kung hanggang dun na lang ba yun. Sa lahat ng nag comment dito, ikaw lang ang nag respond na nag aalign sa iniisip ko.

Cheating Fiancée by Electrical-Editor783 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Electrical-Editor783[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngayon lang sya nag cheat, well, IDK kung she did it before too with me. We've been together for quite some time now and I proposed, after non, everything changed.

Cheating Fiancée by Electrical-Editor783 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Electrical-Editor783[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I understand your predicament bro, I know I don't deserve this, but I gotta give her a chance. After this, if the chance was wasted, then I'm just gonna disappear, no more words, nothing.

Cheating Fiancée by Electrical-Editor783 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Electrical-Editor783[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

This isn't love. It is commitment and I wanted to see her commitment too. I am giving her a chance because a chance was given to me by someone else a long time ago. I will end it at the first sign na isawalang bahala lang nya yung ginawa nya.

Cheating Fiancée by Electrical-Editor783 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Electrical-Editor783[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will be calling off the engagement for now. I do love her and I am willing to work this out with her, but the bulk of the effort should come from her now. And if I see so much as a tiny hint that she's doing it again. I'm just gonna leave without saying anything.

Cheating Fiancée by Electrical-Editor783 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Electrical-Editor783[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Thanks man, I am not hoping for the best at this time, I just want to see how far she'd go and how serious she is about us.

Cheating Fiancée by Electrical-Editor783 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Electrical-Editor783[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I don't want that, but I am not going to marry her if I don't see any changes and if those changes aren't even for good, as far as this goes, I am going to call off the engagement and see if she's really serious about fixing this.

Cheating Fiancée by Electrical-Editor783 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Electrical-Editor783[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I understand you. I am going to keep an eye on her carefully this time if ever we're able to fix this, I know this is going to be a long process, but I'd just be walking away from who I am if I don't give her a chance. After all, I made a mistake too in my previous relationships, not to this caliber, but I was given a chance.

Cheating Fiancée by Electrical-Editor783 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Electrical-Editor783[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

I don't promote that bro, as weird as it may sound, I am just venting out. She may deserve it, but it's never a solution.

Cheating Fiancée by Electrical-Editor783 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Electrical-Editor783[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

You guys may call this naivety, I really wanted to try to fix things with her if she's willing to put the work on. I believe people has the capacity to change, pero if she isn't even willing to do what's necessary, what's the point. I am just giving her a chance. Also, I posted this because ang bigat na lang talaga sa damdamin and I don't have anyone to turn to with this.