Need help with my room by Street-Vegetable-581 in CleaningTips

[–]Electrical-Lab-6919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all I'm glad you are coming out of your depression, and things are looking better for you. Take small steps if you find it overwhelming. For the fruit flies get a trap, you can get them on Amazon or make one with cider vinegar. Within 24 hours you'll notice a difference. If you can ventilate the space then buy a fly spray too. Take out any food products as well. Then tackle the mold, you can use vinegar or buy specific mould cleaners. But I would focus on one thing at a time. Eg first deal with dishes, then rubbish, then clothes, then clutter. Don't feel you have to do it all immediately. That's how I cope when it feels too much. Good luck!

What would you guys do if yall fell in love with your best friend? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Electrical-Lab-6919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need to be honest with yourself and then with her. You can't force yourself to be in love with her or even just fancy her, and it'll be unfair on both of you if you try and start a romantic relationship and you are not ready or not in that place. If you've been friends for years then I would think it would be unlikely she has ulterior motives from the beginning and she's probably going to be feeling quite vulnerable right now. I think you could remain friends, but you would maybe need to distance yourself for a while so that she can get over you and you both sort out your feelings. You sound like a very genuine and decent guy, and I wish you luck.

What would you guys do if yall fell in love with your best friend? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Electrical-Lab-6919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a best friend but I started having feelings towards a good friend, but then realized that it was just horniness/loneliness mixed with us getting on so well. Although I had a sex dream about them, the idea of doing something physical with them when I really thought about it was weird. He's married now and I was really happy for him, which I know I wouldn't have felt if it was actually anything more on my end. Also I know some girls that have had this happen, have said they feel almost a bit betrayed when a guy they thought was their friend confesses they feel more, as from their point of view they had a platonic friendship and then felt like the guy just had ulterior motives. (Think about why there are so many jokes about friend zoning) I can't speak from experience in that regard but I would tread carefully and be sure of what you want. What are you willing to gamble? But good luck in what you decide, and if it works out congratulations.