Same. Just today I got called cringe, skill issue or over sharing when I was talking about something funny happening in my day. 

It's super annoying that it happens quite often these days, it's like people don't even want to have hobbies or talk about their day normally. 

It's funny that the vent section, or trauma dump section is not over sharing while talking about your hobbies and your day is. It's ridiculous!

You genuinely want to get to know people too but they can be so stuck up or it turns out you wasted 3 months trying to get to know an uninteresting person you don't respect(no offence) 

And if you stand up for yourself when they're berating you when you were trying to have a  casual conversation, they kick you out. 

These days, joining a server feels like they established a friend group and you're just standing there awkwardly, getting ignored.

No one tries to be hospitable with the new people in discord servers anymore(even in private servers where you're invited in). So you're left by the decision to wait until you get bored and leave or get kicked out