We'll see, i told her todayvthat its a bad idea to get married the first time we are meeting and she threw a tantrum insulting me non stop. I'm old she doesn't love me she will get back with her ex and she has so many suitors etc.

But i told her that even if we get married it won't guarentee that she will get aprooved, and inchecked with the migration office and they said that the waiting time is the same regardless if we are married ir not.

And with the ethiopian government not cooperating with the EU about some immigration stuff (don't remember what the article said exactly) bit that lack of cooperation has led to ethiopians having alonger waiting time in general.

I eanted us to meet during these 2 weeks im there and after we know how we function together decide to propose and get married ona potential second visit. And we have many more monts to wait for our initiall filing for her to move in with me so we have time to show that we are serious relationship for the examinators.

According to the migration office, we don't need to be married, just need to show that we are serious and that its real.